23 Dating + Drinks with Ariana (Ariana Nathani)

What goes better with Pride than Joy? We end our Pride month with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to talk about all things love, sex, and relationships. We go deep into about attachment styles and how they affect our relationships, whether we're avoidant, fearful avoidant, anxious, disorganized, or secure. Dr. Joy explains how different types of households and upbringings can affect our attachment styles, and what we need to do to heal ourselves. We discuss therapy, what goes on in couples counseling and how it's not just about trying to keep couples together, but also about finding truth and clarity. Finally we learn some spicy stuff; Dr. Joy tells us about 'lust languages', erotic blueprints, and how to have good sex (spoiler alert: it involves sleep!). Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @glowyourgoddess Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

27 Juni 202352min

A few weeks ago we posted a video from @VonMusic about her making music by having orgasms -- and the video EXPLODED. This week we are joined by Von to talk all about HOW she makes music with orgasms, why she does it, and how she feels about people who don't like what she is doing. Von discusses her education in music as well as growing up in a religious household and how she feels about Christianity today. Finally we hear all about different songs to c*m to, songs that feel like an orgasm, songs that have orgasms in them and so many other steamy types of music (playlists c*mming soon!!)   Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @VonMusic Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

27 Juni 20231h 13min

Recently, leading luxury lingerie brand Honey Birdette received backlash after featuring non-binary model, Jake DuPree, on its Instagram. Many who do not even follow the brand quickly flocked to the post, flooding it with phobic language and leading the brand to mute the post after 10,000 comments. We spoke to the center of the scandal; burlesque performer, dancer, model, trailblazer, and extremely positive human, Jake DuPree.  Jake tells us about dealing with the backlash, growing up feeling "other" in a small town, what makes them feel gender euphoria, and the incredible beginning of their dance/burlesque career. We also discuss sports and gender and would love to hear your thoughts as well (DM us!)  Finally, we discuss 'corporate pride' on the whole and how to know which brands actually stand with the causes they feign to represent. Unlike many spineless brands we have seen this pride season, in less than 24 hours, Honey Birdette released a statement of solidarity.   Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @JakeDupree Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

12 Juni 20231h 24min

We're kicking off Pride with Addis Fouché: writer, sex worker, content creator, public speaker, and founder of the inclusive learning app Bitter Blush. Addis tells us about her panel at SXSW and her theory about "The Second Puberty of Queer Adults." What is a second puberty? Do YOU need to go through one? We discuss. Addis also tells us about her coming of age experiences at prep school, life as a queer sex worker, why she developed her app, and so much more. Finally, Addis answers the question, "How DOES fingering work with long nails?" Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @AddisFouche Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

12 Juni 20231h 2min

We're chatting with actor, filmmaker, and musical comedian Eileen Hanley about her journey of coming out later in life, her journey with non-monogamy, and what it's like to share it all on the internet. Eileen shares the joys of being single and queer after being in a straight relationship for 10 years, tells us a few of her favorite O stories, and finally tries to answer the question, "Are queer orgasms THAT much better? And if so... Why?"   Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @glitterwrists Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

16 Maj 20231h 3min

We're chatting with Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander about their new book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. She's a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he's a regular dude. Together they share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. We're talking all about communicating in relationships and how to keep long term relationships spicy. Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @vanessaandxander Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

29 Apr 202352min

What is dating like right now, from a science perspective? We are discussing the annual 'Singles in America' study with Dr. Helen Fisher (Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and Chief Science Advisor to Match.com) and Dr. Justin Garcia (Evolutionary Biologist, Sex Researcher, Professor of Gender Studies and Senior Scientist at The Kinsey Institute and Indiana University). Dr. Fisher and Dr. Garcia give us enlightening statistics on what today's singles are looking for, what they are willing to overlook in a relationship, and the impact that Covid had romantic love.  Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @helenfishersexandlove @drjustingarcia Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com    Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

19 Apr 202349min