Overrated: Staying Out Past 10

What would your twenty-year-old self think of you now? Rebecca and Jessica try something new this week: a topic spinner that Rebecca's AI agent built, which lands them on hot takes. They defend three hills to die on, talk about what has changed since forty, and list what would have shocked their younger selves, from loving a wall-to-wall crowd to being thrilled by a 9 o'clock bedtime. Then they spin again for a rapid-fire round of overrated and underrated: staying out past ten, fancy coffee, pumpkin spice everything, flossing, and having the last word. For anyone who has ever realized that peace beats being right.

About the hosts:

Rebecca has spent most of her life organizing, leading, fixing, building, and occasionally overthinking things for others. After decades in corporate and communal leadership, she now works as a coach and guide, helping people navigate life's transitions without losing themselves in the process. She is a partner, a mom, a sister, an auntie, a daughter, a healer, a spiritual teacher and guide, a friend, and a recent dog-mom. Based in California, Rebecca is learning (in real time) how to choose living in alignment with love, truth, and wisdom over the noise of raging hormones and the crumbling patriarchy.

Jessica is a California native who now happily calls Tennessee home — yes, willingly, and yes, she loves it. For the last several years, she has been every kind of mom, including cheer mom, scout mom, room mom, snack coordinator, and calendar manager, to an 8-year-old and a 12-year-old, while also being a wife, daughter, sister, running a business, and leading in the corporate world. Jessica brings heart, sarcasm, and the kind of practical wisdom that comes from juggling a lot and still showing up. She approaches midlife the way she approaches everything: full-on, and with enough humor and prescription hormones to survive it.