Talking Body dysmorphic disorder and social media

Lifers, This is Part 2 and one from the archives. For anyone who has not listened to India Oxenberg's full interview we cannot recommend this episode enough. This episode was originally published on the 20th of January 2021. PART 1: Is a a new interview recorded on the 6th of July 2021 discussing Allison Mack's recent conviction and sentencing.This podcast episode discusses sexual assault, coercive control and living in a cult, This may be triggering to victim survivors. If you need help or someone to talk to, you can call 1800 RESPECT or visit respect.gov.au.“My name is India Oxenberg. I was in a cult for seven years. I didn't want to be saved,"This is the harrowing opening line to Stan's four-part docuseries that explores the NXIVM cult. The cult started as a US-based self-improvement group, led by Keith Raniere, but in the end the group was exposed for the dark and disturbing cult that it was.For 20 years from 1998 and 2018, Raniere recruited thousands of people under the guise of personal development seminars and self improvement sessions even luring in several celebrities and socialites with the most prolific being Smallville star Allison Mack.Over a long period of time, NXIVM faced a multitude of accusations of systemic sexual abuse of female members by Raniere and members of his inner circle. India was a part of this cult, without knowledge that it was a cult, for 7 years.The last two of which she was a part of a secret sub group within the cult called DOS, which is a Latin phrase that translates to "Master over Slave Women," It was at this point India was expected to engage in sex acts with Keith Raniere, to act as a slave to Smallville star Allison Mack and to be a master to her own two slaves. It was also here that she was held down naked and branded with Keiths initials on her stomach without anaesthetic and while being filmed.We are so grateful to have India join us today to personally tell us her story. How she got involved with the group, what life was life inside, the perpetual yet slow grooming, the coercive control, the manipulation and brain washing, the things she was made to do, the collateral she was forced to put down to ensure her silence. She speaks candidly about when things turned sexual, her inhumane branding and eventually how she found her way out and her life after the cult.You can follow India @indiaoxenbergFollow us @lifeuncutpodcast @brittany_hockley @ladyandacatIf you're one of our scallywags that loves the podcast but hasn't left 5 stars or a review yet, well, we wont hold it against you but also, like, why you do us dirty.Please, subscribe and tell your friends, tell your mum, your cousin and your dog and share the love, because, well, we love love. xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

7 Juli 20211h 10min

LIFERS, we might be on break but we all need a good laugh in the current climate with lockdown.So we have the best surprise for you ever, a bonus accidentally unfiltered episode on a Wednesday...... what is this madness?!Do not pass go, do not collect $200. This ep will be the mood boost that a lot of us in lockdown need.In this ep, we’ve collaborated a whole bunch of your funniest stories about dating and boy oh boy is the dating world a jungle.Here, you’ll hear everything from the guy who would only have sex on weekdays, to the spreading of a loved one’s ashes ruining a kissable moment. Jump on in and enjoy.If you have an accidentally unfiltered for us, slide on into our DMs on Instagram or hit us up in the podcast facebook group “Life Uncut Discussion Group.” We would love for you to share this pod with someone that you know, and leave us a review!We appreciate you all, and we love lovvvvvve!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

6 Juli 202128min

It's midyear break time! It's been a wild 6 months and ya girls are taking a short 3 week hiatus, but we have some cracking little bonus episodes for you and each week we will be taking a walk down memory lane.Norway has recently announced that it will be illegal to post photoshopped or doctored images on social media without declaring that the images have been manipulated and we are stoked to hear it! In light of these recent changes we are taking a walk down memory lane and revisiting episode 44 from June last year : TALKING BODY DYSMORPHIA!Join us tomorrow for the funnies bonus episode to date.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

5 Juli 202129min

Your free Therapy Thursday session, where we answer your deep dark and burning questions.-My partner wants to go to his best friend’s bucks party. We will have a 7 week old baby and the bucks party is in the Gold Coast; we are in Melbourne. I really don’t want him to go. What can I do?-We talk labiaplasty! What the heck is a normal vagina?! And why do we have such a mixed perception of innies and outties?-I cheated in my last relationship and that’s why it ended. I’m seeing someone new and things are going great. Do I need to tell him what happened? I’m worried that he will find out anyway and it will change his perception of me. Lifers keep those questions rolling in! Slide on in to the DM's @lifeuncutpodcast and then sit back and enjoy the therapy session.Remember, tell you mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friends and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

30 Juni 202130min

Happy Tuesday Lifers!You all know that here at life uncut, we love love; and we also love Love on the Spectrum!It’s the show where young adults on the autism spectrum navigate the unpredictable and complicated world of dating and relationships. Joining us today on the ep are: the wonderful Kassandra, who is one of the participants on Love on the Spectrum, as well as Jodi Rodgers who is a relationship expert with an extensive history working with people of mixed abilities. In this episode, it’s made clear to us that Love on the Spectrum isn’t a show for autistic people; it’s a show for neurotypical people to better understand how autistic people live and see the world a little differently.Kassandra tells us how and when she was diagnosed, and how different it can be for boys and girls, & breaks down a lot of the misconceptions about autism.We also talk about how it’s really hard to look forward to anything at the moment because of how easily it can all be whisked away, the lockdown and the woman who married a dolphin that *very sadly has passed away. If you loved the episode please hit subscribe, 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, be love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

28 Juni 20211h 24min

It's Therapy Thursday and we have some biggies for you today!To kick it off we are talking about the Victoria Secret rebrand and hey, Victoria Secret now care about women's rights and are advocating for women, by kicking some other women to the curve and replacing them with new women. Bye bye VS angels, hello VS collective... but is this perforative and too little too late?For today's questions we are unpacking When is too soon to get back on the dating apps after a breakup, my ex thinks I'm disrespectful Is single gal time really necessary or should I chase my maybe penguin? Should I hold out hope for a guy who is still hung up on his ex... If you have a question for Life Uncut, jump on our instagram and slide on in to the old DM's you saucy minx. @lifeuncutpodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

23 Juni 202136min

Happy Tuesday Lifers! We’re coming to you cross continentally! Woohoo!Britt is here on the pod, but not here in Aus! She has touched down in Spain with to be with her lover.Today, we have a guest that you might recognise, but chances are you haven’t heard her whole story. Camilla Franks is undoubtably the kaftan queen, who started her own business that is now recognisable all over the world, but she is oh so much more than ‘just’ an artist! Camilla Franks’ story has enough components to fill multiple movie plot lines!We were lucky to sit down with her and discuss:·      The makings of her business and what it takes to ‘make it’ in the fashion world·      Her health journey; from dark depression and bells palsy to being diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer when her daughter was just 8 weeks old·      Her double mastectomy, recent struggles with IVF, and the gene mutation that led to a hysterectomy·      Her recent experience on Celebrity Apprentice·      The controversy of Australian Fashion week closing show·      Her love story that is extraordinary and unusual; just like CAMILLA! We kick things off with Britt telling us the truth behind some lovely daily mail articles written about her and the paparazzi/police debacle at the airport, plus we find out how her reunion with Jordan went! You know the drill! Tell your mum, your dad, your dog and your friends and share the love, because well, we love love!Oh and chuck us a review if you’ve got a sec!ex oh ex ohSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

22 Juni 20211h 32min

It's Thursday so let’s get into your deep and dirty Q’s! My friend loves to party, and has progressively taken it further and further. It’s now at the point where she gets so drunk and carries on that I’m starting to resent her. What can I do? How do I bring up that I want to spice up my relationship by watching porn with my partner?My friend’s boyfriend broke up with her and she is heart broken. There are rumours that he cheated on her and I’m unsure if I should tell her now or not. Should I?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

16 Juni 202133min