One Person Wants to Grow

The purpose of lingam massage is to awaken the true power of your man’s cock.We want him to own and inhabit it, amplifying his capacity for pleasure.And yours.Then he can penetrate you with it, bringing both of you to ecstasy and obliterating you to smithereens, with an awakened and self-actualized cock.Lingam massage can be totally transformational for your partner and your relationship.

1 Apr 202225min

Squirting has been written about for millennia. We find it referenced in text and teachings all over the world.  It is often described as: Food of the Gods. Nectar. Ambrosia. Amrita. The Fountain of Youth.Even though squirting tends to be a highly sought after check-the-box sex act inspired by porn, it’s a profound experience to have and share with an intimate partner. An anointing! To coax these emissions out of a woman requires trust, openness and surrender.  These qualities are INFUSED into her essence. Which is why it’s such a potent gift to receive, for both. In this episode: - Why squirting is an essential life skill for women- Five facts about squirting- How it feels in the body and emotionally - Nine steps to squirting mastership- The benefits of ingesting “amrita” - How our all star Freya went from low interest in sex, to becoming a prolific, soak-the-sheets squirting sensation

24 Mars 202241min

Energy orgasms are orgasms that take place without and kind of touch whatsoever. You know the spiritual axiom that “thoughts are things.”  Well, here we see that in action. Orgasms are things too and we can have them whenever and wherever we want!

18 Mars 20228min

How long can you make it last? How good can you take it? What’s it like to live in a perpetual state of bliss? Slowing down and prolonging your foreplay not only primes you for marathon sex and the deeper orgasmic experiences, but afterward you feel even higher, ecstatic, transformed and like you’ve been reborn. You are tapping into the rejuvenating, enlivening power of your sexual energy. The more you treat foreplay like its own sex act and endgame, the deeper your sexual experiences will be. There are stories in ancient Tantric texts about the ultimate battle for lovers: To make the other come first. Your job is to tantalize, tease and stimulate your partner so they live in an ongoing state of arousal. Yes, this is possible. In this episode, we'll discuss how:

11 Mars 202212min

Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well. I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it. Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy. That would be “unconscious celibacy”. Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward. This could be for any number of reasons, such as: to recover and heal after a breakup to take stock and try and change patterns and behaviours in relationships before starting a new one Up-levelling parts of your life before your next relationship, so that you are in a better place to welcome someone into your space and lifeI often talk having had some of my most well-fucked periods of my life, when I was single. If you know anything about my work, the way I define “well-f**ked” isn’t just about “having lots of sex”. It’s having lots of gourmet, conscious, life-changing sex and channeling your sexual, pro-creative energy out into the world as a manifesting power to birth and shape your reality. So how do we do this? Show notes and product links here: https://kimanami.com/conscious-celibacy/

18 Feb 202222min

This is the ultimate creative power of the universe and it flows through  you.Instead of tuning into this ad riding this wave, most people are totally disconnected from and have disowned this power.All of my work is about helping you get it back.“Unexpressed creativity is not benign. It metastasizes”~ Brene Brown I say the same thing about your sexual energy: whatever you aren’t expressing and owning, inverts back on you and creates all kinds of stagnation and blockage in your life.In today’s episode:Are creatives born or made?The fastest way to achieve creative geniusThe connection between the deeper vaginal orgasms and being divinely inspiredSex and self-actualization#poweredbyvagina is the mantra I live by. How I create my own life–via my vaginaThree techniques to activate your creative and orgasmic brilliancePlus, we have THREE Well-F**ked All Stars today sharing on how they have fuelled their creative projects and lives.With their orgasms and vaginas.My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration until tomorrow—Friday February 4th at midnight PST.In this 8-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.You'll learn:How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina;How to channel your sexual energy into creative powerStep-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina;My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina.Come and get it.After tomorrow, it's gone until 2023!

3 Feb 20221h 31min

While the clitoris is good for a laugh or a warmup, if you really want to harness the power of your sexual energy, you need to go deeper.A few inches deeper.These deeper, vaginal orgasms are like the Loch Ness Monsters of sexuality. They are mysterious and subject to much skepticism and known only to some.The reason why they elude many people, and especially laboratory analysis (though they’ve been sighted in some labs; mainly French, and not English), is because they involve far more than just technique.In fact, I’d say that technique is less than 10% of what will take you there.In this episode we cover the other 90%. We also talk to Well-F**ked All Star Robin, who is a 44-year-old from our Well-F**ked Hall of Fame. She’s taken my salons for women and emerged out the other side a radiant, lubricating, ejaculating, vaginal orgasming-on-the-regular, sexual powerhouse. My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is open for registration! www.kungfuvagina.com Having a Kung Fu Vagina is every woman’s birthright and within her natural abilities.  With the right tools! This is what is possible for every single vagina, on the daily: Multiple, vaginal and ejaculating orgasms Insane, life-changing pleasure A vagina that is so responsive that it gets wet just from hearing your lover’s voice. Produces a tsunami of wetness A ravenous libido Gives your lover a vaginal handjob with your sensational articulation skills. Aka "voodoo pussy". Shoots ping pong balls. This is the normal, healthy baseline for every vagina. Zero urinary incontinence. Some women reverse this in a week. Iron-clad pelvic floor strength that maintains your internal organs. Yep. You were meant to keep them. In short: Ecstasy and power on tap. Courtesy of your Kung Fu Vagina. Come and get it: www.kungfuvagina.com

27 Jan 202250min

Most vaginas are numb. They aren't pleasured or exercised well, and they atrophy into a place of disconnection and lackluster existence. You can change that, and instead cultivate a Super Pussy that is: - Strong, articulate and powerful.- Orgasms wherever, however, whenever it wants, with the full range of orgasmic pleasure: clitoral, G-Spot, cervical orgasms - Feels blissful during sex - Has a voracious libido- Can give hand jobs. Just like with your actual hand, a super pussy can push, pull, squeeze and isolate different sections of the muscles, playing the proverbial flute.- Produces “tsunamis of lubrication”- Shoots ping pong balls. This is every woman’s God-given right. In this episode, we’ll cover:Super Pussy mythbusting: Common reasons why you think you might not be able to have one. I’ll prove you wrong.My #1 tool for creating Super Pussies. Plus four more.On removing blocks from our reproductive organs, freeing them up to be orgasmic and blissful. Constantly.Is lube really a girl’s best friend?Well-F**ked All Star Mara shares how she started her Super Pussy journey at eight months pregnant, had her first cervical orgasm on her birthday six weeks later, and how they use sex to keep them energized with a young baby and four other children. All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon. The salon opens for registration on January 19th. You can get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now: https://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu/

6 Jan 202257min