S10 Ep. 9: Distracted Sex, Sex After Divorce, and Am I On Course to Become a Serial Cheater?

S10 Ep. 9: Distracted Sex, Sex After Divorce, and Am I On Course to Become a Serial Cheater?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I split with my husband of 14 years and my divorce has just come through. I’m a combination of nervous and excited. The marriage wasn’t bad, it was just boring and the sex was never good or satisfying. I’m now ready to get out there and start dating again, but I’m nervous about sex. Any tips on how to ease back into it? I’m 46.


2) I love my wife but I have just finished a work affair that lasted two months. I didn’t finish it, she did. The affair was just sex—she chased me, rather than me making the moves—so I guess you would call it an opportunistic affair. I’ll miss the sex, but I’m glad it’s over and I am praying my wife will never find out. What concerns me though is how easy I found it to cheat. Is this a male thing? It meant nothing to me, but I know my wife sure as hell wouldn’t view it that way. I feel ashamed now that it’s over, but I didn’t while I was having it. Does this mean I will do it again?


3) How do I stay in the moment during sex? I am so easily distracted, half the time I forget I’m actually having sex. I drift off into my own world, thinking about things I have to do or things I want to buy.


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S10 Ep. 4: Dry Orgasms, Weird Sex Toys, and Same-Sex Skills

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I think my partner is faking orgasm because when he ejaculates, no semen comes out. The first time it happened, I asked hi...

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S10 Ep. 3: BDSM Kinks, What to Do if You 'Miss' an Orgasm, and Why Can't I Move On from My Husband's Mid-Life Crisis?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I love watching BDSM porn and have a masochistic kink. My wife enjoys sex, but is pretty conservative in what she likes. I...

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S10 Ep. 2: He Wants to Open Up Our Relationship, the Link Between Oral Sex and Cancer, and Can Every Woman Orgasm?

S10 Ep. 2: He Wants to Open Up Our Relationship, the Link Between Oral Sex and Cancer, and Can Every Woman Orgasm?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner of four years has a friend who has opened up their relationship after having been married for nine years. Appar...

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S10 Ep. 1: I'm 50 and My Sex Drive Has Gone, Sex in Front of a Mirror, and Tips on Handling Uncircumcised Penises!

S10 Ep. 1: I'm 50 and My Sex Drive Has Gone, Sex in Front of a Mirror, and Tips on Handling Uncircumcised Penises!

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner’s favorite position is doggy-style in front of a mirror. I hate sex from behind—I like face-to-face positions s...

22 Maj 202428min

S9 Ep. 10: My Partner Won't Give Me What I've Asked for in Bed, 'Tension Orgasms', and Why Does My Partner Prefer Porn to Sex with Me

S9 Ep. 10: My Partner Won't Give Me What I've Asked for in Bed, 'Tension Orgasms', and Why Does My Partner Prefer Porn to Sex with Me

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) When I first got together with my partner of four years, we had lots of fun tying each other up. That stopped about a year...

17 Apr 202421min

S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed?

S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I feel like your inbox for this podcast is full of questions like mine. I’ve been married for 26 years, and our sex life q...

10 Apr 202423min

S9 Ep. 8: Should You Stay if Your Partner Has No Interest in Making Sex Good, What to Do if He Orgasms Too Quickly, and Why Did my New Trick Backfire?

S9 Ep. 8: Should You Stay if Your Partner Has No Interest in Making Sex Good, What to Do if He Orgasms Too Quickly, and Why Did my New Trick Backfire?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband and I are each other’s first loves. We’re now twenty years on, 10 years married with a child and I feel at a lo...

3 Apr 202423min

S9 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, How to Suggest a Threesome, and 24-year-old Male Virgins

S9 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, How to Suggest a Threesome, and 24-year-old Male Virgins

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I love sex and I love the feeling of orgasm, but I’ve never been able to have more than one. Are all women capable of mult...

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