Ep62: How rope tops might play with new bottoms who don’t know what they want
Rope Podcast3 Feb 2020

Ep62: How rope tops might play with new bottoms who don’t know what they want

A listener’s question from Co, who asks: What’s a good way to respond to a bottom asking them to tie them - when the bottom has no idea what they want to do. Fox and Mya discuss the topic, talking both in the abstract and concrete, looking at how rope tops can deal with this very common situation. They explore: * Why different types of rope bottoms (experienced and new) might respond with ‘I don’t know’ or ‘I don’t mind’ when a rigger asks them what they want in the scene * Why this kind of question is important, and why it shouldn’t be treated lightly * The type of negotiation style they’d recommend in this situation * Balancing the risks of this situation * Why every rope top isn’t necessarily a good match for every rope bottom * Reminding both parties of some of their ‘responsibilities’ in rope, as well as the importance and detail of communication and consent (we continue to recommend the FRIES consent model) * What you might need to do after the scene * How rope bottoms can avoid the ‘I don’t know’ response in the future!

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Ep208: Tying and Being Tied in Rope Bondage with ADHD

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Ep207: Crab Tie - Rope Focus

Ep207: Crab Tie - Rope Focus

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Ep206: Tying outside a marriage -  An interview with monogamous couple Pearl and Bayowolf

Ep206: Tying outside a marriage - An interview with monogamous couple Pearl and Bayowolf

Bayowolf and Wolfspearl have been married for 42 years and partners in kink for the last 13. Shibari has become a central part of their journey over the past six years, deepening both their connection...

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Ep205 :  Aging as a Rope Bottom - An interview with Pearl

Ep205 : Aging as a Rope Bottom - An interview with Pearl

Pearl began her rope bottoming journey in 2019 at the age of 57, attending Bondage Expo Dallas with her husband, Bayowolf. In preparation for Beach Bind 2021, they dove into the local rope scene, atte...

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Ep204: Combining rope bondage with… Wax Play

Ep204: Combining rope bondage with… Wax Play

In this episode Fox and Mya discuss how you might successfully combine rope play with a very popular form of BDSM activity, wax play! This is usually pouring or dripping molten wax over the skin of a ...

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Ep203: How do you know if you’re ready to be a Rope Educator? (Listener Mail)

Ep203: How do you know if you’re ready to be a Rope Educator? (Listener Mail)

One of our lovely listeners left this comment for us with the following questions: 1. When it comes to being a rope educator, what are the essential skills someone should have? 2. How do you know if...

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Ep202: Fostering community for men who tie men: An interview with Bondage Otter (part2)

Ep202: Fostering community for men who tie men: An interview with Bondage Otter (part2)

BondageOtter(he/they) is the founder of Rope Burn SF, the USA’s first ongoing masc-of-center, rope-specific play party + skill share, with his remaining energy spent volunteering for numerous gay orga...

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Ep201 :  Tips and ideas for men who tie men, An interview with Bondage Otter (part1)

Ep201 : Tips and ideas for men who tie men, An interview with Bondage Otter (part1)

BondageOtter (he/they) is a queer leatherman and rope switch who maintains a private S/M practice while organizing public education and play programs for the community of people who want to tie masc-o...

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