What Can We Learn from Cynics?

Couples in the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle often say that their levels of connection, intimacy, and communication became better after they started experimenting with this fetish. While this fetish can be a positive thing in your life, it can also potentially cause a lot of tension and heartache too. Today we talk about cucking and many of its related kinks and what you need to consider before cucking.

17 Nov 202219min

While it’s your job as a Dominant and a partner to protect and encourage your sub, when it comes to the scene, the rules of reality no longer apply. When a sub asks, or begs, you to hurt them, or choke them, or pull their hair, then the best choice you can make is to give them the pleasure they desire in that scene. Today we talk about ways you can safely cultivate your Dominant identity within a kink scene.

16 Nov 202215min

Having a partner with whom we can communicate freely and easily is a fundamental piece of the puzzle when it comes to achieving genuine closeness. Yet, even the most communicative of couples can struggle when it comes to finding an adaptive way to give each other feedback. These four principles make the biggest difference when it comes to achieving communication where both people feel seen, heard, and closer to each other.

15 Nov 202213min

There may be no such thing as the perfect partner, but an ideal partner can be found in someone who has developed themselves in certain ways that go beyond the surface. While we each seek out a specific set of qualities that is uniquely meaningful to us alone, there are certain psychological characteristics both you and your partner can aim for that make the flame stronger, more passionate and more fulfilling.

14 Nov 202217min

Today's episode looks at something that was written on FetLife about Bratting and Brat Taming as an opinion article. We draw from what the article describes and translate it for you using traditional BDSM meanings.

13 Nov 20229min

Begging is something that many people include in their BDSM relationship. To each person, it is used for different reasons and causes different reactions. Begging affects those involved on both a physical level and a mental one. Today we talk about how to use begging within your play and within power exchange relationship.

12 Nov 20229min

Primal Piggy shares a quick, informal word about how you can become a Supporter of BDSM United Podcast. Many people have asked us to do Interviews on the podcast and we think that's a great idea! We simply need one small upgrade to our equipment in order to do so. We are looking for 12 supporters to contribute a one-time gift of $10. https://anchor.fm/bdsmunited/support or CashApp $PrimalPiggy

12 Nov 20222min

BDSM? What is this? Today's podcast assumes you know nothing about our culture and lifestyle and is a first step toward understanding BDSM. We give both a definition and define the common words we use.

11 Nov 202226min