Why You Love Your Partner but Don’t Want Sex

Have a question for me? Just ask: https://shop.sexwithemily.com/pages/ask?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=yt-B_NJuDUJF5I&utm_content=description Real people. Real questions. No filters. In this hotline episode I take live calls from listeners navigating some of the most common and least talked about sexual dilemmas — from a woman in a good relationship who can’t stop fantasizing about women, to a 19-year-old whose birth control has wiped out her desire entirely, to a man trying to reconnect with his wife after a miscarriage, and more. These are the conversations people carry around for years without ever knowing who to ask. Let’s talk about them. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. CONNECT: Best Sex Ever Tour:⁠ https://sexwithemily.com/events⁠ Shop With Emily:⁠ https://shop.sexwithemily.com⁠ Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠ X:⁠ https://twitter.com/sexwithemily⁠ Facebook:⁠ https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠ TikTok:⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily⁠ Threads:⁠ https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily⁠ WANT MORE? Visit the Website⁠: https://sexwithemily.com⁠/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides⁠: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/⁠ Text With Me⁠: https://sexwithemily.com/text⁠ Receive Sex Tips On The Regular⁠: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe⁠ Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go t⁠o http://sexwithemily.com/coachin⁠g to apply! Chapters: 0:00 Live Hotline: Real Questions About Sex, Desire, and Connection 1:19 Call 1: I’m Fantasizing About Women But I’m in a Relationship With a Man 3:30 Why Moving In Together Can Kill the Spark 5:45 Does He Get to Decide Which Fantasies You Can Have? 8:00 How to Tell Your Partner Exactly What You Want in Bed 10:30 The Yes No Maybe List and Why Every Couple Needs It 12:55 Call 2: Birth Control Took My Sex Drive to Zero 14:45 How the Pill Quietly Affects Desire and Mood 16:30 Learning Your Own Body for the First Time 19:00 Call 3: I’m Bisexual and Leaning More Toward Men 21:00 The Double Standard Around Male vs. Female Bisexuality 23:30 Call 4: My Wife Only Wants Sex When She’s Ovulating 26:00 Sex After a Miscarriage: What Couples Get Wrong 30:00 How to Keep Your Sex Life Alive While Trying to Conceive 32:30 Call 5: My Partner Says She’s Lazy in Bed 35:00 Mutual Masturbation as a Learning Tool 37:00 Call 6: 25 Years Married and Suddenly Insecure About My Body 38:15 What to Do When Insecurity Is Getting in the Way of Intimacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices