Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, 128: Birth Mother Support

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, 128: Birth Mother Support

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 2, 128: Birth Mother Support Birth Mothers need and want your support as an adoptive family. Here are some ways you can effectively show your support. (Always make sure these ideas and suggestions are in compliance with your state adoption laws, your attorney and/ or agency adoption laws.) Send support notes to your birth mother that are handwritten that she can save forever. A small note can carry a big message. Make sure that you understand what is appropriate to include and avoid anything that could be deemed as “coercion.”If a holiday occurs during the time you are matched, make sure you find out what your adoption entity allows and partake in any event or gift they suggest. Focusing on the birth mother rather than on the baby she is carrying.If your adoption agency or attorney informs you of an unexpected situation and you are given the option of additionally funding for your birth mother, maybe for a type of housing, an unforeseen expense or someone of that nature- give serious consideration to doing so if financially you are able to.Really consider compromising on the baby’s name. This will be a HUGE concession with a birth mother. We have discussed the importance of this before and I cannot reiterate this enough- this has caused adoption disruptions, negatively impacted adoptive and birth parent relationships after placement.When arriving at the hospital- don’t arrive empty handed. A basket of hospital necessities for your birth mother may be very well received and appreciated. Your birth mother will not leave empty handed and she will most likely use and enjoy the following items: Fuzzy socksLotionMints or candyA hair brush and hair ties

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Birth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep201: Being Thankful in All Things

Birth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep201: Being Thankful in All Things

Birth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep201: Being Thankful in All Things Reunification in adoption doesn't always work out the way we think.   Finding ways to be thankful.  Learn about adoption reunifcation when it doesn't work out the way we think it will.

28 Nov 202124min

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep200: November is National Adoption Month

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep200: November is National Adoption Month

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep200: November is National Adoption Month November is National Adoption Month!  Learn how you can suport all members of the adoption triad.  Also, learn how and why the holidays may be difficult for and how you can help!  Keep on learning about all things adoption!

21 Nov 20219min

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 199: People's Fascination With Adoption

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 199: People's Fascination With Adoption

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 199: People's Fascination With Adoption Learn about the reasons society is fascinated with adoption, what the most commonly asked questions are and why it is an issue.

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Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose Adoption

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose Adoption

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2, Episode 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose Adoption There are a multitude of reasons that birth mothers choose adoption.  Here are twenty of the reasons...  Too young- teen momNot ready to be a parentIn financial distressDesire for baby to have the best life possibleStruggling with addictionPregnancy is a result of rape or incestNo support – single parent maybe, no family?Life is presently unstable: unemployed/homelessWanting different things out of life:  College, Demanding Job etc…Family is not in agreement with you parenting a babyBroken up with the birth fatherCPS/DCS- state involvement with other childrenDon't believe in abortion- religiousSignificant/severe health issuesCurrently in a  Domestic Violent situationDon't have the  time/resources/patience for another childDesire for your child raised in a two parent familyThe baby will have special needs and you are unable to care for your babyAdoption is free for BMs and they may be able to receive assistanceThe belief in adoption, maybe experienced adoption before These 20 reason for women choosing to make an adoption plan are only some of the reasons women choose adoption. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

29 Okt 202117min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption Influence

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption Influence

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption Influence What influences society's view of adoption and how does that influence adoptive families? Adoption isn’t taboo, and we need to celebrate it, just like you would the news of a pregnancy.  Share in the joy!   Maybe plan a “Sip & See” after the adoption is finalized? Remember when somone is sharing their exciting news of choosing to adopt: Be mindful of thestories you tell…Hold off on a summerization of "Lifetime-type" movies.Its not the time to tell the stories of adoption disruptions of others.  (Additionally, you may not have the whole story.)Remember that your words matter.  Use adoption- friendly word chpices and be mindful of what you say and the way in which you say it.Keep in mind that additionally, your or others' reposnses may be influenced by various types of Influences, such asSocial MediaEducation LevelPersonal ExperienceGenerational InfluenceSocial Influence If you offer your congratulations and support, that will mean the world to the person(s) adopting.  If you have questions, maybe hold off for a bit until the news is shared with everyone intended.  Adoption support is needed, and the importance and value of adoption matters.

22 Okt 202121min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption Spreading the Love of Adoption, raising adoption awareness- what you can do to make an impact on elevating the understanding, acceptance and choice of adoption. Giving adoption a voice. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

13 Okt 202116min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:195:  Following Up on Topics

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:195: Following Up on Topics

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast  2:195:  Following Up on Topics Follow-up on previous topics previously discussed:  online adoptive profiles, Fund raising, abortion news, separation anxiety, holiday giving. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

9 Okt 202113min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For Adoptees

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For Adoptees

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For Adoptees Sparation Anxiety can be a common issue among adoptees.    Adoptees may experience separation & anxiety during their lifetime.  Adoptees may find comfort in knowing that they are not alone, goodbyes can be very difficult. Loved ones can gather an understanding adoptee separation anxiety and ways to support them. Listen. Learn. Love. Giving adoption a voice.

22 Sep 202124min

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