How Gender Norms Are Hurting Your Sex Life Ft. Emily Nagoski

In this episode, we check in with Jordana’s pregnancy journey and she shares that its going well and how mentally it can feel like a relationship you’re not sure is going to work out. J&J question dating a woman who likes energy drinks in the morning and if it's a red flag? A listener writes in about being ghosted after a first date when she asked for drinks instead of dinner. They read a story about an eight-month connection and ask, ‘What is a situationship?’ They then discuss a listener who is confused by a coworker saying, ‘Let’s start out as friends.' Finally, they share advice on moving in with a partner, with Jared reflecting on his past experience moving in with a past girlfriend! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Nov 1h 17min

Happy Halloween! Jared and Jordana are revealing their costumes for the first time, so be sure to check it out on YouTube! Jordana admits she tested hers by barking at her dog to see his reaction, while Jared strutted around the office eating pizza in full owl gear. The two debate what’s dorkier, dressing up like your dog or going to the gym for a Halloween party? They get into rating celeb couple costumes like Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco, Justin & Hailey Bieber, Jessica Biel & Justin Timberlake, and Joe Jonas & Sophie Turner. We get to a listener’s question about whether you should still go for a “hot girl costume” when you’re in a relationship! Be sure to write in and tell us your favorite Halloween couples costumes this year. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

31 Okt 47min

Jordana shares the exciting news that she’s expecting two babies this winter, one through her own pregnancy and one via surrogate, she’s having “twiblings!” Jared and Jordana dive into Halloween week, talking about how the holiday reveals your relationship status and whether it’s too soon to invite a new fling to a party. They also analyze Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard’s latest anniversary post to see if it is creepy or cute? Lastly they get into red flag deal breakers and discuss a listener’s dilemma about her girlfriend planning a couple’s costume with her cat. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

29 Okt 1h 19min

Jordana and Jared dive into a hilarious lightning round of dating trends, from Labubus to belly button rings, revealing what is a turn on or turn off lately. They break down the funny celebrity lookalikes they’ve been compared to, from Matt LeBlanc to Emily Ratajkowski, and share which comparisons are flattering, or just random. J&J read a listener’s icky Instagram encounter where the guy’s bios mentions his dead dog. Total turn-off. They go on to analyze Instagram bios, emojis, and quirky details, giving their expert takes on what attracts or repels potential matches when looking at instagram profiles. Plus, they tackle a listener's question about VR porn, discussing when immersive experiences cross the line and if it’s not so different from normal spicy browsing? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

24 Okt 49min

Jared is ignoring the TikTok trend of divorcing your parents and as he’s looking to buy a house, he’s bringing his parents along to help showing why you still need them as an adult. A listener shares being accused of posting about her date in the “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook group, sparking a meltdown from her soon to be Bravo famous ex. J&J react to a mom kissing her adult son on the lips, debate red flags, and rank relationship quirks. They also cover wingwoman tips and why forgetting a birthday is a red flag for effort and commitment! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

22 Okt 1h 28min

Bethenny Frankel’s TikTok about pen pals sparks a debate between J&J and questions why this trend is still a topic years later as if it’s brand new. They act out how to handle a pen pal in dating when texts keep coming but no plans are being made. Later Jared and Jordana read a petty or prudent email about an ex still making NFL survivor pool picks after a breakup. They then question what counts as creepy and whether an age gap is a valid concern. J&J discuss age gaps in dating and explain when it is fine for older men to ask younger women out. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

17 Okt 39min

This episode starts with Jordana sharing how her cute puppy Ronnie gave her an unexpected wake-up call, which even led to her losing her phone! J&J then dive into listener advice, reading about a woman dating outside her faith and offering tips on handling her traditional parents while explaining why meeting the person matters more than expectations. They break down twins posting matching photos on dating apps, define what a “mini makeout” really is, and roast the worst breakup text clichés like “I’m rooting for you” and “you deserve better.” Plus, they debate whether snoring or using a CPAP machine is a deal breaker or just a lame excuse? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

15 Okt 1h 15min

On this Friday’s Feels ep, J&J review You’ve Got Mail, the iconic Upper West Side rom-com starring Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan, diving into the movie that kicked off the era of online dating while nostalgically saying goodbye to small bookstores. They explore the magic of falling in love online before apps made dating complicated, from over-30 chat rooms to the classic AOL dial-up sound that defined a generation. From slow, meaningful email connections to Joe Fox’s low-pressure dating style, they debate whether this vintage romance still holds lessons for modern love. Plus, they question if Kathleen was actually forced to fall for Joe after his store puts hers out of business, wondering if romance can survive a little ruthless competition. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Okt 1h