150 // Decluttering the Unrealistic Expectations of Motherhood - with Danielle Bettmann from Parenting Wholeheartedly

150 // Decluttering the Unrealistic Expectations of Motherhood - with Danielle Bettmann from Parenting Wholeheartedly

Imagine this scene: You’re shopping in Target with one child pulling on your leg and the other grabbing random items off the shelves, wailing, “PLEEEEASE Mommy can I have this?” An elderly woman in the same aisle smiles at you and says, “You’re going to miss this, dear! The days are long but the years are short!”

Or imagine that you buy a parenting book about a discipline approach that your sister-in-law raves about, but when you try it at home it just makes you feel uneasy. But it’s all you’re seeing on your Instagram ads and hearing about from your mom friends, so you decide just to push through, even though it’s making you miserable.

Whether unrealistic expectations are placed on us by well-meaning people, or we place them on ourselves due to our own childhood experiences, it is something that constantly plagues us with self-doubt. Am I doing enough? Am I doing this right?

On today’s episode, I’m talking with Danielle Bettmann, parenting coach at Parenting Wholeheartedly and the host of the Failing Motherhood Podcast, about how we can declutter these unrealistic expectations and have confidence in our parenting again.

Danielle is a positive-Discipline certified parenting coach who empowers parents to crack the code of their strong-willed child's personality, meet their deepest core needs to improve their behavior, and find new levels of patience. An early childhood educator, certified teacher and home visitor, Danielle now equips parents from all over via Zoom!

Instead of inadvertently inviting defiance by using traditional tools or playing "whack-a-mole" with short-sighted reactions, families get on the same page and learn how to cultivate cooperation while being KIND + FIRM at the same time! Host of the well-loved podcast, Failing Motherhood, she's passionate about eliminating shame from parents' vocabulary, reminding them they are the parent their kids need. She is also a mom to two daughters, wife of 15 years to her high-school sweetheart, and an avid fan of sunshine and coffee.

Resources Mentioned:

Connect with Danielle on her website, her podcast, and Instagram.

I would highly recommend her FREE Calm + Confident masterclass where you’ll learn how to master the KIND + FIRM approach that your strong-willed child needs without crushing their spirit or walking on eggshells.

Related Episodes:

Episode 31: Effectively Parenting Strong-Willed Kids When You’re Overwhelmed with Danielle Bettmann from Parenting Wholeheartedly

Episode 120: Chronic People-Pleaser? Declutter Your Need to Please with Mikki Gardner from Co-Parenting with Confidence

Episode 112: Opt Out of Mom Guilt and Let Go of “Either/Or” Thinking - with Stephanie O’Dea

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I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts.

Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com

Podcast -> www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast

Learn -> www.simplebyemmy.com/resources

Connect -> Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms

Instagram -> @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm

*** Don't Know Where to Start? ***

5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -> https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/

5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -> https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/

Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you!

Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms

Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Decluttering Tips and Resources for Overwhelmed Moms Newsletter and see samples here: https://pages.simplebyemmy.com/profile

Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering coaching! www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

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11 // Holding onto EVERYTHING Sentimental? 3 Decluttering Hacks you HAVE to Try

11 // Holding onto EVERYTHING Sentimental? 3 Decluttering Hacks you HAVE to Try

Sentimental items. They are the things we keep because they have meaning to us. They are imbued with memories. Or perhaps they don’t mean a lot to us, but they belonged to a family member and remind us of that person.    Of course we should surround ourselves with things that have meaning to us, but when sentimental items become clutter because of how much we’re keeping (and where we’re keeping it- typically in dusty boxes), we need to really evaluate what we have any why.    Today we chat about 3 mindset hacks that will help make decluttering sentimental items easier. If you need help with yours, make sure to join us in our free Facebook group! We are doing a 30-day decluttering challenge to help you declutter before the end of 2022.   GIVEAWAY! Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts between now and November 30 at 11:59 PM EST to be entered into a drawing for a free decluttering book of your choice! Just take a screen shot and send it to me via Instagram or Facebook to be entered!   Resources Mentioned:   I Give You Permission to Throw Away Your Yearbook Instead of "Does it Spark Joy", Ask This Question When Decluttering A Sensory Approach to Decluttering Sentimental Items Sentimental Item Worksheet   Episodes Mentioned:  Episode 10: The MOST Challenging Type of Clutter for Moms! 4 Kinds of Aspirational Clutter and How to Finally Let Go    *** I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts. Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com  Podcast -> www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast Learn -> www.simplebyemmy.com/resources  Connect -> Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Instagram -> @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm   *** Don't Know Where to Start? *** 5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -> https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/ 5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -> https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/   Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you! Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Step 2: Grab a free 10-minute clarity call at https://calendly.com/simplebyemmy/clarity Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering coaching! www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

17 Nov 202211min

10 // The MOST Challenging Type of Clutter for Moms! 4 Kinds of Aspirational Clutter and How to Finally Let Go

10 // The MOST Challenging Type of Clutter for Moms! 4 Kinds of Aspirational Clutter and How to Finally Let Go

Aspirational clutter is the clutter that surrounds us that tell us that who we are and what we are doing in THIS season of motherhood isn’t enough. Stop surrounding yourself with stuff that makes you feel bad about yourself! In today’s episode we dive into what aspirational clutter is, four examples that are especially challenging for moms, and what to do about it.    Additional Resources: Blog Post: The Dangers of “Should” and Someday” Blog Post: The Me That Could Be: 5 Steps to Deal With Aspirational Clutter   Episodes Mentioned:  Episode 9: Stop Holding Onto Stuff Because of What You Paid for It! 3 Tips to Overcome This Common Decluttering Roadblock Episode 6: The EASIEST Way to Declutter Any Space in Your Home!   *** I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts. Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com  Podcast -> www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast Learn -> www.simplebyemmy.com/resources  Connect -> Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Instagram -> @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm   *** Don't Know Where to Start? *** 5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -> https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/ 5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -> https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/   Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you! Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Step 2: Grab a free 10-minute clarity call at https://calendly.com/simplebyemmy/clarity Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering coaching! www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

10 Nov 202213min

09 // Stop Holding Onto Stuff Because of What You Paid for It! 3 Tips to Overcome This Common Decluttering Roadblock

09 // Stop Holding Onto Stuff Because of What You Paid for It! 3 Tips to Overcome This Common Decluttering Roadblock

“I can’t get rid of this because I paid so much for it" is one of the most common roadblocks to decluttering. In today's episode, I give three tips on how to overcome it so that you can remove what is no longer serving you - regardless of its monetary value. Ready to take action? Join the  free Facebook group here! In the month of November, leave a rating and written review in Apple Podcasts (5 stars are my favorite!) and send a screen shot of your review to me at Instagram or Facebook (@simplebyemmy) to be entered in a drawing for a decluttering or simple living book of your choice.  Episodes Mentioned:  Episode 5: Don’t Know Where to Start Decluttering? The Answer May Surprise You Episode 8: Is Clutter Stealing from You? 4 Things You Can Reclaim Now Even as a Busy Mom Episode 4: THIS is Why You Don’t Have the Time To Declutter *** I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts. Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com  Podcast -> www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast Learn -> www.simplebyemmy.com/resources  Connect -> Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Instagram -> @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm   *** Don't Know Where to Start? *** 5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -> https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/ 5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -> https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/   Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you! Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Step 2: Grab a free 10-minute clarity call at https://calendly.com/simplebyemmy/clarity Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering coaching! www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

3 Nov 202210min

08 // Is Clutter Stealing From You? The 4 Things You Can Reclaim Now Even as a Busy Mom

08 // Is Clutter Stealing From You? The 4 Things You Can Reclaim Now Even as a Busy Mom

Real talk: clutter is not neutral. It is stealing four things from you - four things that are preventing you from having the motherhood and life you so deserve. Ready to take action? Join the  free Facebook group here!   Resources Mentioned: Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids is one of my favorite parenting books ever!   *Note - affiliate links may be included which means that I get a small commission from any qualifying purchases you make from the link. Thanks!*   Episodes Mentioned:   Episode 7: Stop Wasting Time Looking for Stuff in Your Home! Follow This Simple Rule Instead   Episode 1: My Story of Overcoming Overwhelm *** I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts. Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com  Podcast -> www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast Learn -> www.simplebyemmy.com/resources  Connect -> Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Instagram -> @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm   *** Don't Know Where to Start? *** 5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -> https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/ 5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -> https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/   Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you! Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Step 2: Grab a free 10-minute clarity call at https://calendly.com/simplebyemmy/clarity Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering coaching! www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

27 Okt 202212min

07 // Stop Wasting Time Looking for Stuff in Your Home! Follow This Simple Rule Instead

07 // Stop Wasting Time Looking for Stuff in Your Home! Follow This Simple Rule Instead

Today we talk about a simple rule that will help make sure you don't spend your precious resources of money, time, energy, focus, and attention on finding stuff in your home! I give you three reasons why having a place for everything in your home is SO important. Resources Mentioned: My blog post about how clutter affects our well-being includes all the studies I mention in today's episode. *** I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts. Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com  Podcast -> www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast Learn -> www.simplebyemmy.com/resources  Connect -> Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Instagram -> @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm   *** Don't Know Where to Start? *** 5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -> https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/ 5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -> https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/   Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you! Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Step 2: Grab a free 10-minute clarity call at https://calendly.com/simplebyemmy/clarity Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering coaching! www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

20 Okt 202212min

06 // The EASIEST Way to Declutter Any Space in Your Home!

06 // The EASIEST Way to Declutter Any Space in Your Home!

Today I take you through the EASIEST way to declutter any space in your home - using the power of the artificial boundaries and containers. We go step-by-step through decluttering your medicine cabinet and how I use the container rule for our library books! You don’t want to miss this one. Be sure to share your progress with me on Instagram (tag @simplebyemmy) or join the  free Facebook group here!   Resources Mentioned:   Decluttering At the Speed of Life by Dana K. White is an excellent book about decluttering!   DEA’s Drug Take Back Days are a great way to get rid of unused medication safely.    *Note - affiliate links may be included which means that I get a small commission from any qualifying purchases you make from the link. Thanks!*   Episodes Mentioned: Episode 5: Don’t Know Where to Declutter? The Answer May Surprise You Episode 4: THIS is Why You Don’t Have the Time to Declutter *** I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts. Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com  Podcast -> www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast Learn -> www.simplebyemmy.com/resources  Connect -> Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Instagram -> @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm   *** Don't Know Where to Start? *** 5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -> https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/ 5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -> https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/   Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you! Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Step 2: Grab a free 10-minute clarity call at https://calendly.com/simplebyemmy/clarity Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering coaching! www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

13 Okt 202212min

05 // Don’t Know Where to Start Decluttering? The Answer May Surprise You

05 // Don’t Know Where to Start Decluttering? The Answer May Surprise You

The first place I recommend you start decluttering isn't your home at all...it's your home away from home! (No, not Target or Starbucks!) It's your vehicle. Today I explain WHY to start here and walk you step-by-step through the process! Join the FREE Facebook group here. The first ten people to join get a free goodie from me! *** I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts. Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com  Podcast -> www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast Learn -> www.simplebyemmy.com/resources  Connect -> Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Instagram -> @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm   *** Don't Know Where to Start? *** 5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -> https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/ 5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -> https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/   Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you! Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Step 2: Grab a free 10-minute clarity call at https://calendly.com/simplebyemmy/clarity Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering coaching! www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

6 Okt 202211min

04 // THIS is Why You Don’t Have the Time to Declutter

04 // THIS is Why You Don’t Have the Time to Declutter

Where do I start and when do I find the time? When I coach other moms, these are the same two questions I get time and time again. And I get it. When you’re overwhelmed, it’s hard to look at something as daunting as decluttering and think that something that requires so much energy and focus is something you can handle when you’re so inundated already. It’s one more thing to do on a never ending to-do list. And when it comes to time, it’s hard to even remember if you ate breakfast today, let alone whether you can squeeze in the time to declutter a junk drawer. Today I talk about why we feel so overwhelmed by the idea of decluttering, which causes us to avoid it altogether. Here is the recent Instagram post I mention about the three layers of stuff. Come join our free Facebook Group: Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms *** I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts. Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com  Podcast -> www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast Learn -> www.simplebyemmy.com/resources  Connect -> Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Instagram -> @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm   *** Don't Know Where to Start? *** 5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -> https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/ 5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -> https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/   Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you! Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Step 2: Grab a free 10-minute clarity call at https://calendly.com/simplebyemmy/clarity Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering coaching! www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

29 Sep 20229min

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