7 Signs You Need To Let Go Of A Relationship & 6 Steps To Finally Break It Off

Healthy disagreements are common in any relationship. Couples are bound to talk about so many different things that affect their relationship, their personal choices, their work or career, and their individual lives. But there are topics that are somehow uncomfortable to openly discuss, which can lead to arguments and misunderstandings. And when they are unable to talk about these difficult issues, it puts a strain on their relationship. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about how to become more open to your partner by checking in with them regularly while expressing your own thoughts and emotions. Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Key Takeaways: 01:52 The difficult conversations we try to avoid but need to have 04:34 Topic #1: Is this relationship going in the direction you want to? 11:28 Topic #2: Do we want to have children? 16:09 Topic #3: How do you feel about your purpose? 21:16 Topic #4: Are you surrounded by people you want to be around? 24:15 Topic #5: Find out if you are financially compatible with your partner Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

16 Juli 202128min

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.Esther Perel talks with Jay Shetty about how the quality of our relationships affect our daily life, the right mindset when seeking love, creating a connection, or keeping a partnership, and the biggest relationship challenges during the pandemic.Belgian psychotherapist Esther Perel is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker and podcast host. Her celebrated TED talks have garnered more than 30 million views and she is also the host of the popular podcast Where Should We Begin? and How's Work?. Her newest project is Where Should We Begin - A Game of Stories. Learn more at EstherPerel.com/TheGameWhat We Discuss with Esther:00:00 Intro02:17 The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives04:37 Relationship challenges while in quarantine and lockdown08:55 Approaching a relationship at times of pressure13:26 Resetting expectations of ourselves and boundaries of our space18:23 When you’re putting an effort but your partner is unresponsive22:14 Skills we lost in the pandemic and the skills we gained27:47 Playing the ‘Where Should We Begin?’ game33:58 Asking boring questions makes you feel that people are boring36:48 Relationships about death, sex, and money39:48 The intention or mindset one should approach love and relationships when seeking out a partner42:57 From feeling madly in love to then feeling out of love, when they weren’t truly in love45:36 What are the deepest, truest root reasons that relationships fail?52:00 Have you been affected by the experience of infidelity in your life?57:21 When to break up and move, when to stay and hold on59:55 Fill in The Blanks01:01:30 Esther on the Final Five01:06:30 Meeting people who are truly happy and purposefulLike this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!Episode Resources:Esther Perel | WebsiteEsther Perel | InstagramEsther Perel | TED SpeakerEsther Perel | YouTubeEsther Perel | LinkedInEsther Perel | AmazonEsther Perel | FacebookWhere Should We Begin? PodcastWhere Should We Begin: A Game of StoriesAchieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

12 Juli 20211h 11min

While many of us are going after our dreams, working our way to finding true happiness, some are focused on finding their purpose. The purpose to serve others, the purpose to create a better career path, the purpose to being a better person. Finding your purpose can come in many different forms and can become a life-long ordeal because some people just don’t have the right tool and support to find their life’s purpose. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about the Pursuit of Purpose, about believing in your potential and being persistent in achieving your goals. Get the free workbook, masterclass replays, and so much more today at www.jayshettypurpose.com Key Takeaways: 01:44 Most people don’t pursue the Pursuit of Purpose 03:05 Believing in, recognizing, and knowing your POTENTIAL 03:51 The two lies you were told growing up 06:35 The first way to recognize your potential is GRATITUDE 11:58 Now that you’ve recognized your potential, understand your PASSION 16:08 The DISC Model - identifying your personality type 18:52 Transforming your passion into a daily PRACTICE 23:32 Living with resilience and PERSISTENCE 25:50 Getting coach can change your life 27:27 Join a community, surround yourself with others 29:01 Serving the world through your purpose 32:51 Turning your purpose to a PAYCHECK Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

9 Juli 202137min

Jeanie Buss sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about believing in your own strength in an industry with more male leaders, how you can learn from your own mistakes and take the lead, and that gender doesn’t matter, it’s the people and the talent they have. Jeanie Buss is the controlling owner and president of the Los Angeles Lakers. She is the daughter of Jerry Buss, a real estate investor who later owned the Lakers and other sports businesses. At age 19, she started in the family business as general manager of the Los Angeles Strings professional tennis team, and later became the owner of the Los Angeles Blades professional roller hockey team. What We Discuss with Jeanie: 00:00 Intro 03:46 A memory that you have from being a young girl 06:22 Respect people no matter what their circumstance is 09:05 What are some of those leader's parallels that you're seeing in your journey? 12:59 Don’t let critics and outside detractors feed the outcome 15:33 You can’t sit by the sidelines when you see something is wrong 20:26 If there are people in our community that is suffering, what can we do? 23:44 When a big decision is to be made, everybody looks for a scapegoat 28:54 Overcoming your biggest personal challenge 33:07 Internal rituals for yourself to help stay calm in the chaos 36:22 Gender doesn’t matter, it’s the talent that matters 42:28 What can you learn from LeBron James? 44:44 The best memories shared with Kobe Bryant 50:50 Jeanie on Fast Five Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Episode Resources: Jeanie Buss | LinkedIn Jeanie Buss | Instagram Jeanie Buss | Twitter Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

5 Juli 202148min

Our self-confidence is often tested when we need to speak our minds, start a conversation with someone, do a presentation, or any form of public speaking. This is so true for many. But there are deeper and more challenging ways people struggle with self-confidence. And when we do not have the foundation to help build our confidence, we hesitate, we shy away, and we develop unnecessary fears. These unhealthy reactions to the lack of confidence ultimately affect our way of thinking. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about how highly confident people developed self-confidence and the best practices to keep them going. Key Takeaways: 02:20 We are all seeking self-confidence 04:24 Habit #1: Confident people have worked through their past 11:10 Habit #2: Develop a high-value skill 14:53 Habit #3: Constantly learn new skills 17:14 Habit #4: Have compassion for yourself and for other 20:30 Habit #5: Confidence comes from not reacting but responding slowly 23:00 Habit #6: Knowing your own motivation, self-awareness is confidence 26:07 Habit #7: A confident person is always planning and adapting and visualizing Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2 Juli 202128min

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.Guy Raz talks with Jay Shetty about the risks of being an entrepreneur, the motivation behind every successful entrepreneurship, and finding the right co-founder who shares your ideals and beliefs.Guy Raz is an acclaimed radio and podcast personality, described by The New York Times as “one of the most popular podcasters in history.” Perhaps his best-known show, How I Built This, features in-depth interviews with the world’s greatest innovators, entrepreneurs, and idealists, and the stories behind the movements they built.Sign up for Jay Shetty’s free “Pursuit of Purpose” Live Masterclass at www.jayshettypurpose.comWhat We Discuss with Guy:00:00 Intro02:15 First thing Guy ever built as a kid05:11 “Journalism gave me a psychological pass to talk to anybody” - Guy10:13 The way we come across an idea is when we have a problem to solve17:25 Motivation comes from solving a problem or fixing something23:03 Chapter 3: Leave your safety zone, but do it safely27:56 Risks taken and experiences gained while building a career33:09 Master the skill to understand what you’re good at37:04 Having a business partner is crucial when you almost want to give up41:44 Give yourself time and opportunity to decide if the partnership is right for you44:26 The common myths surrounding fundraising50:20 Be an active listener to learn more information about the real story53:50 The most outlandish story or pain out of 400 interviews done59:55 What you’re missing out on when you think you’re not cut to be an entrepreneur01:03:42 Guy on Fast FiveLike this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!Episode Resources:Guy Raz | WebsiteGuy Raz | PodcastsGuy Raz | TwitterGuy Raz | FacebookGuy Raz | InstagramGuy Raz | LinkedInGuy Raz | YouTubeAchieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGeniusSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

28 Juni 20211h 10min

In every relationship we have, we often set expectations. When these expectations aren’t met, we feel unloved and uncared for. And sometimes, we feel that it’s not working and that it isn’t true love. What we fail to realize is that our expectations are based on our standards, our own ideals, our own terms. OURS, not theirs. It’s one sided. We want the other person to meet our standards, ideals, and goals; but we never consider THEIR own expectations of us. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty explains why setting unrealistic expectations only leads to a failure in your relationship and builds up your insecurities. Sign up for Jay Shetty’s free “Pursuit of Purpose” Live Masterclass at www.jayshettypurpose.com Key Takeaways: 01:34 What are your expectations when you’re in a relationship? 03:45 Expectation #1: We create a list of expectations that we will find 07:07 The three G’s: Goal, Growth, Gratitude 11:20 Expectation #2: Our partner should be perfect 15:50 Expectation #3: Expecting your partner to make you happy 18:56 Expectation #4: Our partners can read our mind 22:20 Expectation #5: Know how to do things we usually do that we’ve never explained 25:33 Expectation #6: Have it all together all the time 27:38 Expectation #7: Our partner want the same things we want 30:03 Expectation #8: Our partner should understand us immediately Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

25 Juni 202132min

Scooter Braun sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about how we aren’t able to truly love ourselves unconditionally, understanding the concept of role models versus real models, and the dangers of living a public life. Scooter Braun is media proprietor, investor, and record executive widely known for managing artists such as Justin Bieber, Ariana Grande, and Demi Lovato. He founded Schoolboy Records and Ithaca Ventures and co-founded 100 Thieves. Sign up for Jay Shetty’s free “Pursuit of Purpose” Live Masterclass at www.jayshettypurpose.com Episode Resources: Scooter Braun | Website Scooter Braun | Instagram Scooter Braun | Twitter Scooter Braun | YouTube Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

21 Juni 20211h 6min