Episode 134 - Polyamory and Trauma

Take the Beducated quiz and sign up with my link here: https://beduc.at/pd2627-lolaNo relationship is inherently safer than any other, and trying to control every possible outcome only breeds the fear...

31 Juli 22min

Telling someone they're wrong when they see withdrawal of affection is gaslighting-adjacent, even if unintentional.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of...

17 Juli 28min

Autonomy means freedom to make choices, but those choices have consequences for the people affected by themThat's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this ep...

3 Juli 17min

Shrinking to make space in a partner's life only suffocates oneself and creates resentment that will eventually become unavoidable.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio ...

19 Juni 29min

Sometimes the best way to address fear of missing out is to invite partners to share new experiences, rather than tell them afterwards.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full au...

5 Juni 23min

Consideration means giving the reins over and allowing emotions to decide whether a partner is allowed to go on a date, which isn't fair.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full ...

22 Maj 22min

Allowing a partner's anxieties to control behaviour is unfair not only to oneself, but also to the people being dated.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription...

8 Maj 30min

Unresolved betrayal needs to be addressed before moving forward into polyamory, or it will easily become a tit-for-tat situation.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio tr...

17 Apr 17min