Therapy Thursday three way with Matty J

Buckle up Lifers we have a big one today!Firstly, Laura announced she is having baby number 2 and we couldn't be happier! She kept that a bloody good secret did't she! We chat all about her finding out, telling Matt, how and why she kept it a secret for 5 months, how this pregnancy is different and if she knows what she is having.Then we get in to the big stuff. Mean girl behaviour, Internalised mysogyny, Internalised sexism, whatever you want to call it. We seem to be seeing it everywhere at the moment, thanks to the likes of reality tv, articles, social media, within our own friendship groups, So we wanted to take a deep dive and get all disecty with it. Find out exactly what it is, why it is still so prevalent in this day and age and what we can do about it. All in all we found the research so interesting and we think this is a great conversation to take to your family and friends! Let's get in to it shall we!?If you guys love listening please share this with a friend or family. We are an independent podcast and we want to stay in your ears! So please if you're feeling generous, or even if you're not (lols) please his subscribe, 5 stars, and leave a review because this is what helps us to grow!And share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

21 Sep 20201h 6min

Narcissism. The word gives you the shivers right!? Its a term that often gets thrown around, we hear people speak about it a lot, but it can be really hard to pinpoint if you're actually dating one.The official definition of a narcissist, according to the Mayo Clinic, is a person who often lacks empathy, acts entitled, arrogant, and prioritizes themselves above all else.We want to deep dive into some narcissistic tendencies, red flags to look out for like love bombing, and what to do if you find yourself in an unhealthy relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies.It’s important to remember that we are not clinical psychologists, but we are two women who have both had intense relationships with people that fit this mould and we want to shed some light on it in the hopes that it can help others. We talk about our own experiences and share learned information. If you want to keep us in your ears, please hit 5 starts, leave a review, tell your friends and share the love, because, well, we love love. XTthis episode could be triggering for someone that has had dealings with people like this in the past. If that is you, you may want to reconsider listening. Please remember, If you’re having troubles in any aspect of your life, you’re not alone and websites such as lifeline are always there to help. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

9 Sep 20201h 5min

Hello, It's your fav unqualified therapists Britt and Laura! We’ve gone rogue this week and switched things around due to a hectic schedule... meaning you get Thursdays Ask Uncut a touch easy and the meaty juicy episode for this week will drop on Thursday!Just keeping you on your toes Lifers! Today’s listeners questions include: My partner has a huge gambling problem, can he change and do I stay or do I leave?  My bf wants me to do anal all the time but I hate it. How do I navigate this?  My parter wants to move away without me, I can’t go with him because of uni. Am I allowed to be upset? And what does this mean?  Oh, and Britts dad has his own accidentally unfiltered!If you guys love listening to us please tell your mum, your dad, your friends and your  dog and anyone else that will listen. Hit 5 starts, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

8 Sep 202037min

Therapy Thursday is here and on the menu today we have a difficult conversation between a daughter and her mum, a woman that is super turned off by the guy she’s sleeping with and a guy that just keeps on breaking a girls heart. How many times are you allowed to let someone go and come back?Oh also, Britt cried reminiscing and it’s weird. What are these new found emotions? HahaThanks for tuning in lifers and keep those questions rolling in to @lifeuncutpidcast and please share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2 Sep 202033min

Lifers, we were a little slow off the ranks today, but boy do we have a biggy for you!First up on todays episode we are talking about that Adele photo that is causing a stir, then we dive into a little bit of Bach Chat, followed by our favourite Accidentally Unfiltered stories for the week.... and then for the main course we have something a little different for you today.We are getting serious and talking about Pink Tax, and the hidden costs of being female.So what is pink tax? Glad you asked! It’s gender based price discrimination. Basically women are still paying more for certain items than men are, even if the items are identical, effectively shelling out a 'pink tax' simply for being female.Is it not bad enough that women on average are still earning less than our male counterparts!? Even though they often can’t even multitask!? (Ok that part is not fact per se but a it’s strong opinion) But now it costs us more to shop too!? HOW IS THIS HAPPENING!It’s time we all know about this and become smarter consumers.If you also didn’t know about this topic, or think that maybe a friend didn’t know about this, or just liked the episode, share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1 Sep 20201h 1min

Here we answer your deep dark and burning questions for the week. Therapy Thursday!Should you delete photos of your ex? Staying with a partner because of pregnancy, and how to tell a friend who has recently miscarried that you're pregnant?It's a big one!If you love listening, please hit subscribe, 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love. XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

27 Aug 202037min

For some reason society has made ‘30’ the magic number for women to have gotten their life together, fallen in love, bought property and have kids on the way. And that if you haven’t you’re a failure and you’re being left behind. Well, we are here to tell you, they are wrong and everyone is on a different path and why being single at any age can be amazing.It’s you friendly reminder that you don’t need to give up, buy 10 dogs and move to Alaska to live out your days alone. Join the convo as we talk pros and cons of  being single in your 30s. If you love listening as much as we love recording then hit 5 stars, leave a sneaky review, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

25 Aug 20201h 18min

THERAPY THURSDAY! Your free weekly therapy session with two completely unqualified but deeply passionate women whom are armed with a microphone and an opinion. A dangerous combination indeed!From boyfriends messaging other women to wanting to steal your best friends child’s name... no issue is left unturned.If you love listening, please hit subscribe, 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love. XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

20 Aug 202032min