The Paddle is Mightier
The Dildorks5 Okt 2021

The Paddle is Mightier

Kate’s debut book 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do is launching in one week, so this week Bex interviews her about the writing process, the philosophy of the book, and how she hopes readers will use it!

Long Title | Why? | Experience Level | Narrowing It Down | Extreme Stuff | Intoxication & Sleepy Sex | Research | Fetishwear | Fragrances | Illustrations | How to Use the Book | Pen Choice | Hardest Part | Research Sources | Writing Process | Launch Party | Blurbs & Acknowledgments

Credits:

Music by PROTODOME

Artwork by Addison Finch

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