S3 Ep. 7: Open Relationships, The Myth of the Simultaneous Orgasm, and How Soon is Acceptable to Make a Move After a Break Up?

S3 Ep. 7: Open Relationships, The Myth of the Simultaneous Orgasm, and How Soon is Acceptable to Make a Move After a Break Up?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I’m a 36-year-old straight woman and just broke up with my ex. Something that always bothered my ex was that we didn’t have an orgasm at the same time. I learned to fake it to avoid him getting annoyed or upset if we didn’t ‘come together’ during intercourse, but I don’t want to do that anymore. All the men I’ve slept with seem to expect this will happen. I can’t be the only one not having simultaneous orgasms. How do I deal with this?


2) A married man I have always found very attractive has split from his wife. He’s a friend of a friend that I’ve met a few times at a party. I don’t know why they split up, but it happened about a month ago. My question is when is the right/acceptable time to make a move after a break up? I suspect he will be snapped up fast! My friend is more friendly with him than his wife and says she is happy to organize a way for us to meet again.


3) My partner and I have been together for 18 months and want to explore open relationships. We think of each other as our ‘rocks’ and the person to make long-term goals with, but want to explore other sexual relationships. We both know it will take constant and consistent communication. But what are some other rules and boundaries that will help us find the right fit without it affecting our relationship in a negative way? Neither of us have tried this before but we are both quite excited about it.


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