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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.Today, I am talking to Kevin Hart. Kevin is an actor, comedian, author, investor, and CEO. Over the years he has become Hollywood’s box office powerhouse, opening ten films at number one at the box office with $4.23 billion revenue at the global box office. In 2020 Hart starred in “Die Hart,” the first production of its kind, created through his digital network, Laugh Out Loud, and Executive Produced through his production company, Hartbeat Productions. Kevin’s memoir, I Can’t Make This Up, debuted at number one on The New York Times Best Sellers List and remained on the Top 10 Nonfiction Hardcover Bestsellers List for ten weeks straight. Kevin’s digital network, the Laugh Out Loud Network, serves as a platform for emerging comedians and is home to two premium series which both feature Kevin – “What the Fit?” and “Cold as Balls.” We get to see Kevin’s serious side as he talks about self love and team effort. He places emphasis on the importance of focusing our energy on finding a solution rather than wasting time on the problem, how team effort is the foundation to all forms of success, why we should always consider both sides of the story, the beauty of cheering for others success and celebrating it with them, and how self love and self appreciation must start with you and not come from someone else.  Truly, there is no shortcut to success. It is earned through hard work, clear purpose, surrounding yourself with the right people, and a multitude of self love.      What We Discuss:00:00:00 Intro00:03:19 Looking in the mirror and being okay with yourself00:07:38 Having parents that opens opportunities for you00:13:06 Don’t focus on the problem, focus on the solution00:20:45 It’s hard to see the good if you’re only seeing the bad00:25:20 The simplest things came from an idea00:35:12 Team effort is the foundation of success00:43:19 Celebrate each other’s success00:58:24 Talk to yourself01:06:47 Looking at things with both lenses01:10:16 You gotta learn it01:15:12 Would you wish pain and suffering for anyone?01:20:50 Critical thinking01:25:27 There is no handbook to fame01:29:56 Kevin on Final FiveEpisode ResourcesMonsters and How to Tame ThemKevin Hart | WebsiteKevin Hart | InstagramKevin Hart | TwitterKevin Hart | FacebookKevin Hart | TikTokLOL! NetworkWant to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

9 Jan 20231h 39min

How many times have you made goals and resolutions and they have just failed every single year? My prayer for each and every single one of you is to have a meaningful, fulfilling, purposeful 2023 so that you can transform your life.This is a completely unique & different goal setting framework that you've never learned. Don't keep applying the same things that failed every year. A new decade needs a new approach and these are the tools needed to win the year!To grab a copy of my book, 8 Rules of Love, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/Key Takeaways:00:00:00 Intro00:01:07 Framework for growth and goal setting00:07:20 Step #1: Focus on the growth00:13:12 Step #2: Observe your opportunities00:18:33 Step #3: Build the ideal action plan00:24:22 Step #4: Learn, launch, and loveLike this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

6 Jan 202330min

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.Today, I am talking to Mark Hyman, MD. Dr. Hyman is the director of the Cleveland Clinic Center for Functional Medicine, and founder and director of The Ultra-Wellness Center. He is the bestselling author of numerous books, including Eat Fat, Get Thin, The Blood Sugar Solution 10-Day Detox Diet, and The Blood Sugar Solution. Dr. Hyman talks about the ultimate benefit of eating the right food for our body. He explains the right ingredients we need to be mindful of for optimal health, the core systems in our body responsible for keeping it healthy, how healing doesn’t just involve one aspect of the body but the entirety to reformat your system, and how our social circle affects our habits and can potentially change our behaviors. Indeed, eating right is equivalent to living well. We are what we eat, therefore, improving our eating habits is one of the secrets to longevity.        What We Discuss:00:00:00 Intro00:02:27 The effects of ultra-processed food00:07:19 What is aging us faster?00:10:34 The foundational basics of self-care00:20:26 Your social circle affects your habits00:27:10 Link between inflammation and aging00:35:44 Damaged proteins00:41:44 Clean diet activates the body’s healing mechanisms00:48:07 The power of a healthy diet00:51:47 The core biological systems of the body01:00:07 Dr. Hyman on Final FiveEpisode ResourcesMark Hyman | WebsiteMark Hyman | TwitterMark Hyman | FacebookMark Hyman | InstagramMark Hyman | YouTubeMark Hyman | BooksThe Doctor's Farmacy PodcastThe Ultra-Wellness CenterWant to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2 Jan 20231h 6min

Today, I'm joined by Haesue Jo, Licensed Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp, with years of experience providing individual and family therapy in community mental health. Her current clinical focus includes working with individuals with a variety of presenting problems, including anxiety, relationship and family issues, trauma, community violence, gender identity, and depression.In this session, we sit down with Ulato Sam as he talks about the challenges he had growing up, the hardships that comes when migrating into a new country as a person of color, overcoming the pressure of preconceived beliefs other people have, and learning the necessary skills and tools to be able to fend for yourself and still have the heart to help others.  Disclaimer: Haesue Jo is not Ulato's actual therapist, and they are not in a therapist-client relationship.This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp.What We Discuss:00:00:00 Intro00:02:32 Growing up in Jamaica00:06:06 Not fully understanding self awareness 00:14:33 Expressing your thoughts without perspective interference00:17:33 The reality of moving into a new place00:22:01 Motivation to overcome societal pressure00:25:16 Where did you learn these skills?00:28:01 The pressure of life never stops00:32:00 “You should eat so as not to get hungry.”00:36:45 We all grow up with different experiences00:40:30 Tools we need to survive and thriveEpisode ResourcesBetterHelpWant to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

30 Dec 202244min

Today, I am talking to Kanwer Singh aka Humble the Poet. Humble is a toronto-bred mc/spoken word artist with an aura that embodies the diversity and resiliency of one of the world’s most unique cities. He stimulates audiences with ideas that challenge conventional wisdom and go against the grain, with dynamic live sets that shake conventions and minds at the same time. Humble's latest EP titled Righteous/Ratchet features the first single H.A.I.R, a celebration of women of all shapes, sizes, hair and walks of life. His self directed video for H.A.I.R has amassed almost 2 million views since its release. The video features YouTube sensation and longtime collaborator, Lilly Singh. His first book Unlearn: 101 Simple Truths For A Better Life was published through Indigo Press in October 2017 and became Heather's Pick and has stayed on the Globe & Mail Bestsellers list since its release. Humble's next book Things No One Else Can Teach Us was released in the fall of 2019. Humble emphasizes the importance of making the relationship you have with yourself the best among all the relationships you currently have. This is because knowing your own self worth will make setting boundaries easier for you and for the people around you. We exchange thoughts on what makes us resilient, why self respect matters more than self-esteem, the constant validation we seek from others, and what makes love so simple.     What We Discuss:00:00:00 Intro00:04:54 Why do we try to impress others?00:06:46 Self-esteem versus self respect00:12:27 What makes us resilient?00:17:04 Not everybody’s going to like you00:20:27 Be in relationship with yourself first00:25:36 There can’t be love if there’s resentment00:34:14 How to develop a healthy relationship? 00:40:21 We are attracted to what’s familiar, not what’s healthy00:54:46 Not getting a reward is not a punishment00:58:47 When you’re in a romantic relationship with someone01:06:45 Love is simpleEpisode ResourcesHumble the Poet | WebsiteHumble the Poet | FacebookHumble the Poet | TwitterHumble the Poet | InstagramHumble the Poet | YouTubeWant to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

26 Dec 20221h 12min

Today, I will be sharing with you my conversation with Whitney Cummings from her Good For You podcast. In this conversation, we deep-dived into codependency and we also did the Vedic personality test from my book, Think Like A Monk, to help better understand yourself. If you want to pre-order the book, 8 Rules of Love, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/Key Takeaways:00:00:00 Intro00:01:07 Codependency00:02:52 Giving is selfish00:04:17 When does self-care become selfish?00:06:24 Friendship is not obligatory00:09:28 We all want an answer00:11:29 Why we choose familiar pain over unfamiliar pain00:13:19 Vedic Personality Test00:15:16 Question #1: Which of the following sounds most like what you’re about?00:16:31 Question #2: What role do you play in your friend circle and family?00:18:42 Question #3: What is most important to you in a partner?00:20:52 Question #4: What do you watch most often on TV?00:25:31 Question #5: What causes you the most pain?00:29:13 Question #6: What is your favorite way of working?00:33:51 Question #7: How would your ideal self spend/spare time?00:36:49 Question #8: How would you describe yourself in 3 words?00:37:22 Question #9: What type of environment do you work best?00:38:41 Question #10: How do you prepare for a vacation?00:40:33 Question #11: How do you feel if you make a mistake?00:45:23 Question #12: What do you do when you have to make a big decision?00:46:52 Question #13: Which best describes your daily routine?00:49:23 ResultsLike this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ If you want to order my book, Think Like A Monk, go to https://thinklikeamonkbook.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

23 Dec 202252min

Today, I am talking to Roxie Nafousi. Roxie is an self-development coach, manifesting expert, author, ambassador for the Mental Health Foundation and Instagram Agony Aunt. Her commitment to transforming the lives of people who suffer with emotional and mental health issues, and helping them to fulfill their potential, has seen her become a well-known figure in the wellness world. She has hosted self love and motivational workshops and events for major brands as well as being a regular speaker on wellness and mental health panels both in and outside the UK.   Roxie opens up about her past, her addiction, and how she found spiritual healing that eventually led her to a better path in life. We both shared our vulnerability as we talk about the real value of manifestation, the misconceptions surrounding it, how fear and doubt can hold us back from manifesting our goals, and how we can continue to manifest the goals we want to achieve alongside the priorities we currently have.   Having clear goals will help us set a clearer vision of the future we want to have. And when we work hard to achieve these goals, its manifestation is put into action.    What We Discuss:00:00:00 Intro00:03:10 When did your spiritual journey start?00:07:43 Tapping in drugs and addiction00:10:48 Manifesting the wrong things00:14:07 How do we manifest negativity?00:17:02 Devaluing the meaning of manifestation00:21:43 Misconceptions about manifestation00:24:27 Having clear goals00:30:22 Fear and doubt00:36:05 Self care through fear and doubt00:41:23 Does manifestation and prioritization work together?00:45:44 Mom guilt00:50:01 Legally changing a name00:54:24 Who you want to be01:00:35 Being clear with your vision01:03:14 What does envy represent01:08:59 Finding joy in other people’s losses01:11:53 Building self respect01:16:45 Roxie on Final FiveEpisode ResourcesRoxie Nafousi | InstagramRoxie Nafousi | FacebookRoxie Nafousi | TwitterRoxie Nafousi | WebsiteManifest: 7 Steps to Living Your Best LifeWant to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

19 Dec 20221h 23min

Today, I will be sharing with you seven questions you can ask yourself before the year ends to help you get a clear insight of how this year went, the ups and downs, the special moments, and the things you might want to do away or restart next year. These reflections will help you realize what you may want to do differently this new year.  If you want to pre-order the book, 8 Rules of Love, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/Key Takeaways:00:00:00 Intro00:02:46 Question #1: What is the challenge that you’ve overcome this year?00:06:24 Question #2: What’s a surprise you dealt with?00:09:24 Question #3:What is something you bought this year?00:11:45 Question #4: What’s the best book/podcast you read/listened to?00:13:04 Question #5: What are your blind spots for next year?00:14:03 Question #6: What made you the happiest this year?00:16:14 Question #7: Who’s the person you couldn’t have gotten through this year without?Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

16 Dec 202221min