228. The psychology of limerence

228. The psychology of limerence

Limerance - the state of having undeniable feelings for someone who does not feel the same way - feels so much like love but can be so confusing, because deep down we know this person is probably not the one. Despite that we find it impossible to move on, impossible to disconnect or detach despite our best efforts because our affections for this person feel so permanently wired into our brain. Today we talk about why that may be, including:

  • The first ever studies into limerance
  • The 4 stages of limerance
  • The addictive explanation for limerance
  • Limerance, attachment style, fantasy and ADHD
  • What the long term emotional impacts of limerance are
  • How to recover + 4 tips for moving on

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322. How to feel like yourself again

322. How to feel like yourself again

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15 Aug 202542min

321. The psychology of run clubs

321. The psychology of run clubs

Running might seem like a solo sport - something we do to clear our heads, hit a goal, or just survive another cardio session. But recently, a new kind of running culture has emerged: one built not on...

12 Aug 202547min

320. Should I break up with my phone?

320. Should I break up with my phone?

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8 Aug 202544min

319. How does food affect our psychology?

319. How does food affect our psychology?

We’ve all heard the phrase “you are what you eat,” but what if it’s more accurate to say “you feel what you eat”? Behind every meal, snack, or sugar crash is an intricate, fascinating connection betwe...

5 Aug 202556min

318. Dealing with uncertainty in your 20s

318. Dealing with uncertainty in your 20s

Uncertainty is the defining emotion of our 20s. Career paths, relationships, identity, purpose ... so much of this decade is marked by not knowing. Does that have to be as uncomfortable as we think it...

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317. The psychology of OCD

317. The psychology of OCD

Have you ever heard someone say they are “so OCD” for simply having a tidy house? Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions, frequently reduced to stereot...

29 Juli 202556min

316. The 20 biggest mistakes people make in their 20s

316. The 20 biggest mistakes people make in their 20s

Over the past 6 months I've been asking people: what is the biggest mistake you made in your 20s? I've heard from over 5'000 people, some of them 21, some of them 80 and I have combined all their resp...

25 Juli 202542min

315. The psychology of trinket collecting

315. The psychology of trinket collecting

Why are we so obsessed with the tiny, adorable objects cluttering our desks, bags, and social media feeds? From plushies and vinyl figures to keychains and charms, trinket culture has exploded - but b...

22 Juli 202551min

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