”You did that ON PURPOSE!” The Hurt Feelings of a Covert Narcissist
I’ve worked with children most of my life in different capacities. One of the things they say that bothers me the most is, “They did that ON PURPOSE!” One kid swinging his arms around in the room. An...
14 Jan 202417min
Story of Hope: Surviving the Crash of a Fairy Tale Marriage
Being raised to be a “good girl” sets many of us up for a manipulative and abusive marriage. This is Kathy’s story today. She approached this marriage with so much love, compassion and dedication. He ...
11 Jan 202422min
Story of Hope after Covert Narcissism
With story after story begin full of pain, confusion, anger and depression, it is time to hear some stories of hope. There is life after narcissism! Peace can be found, not from others, but from withi...
7 Jan 202422min
The Narcissist’s Prayer Pt 2 (Special Throwback Episode)
This 2-part series on the Narcissist’s prayer serves a guide through the circular conversations and manipulative tactics of a covert narcissist. Each step expresses a ploy used by the covert narcissis...
5 Jan 202418min
It’s Impossible to Find Normal with a Covert Narcissist
One of the worst things you can say to a victim of covert narcissistic abuse is “every family has their issues. No one is perfect.” Just saying this statement now makes my skin crawl. As a victim of c...
31 Dec 202315min
The Narcissist’s Prayer Part 1 (Special Throwback Episode)
That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it. This sh...
29 Dec 202319min
How to Set Boundaries with a Covert Narcissist
People often come to me and say, “I need to get better at setting boundaries.” Ok, what have you tried so far? I tried telling him/her - I don’t like it when you call me sweetie. I don’t like that nam...
24 Dec 202320min
Episode 5 - How Do We Turn the Survival Skills Off?
So how do we build healthy relationships after being with a covert narcissist? How are these trauma responses affecting us still? How do we turn them off? Our trauma responses to an abusive environmen...
22 Dec 202323min
