Ep 8 - Reverse Box Theory

You guys, I might be Summer of Outside-ing too hard. On today's show I tell you about my insane and super fun weekend. Some callers are having a similar experience, but we will persevere! We also hear from a caller with an interesting theory she calls Red Flag Inflation Theory about how we perceive so many red flags and icks and what that might mean about us and the people we date. We discuss the article of the week, "My Kids Asked for the Benson Boone Cookie: Here is My Reply" by Jessica Grose (NYT). And lastly we give our takes on the CEO cheating scandal exposed by Coldplay and take some interesting calls on that! Enjoy and I'll see you Wednesday! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

21 Juli 51min

At the start of this year I stressed to everyone how important it is to be writing down your goals for the year, and now it is time for us to check in where we are with them.  We are half way through 2025, so lets have an honest look at where we are and how we can use the next 6 months to accomplish them all. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

18 Juli 25min

Have you ever heated up a bowl of tomato sauce and eaten it like soup?  Well for those who have, I stand with you.  After that bit of housekeeping, I get into your calls.  We hear from a woman who finally met a man after a long time off from dating and is worried she is getting ghosting, and someone who needed a full summer of outside reset. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

16 Juli 49min

Happy Monday everyone! Today I tell you about some great dates I went on with a guy who was weird at texting and couldn't hang well with my friends. My intuition was right about him, and if he wanted to really date me, he would. We also hear some Summer of Outside stories from boats in the Midwest and professional athlete flings in the Northeast. And lastly, Steve did a survey of 100 single women and made a game for us about the biggest red flag names for guys (Sorry 'J' names).   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

14 Juli 50min

I am kicking off my second weekend in the Hamptons, and I couldn’t be more excited for a boat day.  It feels like summer is moving a little too fast, but regardless we remain steadfastly OUTSIDE!  Also, I give you my full list of all of the things I loved in June. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

11 Juli 27min

Some quick dating updates for you before I jump into your calls for the day. A woman calls in with an absolute first regarding a hot hook up with a 25-year-old and why the chicken tenders he ordered really turned her on? We round out the show with some boyfriend sickness, the cutest roommates calling in together, and a downright dangerous man who was living multiple lives. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

9 Juli 50min

I am back from my 4th of July in the Hamptons, and I have updates.  Summer of outside is working her magic as I am flush with some really good updates for you all!  Lucas and I spent our actual 4th DJ'ing literally the whole day but you best believe I left plenty of time for hot dogs, cuppa vodkas, and pool time with Pig and co.  I wrap up playing a clip that really struck me about dating apps and how they are potentially coming to an end.My heart goes out to all of the victims in Texas, here is the article I mentioned to find the best places to help:  https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/07/us/texas-flooding-victims-rescue-donate-help.html?campaign_id=60&emc=edit_na_20250707&instance_id=157990&nl=breaking-news®i_id=74783398&segment_id=201380&user_id=749030e65e7b11e8e3ae7340cb763a01  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

7 Juli 50min

I am off for the Fourth and I am bringing back a couple of my favorite episodes.  First up, I have been talking about it on the pod lately encouraging everyone to listen to it, so here it is...Single Girl Calendar Management!  I finish up with an episode around knowing when it is time to push ourselves to do the things we want. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

4 Juli 29min