ManTalks Podcast2 Sep 2024

Eli Harwood - Raising Securely Attached Kids

Talking points: parenting, attachment, mindset, psychology, neurology

The internet behaved badly in this episode, but Eli is so knowledgeable and thorough I had to put this up! The Attachment Nerd herself brought a TON of info and practical tips for parents this week. Strongly encourage you to listen to this with other parents. I certainly learned a lot. Her new book comes out Sept. 3rd; go pick it up!

(00:00:00) - What is reflective functioning, and when does that start developing?

(00:06:58) - How does a parent support a child who’s still developing that reflective functioning?

(00:12:58) - The problem with treating kids as little adults, and why we do it

(00:20:44) - How to tell if you’re raising a securely attached kid; 4 simple tips

(00:32:05) - The importance of presence and support over adult logic, and on staying grounded

(00:40:18) - How to foster discipline AND self-esteem in your kids

Eli Harood, known as Attachment Nerd on social media, is a licensed therapist, bestselling author, and highly sought-after educator who has more than 17 years of experience helping people process relational traumas and develop secure connections with their children. Her life’s mission is to help make the world a better place one relationship at a time. In addition to her clinical work, Harwood also offers online courses and in-person retreats to help individuals better understand their attachment styles and build stronger bonds. She has also served as a faculty member at The Denver Family Institute and is the author of “Securely Attached.” Eli has three children, one husband, two cats, and an extraordinary number of plants.

Connect with Eli

-Website: https://attachmentnerd.com

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd/

-Book: Raising Securely Attached Kids: https://attachmentnerd.com/books/raising-securely-attached-kids

-TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentnerd

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