134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them.

It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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Go to stopporn.info for more information about working with Sam

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Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

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119: Success Story with Kenna and Dave – From Near Divorce to Connection and Safety

119: Success Story with Kenna and Dave – From Near Divorce to Connection and Safety

Have you ever contemplated ending your relationship because of the hurt and pain you’re feeling?  Or because of broken communication that leads to fights or distance and you're not sure how to repair...

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118: When She Says, “If You Loved Me, You Never Would Have Watched Pornography”

118: When She Says, “If You Loved Me, You Never Would Have Watched Pornography”

When a man struggles with pornography, addiction or habit, it’s devastating to his wife.   She will express her hurt and pain to him hoping that the behavior will stop, but when it continues to happen...

8 Nov 202329min

117: How to Eliminate the Desire for Pornography So You Can Feel ”Normal”

117: How to Eliminate the Desire for Pornography So You Can Feel ”Normal”

Imagine what life would feel like if you didn’t have any desire to look at pornography. You just simply had no interest in it anymore? What if you just felt “normal” and could just go about your day w...

2 Nov 202322min

116: If a Wife Has Unmet Expectations and a Husband Feels Like His Efforts Aren’t Enough

116: If a Wife Has Unmet Expectations and a Husband Feels Like His Efforts Aren’t Enough

When working to overcome pornography addiction or habit, it’s easy for expectations to not be met..   This work is difficult, and if a wife has expectations of him sharing, growing, and improving, but...

26 Okt 202321min

115: When Saying How You Feel Leads to a Fight

115: When Saying How You Feel Leads to a Fight

When couples are working through the impact of pornography addiction, communication is so important to resolve painful and sensitive issues. But what, if sharing how you feel ends up in a fight? This ...

20 Okt 202324min

114: Avoid This Thought Pattern So You Can Overcome Pornography and Betrayal Trauma

114: Avoid This Thought Pattern So You Can Overcome Pornography and Betrayal Trauma

It's easy for people to get stuck in a negative thought patterns that increase depression, hopelessness, and feeling paralyzed. When's the last time you thought something like, "I'm a failure," "there...

12 Okt 202322min

113: You’ll Never Overcomes Pornography With This Subconscious Belief

113: You’ll Never Overcomes Pornography With This Subconscious Belief

If you’ve ever felt depressed after another relapse and you’ve thought that quitting pornography isn’t possible, then this episode is for you.   I had a session with a client that was a keystone momen...

5 Okt 202326min

112: Avoid Emotional Spirals With This New Approach

112: Avoid Emotional Spirals With This New Approach

Our emotional state determines the quality of our life. Yet, most people allow the external world to determine their emotional responses. One of the most valuable skills that people can learn is how t...

29 Sep 202315min

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