Therapy Thursday three way with Matty J

Happppy Thursday lifers! Holy smokes it comes around quickly dunnit!Starting with some cracker accidentally unfiltered’s and ‘can’t believe they said that’s’ before jumping into a meaty and ever so insightful topic, conflict styles.We’ve spoken about love languages and attachment styles in the past and we think this is a really great way to complete the conversation and tie them all in together.  The 5 conflict styles we discuss are -Conflict avoiders -volatile couples -validating couples-hostile couples-hostile-detached couples.These are so important to understand about yourself and your partner so you can work towards a happier, healthier relationship. So, which one are you!? You can do your own conflict style test here If you love the episode please hit subscribe, 5 starts, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xOh, and join our Instagram and fb discussion group lifers, it’s where the magic (and lols) happen! @lifeuncutpodcastPeace x-- See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

16 Dec 20201h 8min

Happy Tuesday lifers! We are doing another switcheroo this week and bringing you Ask uncut today, but we have good reason! You’ll have to listen to find out though. Some things just can’t be avoided!We have a great one for you with some very relatable questions and some good solid lols. But before we get into that, some jerk had the nerve to put a girls face through a “how pretty are you?” app before deciding if her would date her... then proceeded to give her her feedback before they had even met and WTF JERRY THERES A REASON YOU’RE SINGLE JERK OFF. As you can tell, we are not ok with this. Okies, into the episode;Firstly, what do you do if you can’t stand the noises your partner makes when he’s having sex!? Can you tell him? Do you just put up with it and hope for the best? What if your partner never told you he loved you. But showed you in other ways. Is that enough? This one related back to the good old love languages and we both have different ideas on it.Lastly, but definitely not least,  we have one listener who’s bf keeps getting sent nudes in a group chat and she ain’t ok with it. How do you navigate that one!? We will be back with our big juicey episode on Thursday guys!Thanks for all your love recently, so many of you taking the time to leave reviews and have great meaningful discussions on the Facebook group! If you aren’t a member, where you at!?@lifeuncutpodcastHit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

14 Dec 202041min

It's that time of the week again Lifers, it's Therapy Thursday and we have a very special one ready to serve up!Britt is away on a much deserved holiday - and today its Laura and Matty J taking the reins answering all your relationship questions!Here are the questions we tackle in todays episode : My partner is going to a bucks party where there are going to be strippers and I don't want him to go, am I over reacting? Are you always attracted to each other? My husband and I have different fighting styles, he avoids conflict and I need reassurance which ends in our fights escalating even if the original fight is over something inconsequential - how can we resolve this? I need to break up with my boyfriend.... should I do it before or after Christmas? Find us on Facebook at Life Uncut Podcast and on Instagram @LifeuncutpodcastIf you loved todays episode please hit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10 Dec 202046min

Lifers, today we have one of the most serious and most harrowing episodes we have ever done, but it is something we feel is so important to speak about.One in four will experience violence at the hands of an intimate partner and the most dangerous place for a women is in the house. This statistic unfortunately rang true for Dr Angela Jay when she was attacked in her own home by an ex partner. It was 2016 when Angela decided to download tinder and start dating again after ending things with her husband. That is where she met a funny, intelligent, tall dark and handsome man by the name of Paul Lambert. Things started off well, but went downhill rapidly, so Angela ended things. It wasn't long before he would try and kill her.Angela bravely talks us through what happened to her and discusses the signs she missed, life after the attack and where you can go for help if you are experiencing any form of domestic violence or if you need to exit a toxic relationship.If you haven't already join us on insta and our facebook discussion group @lifeuncutdiscussionPlease, hit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xIf this conversation brings up any issues for you, or if you just feel like you need to speak to someone, please call 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732). This 24-hour national sexual assault, family and domestic violence counselling line for any Australian who has experienced, or is at risk of, family and domestic violence and/or sexual assault.It doesn’t matter where you live, they will take your call and, if need be, refer you to a service closer to home.If you are in immediate danger call 000. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

7 Dec 20201h 38min

Hey Lifers!Yes it's Thursday but we are delivering you our big, juicy, meaty Tuesday episode today! (blame this weeks episode switcheroo on the fact we thought Laura was going in to labour - valid excuse 😂) but boy do we have a positively good one for you!After Laura's pregnancy scare we talk a bit about... well..... pregnancy and touch on the really wonderful news Dan Andrews recently shared around miscarriage and the solace this change in legislation will bring to grieving women and families.Britt is sharing her egg freezing journey with us all, then it's time for some accidentally unfiltered stories.On the menu today - TOXIC POSITIVITY!What is that you say? Well we are glad you asked!The phrase “toxic positivity” refers to the concept that keeping positive, happy and upbeat are the only feeling you should have and is the right way to live your life. It means only focusing on positive things and rejecting anything that may trigger negative emotions. We are currently seeing this everywhere in life. Sounds great right!?The fact is, when you deny or avoid unpleasant and negative emotions, you actually make them bigger .We unpack that and more so strap in folks.Find us on Facebook at Life Uncut Podcast and on Instagram @LifeuncutpodcastIf you loved todays episode please hit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love.And also that is what helps us grow so please and thank you we love you. xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2 Dec 20201h

Therapy Thursday is here!!  Even though it’s only Tuesday!We very occasionally mix up our weeks programming when life throws us a curve ball annnnnd that’s exactly what happened. Laura’s needed a bit of R & R with this pregnancy, so Britt searched high and low for a special replacement but time was of the essence... sooooo we got Matt. Lolz.Naaa we love having Matt on to give his very wise male perspective on things! This week Britt and Matt chat about picking up in a bar, that is, how to do it and how to give the impression you’re open to it. One poor lass has already been through hell when her fiancé cheated and left her for her cousin (jerk) but now she’s expected to go to their wedding... sorry WHAT!?Talking about your exes on a first date. Is the first date etiquette!? Should it be avoided? Should you be offended if they choose not to talk about it?Christmas is just around the corner and we should be excited to be with loved ones! Unless of course your partner hasn’t invited you... is this as bad as it sounds or can couples do their own thing over the holidays? If you loved the episode please hit 5 starts, leave a review if you’re feeling extra generous and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

30 Nov 202033min

It's that time of the week guys! Where you hit us with your deepest and most troubling problems and we give you our deepest and sometimes troubling answers. JOKES our answers are always very heartfelt, considered and come from a place of love and experience.  Today we have an accidental message slip up. HELP! I sent a message to my friend saying that one of our other friends babies looked like a potato.... but I accidentally sent it to the mum! My boyfriend broke up with me because I told him I didn't want him to hand out with another girl... All my friends are getting married and having babies, how can I be happy for them without resenting my boyfriend as I want to get married too. My ex has intimate photos of me and I want him to delete them, what should I do? We absolutely LOVE ask uncut so please keep your questions rolling in! (literally any topic is welcome) And if you love the episode please share the love, because, well, we love love xThis episode is proudly brought to you by ToniMay jewellery - shop 30% OFF Black Friday Sale when you use the code BLACKFRIDAY - Sale ends midnight Monday 30th - Shop here https://www.tonimay.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

25 Nov 202034min

Today we have the absolute powerhouse that is Sabrina Frederick joining us and we are so excited to bring you this episode!! Sabrina is not only an elite athlete paving the way for women in AFL, but she is also keeping us glued to our screens as we watch the highly addictive yet controversial reality TV show that is SAS Australia. Sabrina describes herself with the simple yet powerful statement 'I’m a Black woman in a same sex relationship working in a male dominated sport" and we talk about all of that.We chat all things AFL, how Sabrina got into the sport, she tells us all about her fiance, how they met and who proposed to whom. Then the scene that divided the nation, the boxing match between Sabrina and Nick "honey badger' Cummins, we find out what really went down, along with some other SAS goss of course! Like who she would take into battle if she could only choose one person, and it may not be who you think!Sabrina opens up and talks about her experiences and her thoughts on the Black Lives Matter movement and some of the issues she faced growing up. All in all this was such a beautiful conversation and we can all learn a lot from the inspiration that is Sabrina Frederick. You can follow Sabrina @sabzizzleIf you loved the episode you know the drill! Leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xps. Thank you so much to everyone that voted for us in the Australian podcast awards, thanks to you WE WON ahhhhhhh WE'RE NOT CRYING YOU'RE CRYING! We love you all for sharing the love! xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

23 Nov 20201h 18min