
Dealing With Your Past & Leading Through Trauma
The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:33: Should I agree to be the best man in my best friend's wedding if I don't agree with the marriage? 10:24: I'm a married 36-year-old with 4 boys and life is not what I expected. How do I reconcile my expectations and my reality? 20:19: I ran away from home 5 years ago; how do I start reconciling with my family? 33:02: As an ER doctor, how do I talk to my staff after traumatic events? Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D 45:17: Lyrics of the day: "Ghostbusters" - Ray Parker Jr. tags: friendship, marriage, trauma, pain, parenting, counseling, expectations, family, hard conversations, abuse, leadership These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
30 Okt 202047min

First Responders & Trauma, Online Dating Woes, & Compromise in Marriage
The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:09: How do I build resiliency and better help others as a first responder? Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D 20:23: What is the next step for my husband and me? How do we compromise on where we live? 28:29: I met a man online and he lied about his name and marital status 38:56: I'm having trouble getting impulsive behaviors under control 52:27: Lyrics of the day: "Runaway Train" - Soul Asylum tags: trauma, first responders, counseling, mental health, dealing with stress, Laura van Dernoot Lipsky, marriage, disagreement, compromise, communication, dating, relationships, deception, impulsive behavior, coping These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
28 Okt 202055min

Living with In-Laws, Pursuing Friendships, Marriage During Deployment
The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 1:58: I am recently married and living with my husband's parents. How do I motivate him to pay off debt so we can move out? 11:26: How and when do I tell my 5-year-old that his father is really his stepfather? 18:55: I am 24 years old and the youngest of 10 mostly married siblings. How do I maintain relationships with them when they have families of their own? 36:50: Should we put cameras in our house before my husband is deployed overseas? 44:01: Lyrics of the day: "Runaway Train" - Soul Asylum tags: in-laws, marriage, newlyweds, adoption, fatherhood, parenting, siblings, family, friendships, rejection, deployment, military families These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
26 Okt 202047min

Election Anxiety, Fatherhood Wounds, & Premarital Counseling
The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 3:08: Teaching Segment: Dealing with Election Anxiety Blog: How to Deal with Election Anxiety 8:39: I am a very responsible 17-yr-old but feel like I am missing out on the fun of life 17:25: Dad is marrying the mistress he left our family for. Should I go to the wedding and welcome her to the family? 29:57: I just left an abusive marriage. How do I navigate my kids’ relationship with their father? 43:30: I'm getting married soon and my fiancé doesn’t want to do pre-marital counseling 51:52: Lyrics of the day: "Faith" - George Michael tags: election, politics, voting, anxiety, responsibility, growing up, forgiveness, marriage, reconciliation, remarriage, values, faith, abuse, parenting, premarital counseling, engagement, communication These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
23 Okt 202054min

Repairing Relationships, Parenting Challenges, & Newlywed Drama
The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 4:39: How do I repair my relationship with my grown kids after damaging our relationship when they were younger 17:30: My 2-year-old has reverted back to breastfeeding since we recently had a baby 29:40: How do I deal with hurt feelings from something my child said? 38:18: How do I deal with with my wife triggering me in our new marriage? 49:24: Lyrics of the day: "Stand By Me" - Ben E. King tags: forgiveness, family relationships, parenting, reconciliation, breastfeeding, boundaries, raising kids, divorce, newlyweds, marriage, conflict These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
21 Okt 202052min

Depression, Adoption, & Tech Boundaries with Kids
The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 4:04: My husband is going through deep depression; how do I support him? 20:50: I'm retiring next year with plenty of money but no plan on what to do 26:35: Teaching Segment: Tech boundaries for kids 36:42: A caller tells his story about his own video game addiction 41:49: I put a child up for an open adoption 3 years ago and it is getting difficult as she gets older 50:46: Lyrics of the day: "Love Song" - Tesla tags: depression, counseling, retirement, goals, technology, boundaries, kids, addiction, screen time, video games, adoption, parenting These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
19 Okt 202053min

Teen Suicide, ADHD, & Blaming Others vs. Taking Responsibility
The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:45: My fiancée is super competitive. How do I support his desire to be "awesome"? 14:39: My son is a senior in high school - how do I help him deal with his anxiety & ADHD? 34:53: My niece has mentioned thoughts of suicide - how do I help her? 47:29: Lyrics of the day: "Blessings" - Chance the Rapper tags: competition, crossfit, contentment, self-worth, fight club, ADD, ADHD, anxiety, teenagers, responsibility, kids, suicide, self-harm, sexual abuse, family, social media, responsibility These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
16 Okt 202049min

Bitterness, Forgiveness, & Fear of Change
The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:47: I want to make a career change but the idea of disappointing people cripples me The Proximity Principle - Ken Coleman The War of Art - Steven Pressfield 11:25: I've been married 20 years and my husband won’t engage about finances 24:24: My dad cheated on my mom for their entire 25 years marriage; I want a relationship with him but I don’t know how to get past the hurt 33:42: Lyrics of the day: "I Remember You" - Skid Row tags: fear, career, failure, Ken Coleman, Steven Pressfield, finances, communication, marriage, Esther Perel, counseling, forgiveness, bitterness, infidelity, parents, family, boundaries, hard conversations, forgiveness for things in the past, fear of failure These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
14 Okt 202035min