S4 Ep. 3: Weed and Desire, Sex after Breast Cancer, and How to Hit the 'Reset' Button for Sex

S4 Ep. 3: Weed and Desire, Sex after Breast Cancer, and How to Hit the 'Reset' Button for Sex

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I don’t know where to start but please help because our sex life is such a mess! We’ve been married for 12 years and it’s the usual story: things started out great, then we got bored and sex got less and less frequent. Now we barely do it and it’s awkward and not pleasurable. Don’t tell me to try something new because it’s beyond that. I wish we could wipe the slate clean and start again. What advice do you have for me?


2) What’s your view on recreational drugs and whether they help or hinder sex? My libido seems to be dwindling with age (I’m 47) but when I smoke marijuana, I feel much more in the mood. The problem is, after we’ve had a good sex session while stoned, sex without the drug seems even more boring. Am I creating another problem for myself?

3) I was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive breast cancer in my 30s (though am almost four years cancer free now). Returning to sex after surgeries and scars was difficult and I’ve read so many stories of women that have faced the same thing. From hair loss, loss of breast, and early menopause, so many women are struggling to find their way back to enjoying sex. I'd love to hear your perspectives on body image and sex, especially after surgery.


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S12 Ep. 8: Anal Sex, Older Lovers, and How to Stop Being Distracted During Sex

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S12 Ep. 7: Sexual Confidence, Starter Sex Toys, and Why Did He Change with Her and Not Me?

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m 38, have been single for a long time, and haven’t had sex in ages. I’ve now met someone and I’m panicking about having...

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S12 Ep. 6: Fantasizing to Spice Up Married Sex, Eye Gazing, and Why Can’t He See My Affair as a Positive Thing?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Is it wrong to fantasize about another person when you are in bed with your partner? I’ve been married for a very long tim...

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S12 Ep. 5: Sex Dreams, Video Sex, and Wobbly Erections

S12 Ep. 5: Sex Dreams, Video Sex, and Wobbly Erections

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I get on well with my boss, but don’t find him attractive in any way. The other night, I had an extremely hot explicit dre...

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S12 Ep. 4: I'm Not Attracted to My Overweight Wife, He Hates My 'Trick,' and Why Can't I Orgasm with Her?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I am a straight man and have had a few long-term relationships in my life. Although I enjoy sex, I never ejaculate during ...

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My girlfriend and I seem to be going through a ‘dry spell.’ We haven’t had sex for about three months, and we used to have...

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S12 Ep. 2: Penis Sleeves, Hot Humiliation, and the Top Three Things We'd Never Do in Bed

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I have some questions for each of you, rather than one of my own. Tracey, you’re always talking about the right things to ...

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a 50-year-old woman and new to sex toys. I’ve tried a few Rabbit vibrators and find them all much too powerful and rou...

11 Dec 202425min

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