The MOST Powerful 💪 Word in Recovery & LIfe: for Sex Addicts & Spouses

Most men were never taught how to have a healthy sex life. Porn, shame, and silence replaced real intimacy—and it’s destroying connection, confidence, and marriages.In this episode, Craig talks with men’s coach Rob Kansler about what it really takes to create great sex and a great life. They explore how porn and peak release cycles disconnect men from their partners, why integrity and nervous system regulation are key, and how healthy sexuality transforms everything—from your marriage to your purpose.If you’re a married man ready to move from addiction and secrecy to clarity, strength, and connection, this conversation will hit home.Learn more: MindfulHabitHelp.comTake the Men of Substance Bedroom Compass Assessment – know exactly where you stand with the universal building blocks of a great sex life: BedroomCompass.comConnect with Rob: RobKansler.comSocials: @robkanclerAbout Rob Kansler:Rob Kancler is an artist, athlete, entrepreneur, and modern mystic. He runs Men of Substance™️, a sexual mastery program serving men worldwide. His revolutionary work gives all people access to the profound sexual experiences hidden in the most obscure spiritual traditions—radically expanding a conversation most people take for granted and revealing the blind spots about sex that everyone carries but no one sees. The truth is this quietly keeps men and women from the confidence, vitality, love, meaning, and deeper fulfillment available in every part of life. Check out the foundational Men of Substance™️ program at www.robkancler.comAnd take the free assessment at www.bedroomcompass.comTakeaway:Great sex isn’t just about technique—it’s about integrity, honesty, and being fully present.

23 Okt 1h 4min

If you’ve spent years being the nice guy—trying to make everyone happy while secretly feeling empty or stuck in unhealthy habits—this episode is for you. Craig talks directly to married men who are ready to break free from porn addiction, people pleasing, and the patterns that keep them disconnected from their true power.Drawing on insights from No More Mr Nice Guy A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love Sex and Life by Dr Robert Glover, Craig explains how reclaiming honesty, integrity, and masculine strength can transform your relationships and your life. He also introduces MindfulHabitMastery.com, a new program built for leaders and professionals who want to overcome destructive habits, rebuild trust, and live with purpose and self control. He also introduces his new podcast for leaders titled patterns of power. Get the book: No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert GloverLearn more: MindfulHabitHelp.comComing soon: MindfulHabitMastery.comTakeaway:What would you say to your partner if you knew it would be received with honesty, understanding, and love?

16 Okt 12min

There are only 5 days left until we begin Patterns of Power, a 10 week experience built for leaders and professionals who have done the work but still feel drained, stuck performing, and unsure why success feels like suffocation. THE START DATE IS OCTOBER 14TH - DONE BY CHRISTMAS, START THE NEW YEAR IN SELF-LEADERSHIP!!!In this episode, Coach Craig sits down with leadership coach and author Brent Perkins, former CEO of two eight figure companies and writer of Paper Cuts The Art of Self Delusion — available now on Amazon. https://amzn.to/3IAwqAF Together they talk about capacity, your ability to hold more without breaking. They explore what happens when your vault is empty, why discipline alone is not enough, and how a thousand small paper cuts quietly drain your energy, attention, and presence.This is the first time Craig has ever collaborated with another coach in this way because he has never been so confident in the value of the partnership. Craig’s expertise in destructive habits combined with Brent’s expertise in leadership creates a powerful experience for high performers ready to make lasting change.If you lead teams, businesses, or people and still feel like you are white knuckling life, this conversation is your wake up call. It is time to stop performing and start leading from a place of power.Spots for Patterns of Power are almost full. Enrollment closes in 5 days. Click the link below to learn more about the program, including how you can be reimbursed through your company’s leadership or professional development budget.https://coach-craig-b8c2.mykajabi.com/patterns-of-power-cohort If you want to talk directly with Craig, schedule a free 30 minute consultation call to see if Patterns of Power is the right fit for you. The program investment is 5,000 dollars and includes a 100 percent money back guarantee.https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/bookings/consult-for-leaders-w-craig-pe Take the next step today before enrollment closes.

6 Okt 14min

Many Christian men—including pastors and church leaders—are silently struggling with porn and sex addiction.Traditional faith-based programs often miss the mark, focusing too much on “don’t do it” rules, demonizing the addict part, and defining success as perfect sobriety.In this sex & porn addiction podcast, Coach Craig Perra shares why so many Christian men feel stuck, the hidden struggles pastors face, and how evidence-based models like Internal Family Systems (IFS) and The Mindful Habit® align beautifully with Christian faith. Discover a neuroscience-supported path rooted in grace, forgiveness, and systems that actually create lasting change.If you’re a Christian man battling sex or porn addiction—or supporting someone who is—this episode will give you hope, clarity, and tools to lead yourself with faith and integrity.👉 Need more help? Visit www.mindfulhabithelp.comJenna Reimersma’s Altogether You is a must-read for Christians battling sex and porn addiction—it beautifully connects neuroscience, Internal Family Systems, and faith.xGet it here 👉 https://amzn.to/3KiuVHBChristian porn addictionfaith and porn addiction recoverysex addiction Christian perspectiveChristian men porn strugglepastors and porn addictionchurch leaders porn addictionovercoming porn as a ChristianChristian sex addiction recoveryBible and porn addictionChristian marriage porn recoveryfaith-based porn recoveryChristian addiction counselingChristian men’s sexual integrityChristian shame and pornographyinternal family systems Christianitymindful habit Christian recoveryChristian men’s mental healthChristian approach to addictionporn addiction in the churchfaith grace forgiveness recovery

23 Sep 28min

Why does traditional therapy so often fail men struggling with addiction, porn, and mental health?In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Marc Azoulay, founder of Men’s Therapy Online, to talk about why the standard therapy model often doesn’t serve men — and what actually helps. We dig into:✅ Why therapy fails men (and what to look for in a therapist)✅ The loneliness crisis and why community is the antidote to addiction✅ The role of mentorship, accountability, and ritual in recovery✅ How masculinity needs to evolve without losing its strength✅ Practical advice for men battling porn, sex, drugs, or destructive habits If you’ve ever felt unseen, unheard, or misunderstood in therapy — this episode is for you.🔗 Connect with Marc and his team for therapy (Men's Therapy Online is an Official Mindful Habit Partner): https://menstherapy.online🔗 Learn about The Mindful Habit System: https://www.mindfulhabithelp.com📌 Keywords: men’s mental health, addiction recovery, porn addiction help, sex addiction, therapy for men, men’s group therapy, mindfulness, accountability, self-leadership, compulsive behavior, habits, masculinity, loneliness, recovery community

29 Aug 49min

(**check out Brent's Great Offer Below)In this powerful episode of Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions, I sit down with Brent Perkins—former corporate executive turned self-leadership powerhouse and founder of 3xBOLD. We met at the Big Tent Summit in Loveland, CO and we connected!!!Brent shares his raw, unfiltered story of climbing the corporate ladder only to realize the view from the top was empty ... sound familiar? His awakening began with pain, shame, and a pattern of people-pleasing that nearly cost him everything (sound familiar?) - he and I have a lot in common!!! And we both love the word "CAPACITY," which is a life-changer once you get it!!! Be ready to take notes. You are going to love this podcast. We dive deep into:How men can reclaim purpose and identity in midlifeThe cost of ignoring your shadow (and how Brent faced his)What boldness really means in the context of healing and transformationHow executives, fathers, and husbands can lead from truth—not egoThis conversation is for anyone who’s ever felt like they’re dying inside while looking “successful” on the outside. And he's obsessed with CAPACITY: creating it and sustaining it. 📍 Find Brent at 3xBOLD.com🔊 What Brent’s Promoting:🧠 Expand Your Capacity – An invite-only, 60-minute monthly gathering for impact-driven, family-focused leaders who feel stretched thin but refuse to burn out. Walk in with overwhelm, walk out with clarity, tools, and connection.👉 Join hereAbout Brent PerkinsBrent Perkins is a former multi–8-figure CEO turned leadership alchemist, obsessed with one thing: capacity—the inner operating system that scales everything.As founder of 3xBOLD and the author of Papercuts: The Art of Self-Delusion, he helps impact-driven and family-focused entrepreneurs and elite coaches amplify their impact, at home and at work, bridging neuroscience and somatics into board‑room results and bedroom presence.Brent also serves on the board of Front Row Dads and is known for his trademark style: radical honesty, quiet strength, and insight that lands like a gut punch wrapped in love.📘 Book: Papercuts – Available on Amazon & Audible🔗 Website: 3xBOLD.com📅 Join Brent’s Monthly Call: 3xBOLD.com/expansion💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/brentrperkins📧 Email: brent [at] 3xbold [dot] com

2 Aug 53min

What happens when you reach the top of Success Mountain and still feel empty?In this raw and powerful in-person conversation, I sit down with purpose-mapping expert Craig Filek—yes, literally at my house—to talk about what comes after success, and why so many high-achieving men crash into addiction, shame, and confusion when the dopamine runs out.We unpack:-Why men lose themselves after achieving everything they thought they wanted -The link between sexual energy, shame, and a lack of purpose-The concept of gold in the shadow—and how your shame holds your superpower-Craig’s simple and powerful “Map of Psychological Wholeness” -How to rewire your brain through purpose, daily habits, and aligned actionThis episode is for anyone—especially high performers—struggling with bad habits, porn, addiction, or that nagging question: Now what?🔗 Get Craig Filek’s free Purpose Map tool here → To reach Craig directly and get access to the Purpose Mapping® method we discussed in today’s episode DM “habits” to @PurposeMapping on Instagram📲 Text Craig Filek directly at 847-238-8332📸 DM “habits” to @PurposeMapping on Instagram to unlock the free tool + tracker

26 Juni 38min

In this powerful episode of Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions, I sit down with internationally respected men’s healer, bestselling author, and workshop facilitator Rick Broniec.With over 35 years of experience leading men’s trainings on six continents through the Mankind Project, Rick brings deep wisdom on two of the most devastating afflictions facing men today: the epidemic of isolation and the father wound.We explore why so many men lack meaningful friendships, how early programming blocks emotional intimacy, and how shame around “feminine” qualities suffocates authentic masculinity. Rick unpacks how men are trained to suppress not just their darkness—but also their gold.You’ll hear why embracing the full spectrum of your emotional and spiritual self is essential to creating a healthy sexual life.We also dive into Rick’s revolutionary upcoming Sacred Men’s Retreat in Brazil: a week-long ayahuasca-assisted journey of deep men’s work, spiritual healing, and connection, happening July 7–13, 2025.This retreat is legal, safe, guided by skilled indigenous shamans, and held in a beautiful oceanside resort just outside Rio de Janeiro. If you’ve been called to plant medicine and feel ready to unlock the next level of your healing, this could be the path you’ve been waiting for.🔥 Topics We Cover:What real male connection looks like (and how to build it)The Classics framework: 8 traits of healthy masculinityThe truth about shadow work (yes, even the golden parts we repress)Why so many men act out sexually—and how spiritual wounds play a roleHow intentional plant medicine work can open your heart and change your life💡 Whether you’re struggling with sex or porn addiction, feeling alone, or seeking deeper meaning in your masculine journey, this episode is filled with insight, compassion, and powerful next steps.🔗 Important Links:🌿 Rick’s Sacred Men’s Retreat in Brazil (July 7–13, 2025):https://www.maravilharetreat.com/souldiscoveryjuly 📚 Rick’s Website & Books:Power Tools for MenWisdom Windfall 📱 Connect with Rick:Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn📧 Email: rbroniec@gmail.com | 📞 Phone: 414-688-9580

15 Juni 41min