016: Ask David — How can I cope with a complainer? How can I help a loved one who is depressed?

016: Ask David — How can I cope with a complainer? How can I help a loved one who is depressed?

How can you help a depressed friend or family member? You may be surprised to discover that the attempt to "help" is rarely effective, and may even make the problem worse. In contrast, the refusal to help is nearly always helpful. But to understand that paradox, you'll have to give a listen to this fascinating edition of "Ask David!"

David and Fabrice also address a related problem nearly all of us confront from time to time: How do you deal with a friend who is a relentless whiner and complainer? When you try to help them or suggest a solution to the problem, they just say, "That won't work" and keep complaining. You end up feeling frustrated and annoyed, because the other person just won't listen! David and Fabrice illustrate a shockingly easy and incredibly effective solution to this problem.

Finally, David discusses some disturbing recent research indicating that the ability of therapists—as well as friends or family members—to know how suicidal someone is, is extremely poor. David and Fabrice explain how to assess how suicidal someone actually is, and what to do if you discover that he or she really is at risk of a suicide attempt.

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007: M = Methods (Part 1) — You FEEL the Way You THINK

007: M = Methods (Part 1) — You FEEL the Way You THINK

The three basic principles of CBT: Negative feelings, like depression, anxiety, and anger, do not result from what happens to us, but rather from our thoughts about what's happening. In fact, our tho...

9 Nov 201634min

006: Ask David — Identity Crisis; Finding a CBT Therapist; Love Me the Way I Am

006: Ask David — Identity Crisis; Finding a CBT Therapist; Love Me the Way I Am

Responses to questions submitted by listeners: What causes an "identity crisis?" And how do you treat it? Why is it so hard to find a therapist trained in cognitive therapy? In a relationship, should...

6 Nov 201625min

005: A = Agenda Setting (Part 2) — How to Overcome Therapeutic Resistance: "Dr. Burns, I think I need help with my low self-esteem!"

005: A = Agenda Setting (Part 2) — How to Overcome Therapeutic Resistance: "Dr. Burns, I think I need help with my low self-esteem!"

Dr. Burns suddenly abandons the role of healer and instead assumes the role of the patient's angry, paranoid and defiant resistance.

3 Nov 201636min

004: A = Agenda Setting (Part 1) —The Eight Most Common Forms of Therapeutic Resistance

004: A = Agenda Setting (Part 1) —The Eight Most Common Forms of Therapeutic Resistance

What is therapeutic resistance? You will find out that therapeutic resistance is NOT what you were taught in graduate school or read about in the writings of Sigmund Freud! You will also discover why ...

31 Okt 20161h 3min

003: E = Empathy — Does It Really Make a Difference?

003: E = Empathy — Does It Really Make a Difference?

How an encounter with a patient with paranoid schizophrenia dramatically changed the course of his career The 5 Secrets of Effective Communication How to talk with your EAR Dr. Burns also discusses w...

29 Okt 201639min

002: T = Testing — A Boring Topic with Exciting Implications

002: T = Testing — A Boring Topic with Exciting Implications

In this podcast, Dr. David Burns describes the "Testing" part of the T.E.A.M. model. Topics include: The shocking results of a study of therapist accuracy at Stanford Why therapists who don't test us...

28 Okt 201643min

001: Introduction to the TEAM Model

001: Introduction to the TEAM Model

In this podcast, Drs. Fabrice Nye and David Burns discuss an exciting breakthrough in psychotherapy. Leave your questions and comments below. Also, let us know if you'd like to see certain topics addr...

27 Okt 201630min

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