Ep. 78: Swimming Against Hook-up Culture

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Sketch comedy writer Lisa Vikingstad reunites with Billy to bring closure to a short, but intense, courtship between two comedians. Lisa talks about her rule for dating comedians. I mean, it can't be worse than that time she accidentally dated a gay boy in high school. Craigslist: it's not just for murderers and rapists anymore! Plus, Lisa teaches the listeners an adorably verbose game to play with your linguistic lover. Billy opens up about his gambling addiction. His addiction was a primary dealbreaker to this potential relationship the first time around. Gambling is an addiction not taken as seriously as drugs or alcohol. So the question is raised: can you date an addict? This week's episode is sponsored by loud air conditioning units because soon they'll be packed up and tucked into the closet. Check out Lisa's blog: Making Better Bad Decisions. You can also see her sketch team perform every month at The People's Improv Theatre in New York City. Look for Totally, Yes! on The PIT's schedule. Follow Lisa Vikingstad on Twitter: @LisaVikingstad. While you're there, say, "Hi!" to @TheBillyProcida and use the hashtag #ManwhorePodcast. Email comments and questions to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

17 Sep 20141h 54min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy joins porn star Sara Jay! This adult entertainment veteran chats about sexual health, the porn industry and body positivity. Sara Jay is a business savvy adult performer who produces, directs & stars in her own videos for her members-only website and loves her job! Billy was just in Las Vegas to participate in #TeamBJ. Thanks to Germany's World Cup win, Sara Jay and fellow porn star Siri serviced their Twitter followers and your favorite manwhore took advantage of the free BJ. Porn star sex and real world sex aren't always the same. But for Sara Jay group sex and ass worship are fun both on- and off-camera! Plus, she explains why monogamy may not be a fit for her. Want to win a free one-month membership to Sara Jay's members-only website? Tweet a link to the show with the hashtag #ManwhorePodcast by 9/16 and I'll select a lucky person to enjoy a free month of premium porn! This week's show is sponsored by fedoras. Fedoras: they'll make you look super cool when they don't make you look super creepy. Check out Sara Jay's website or her merch site. Follow her on Twitter @SaraJayXXX. Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Sep 20141h 6min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy reunites with Allie for a fantastic trip down drunken memory lane. Apparently, Billy is Escalade Guy! Allie recounts how they were caught in the back of a black Escalade by her then-girlfriend. Oops. Billy was marked with the Scarlet A with a neck full of hickies because, karma. Allie admits to some infidelity in her past. Billy just went on a first date with a woman who admits to cheating on many of her past boyfriends. Would you date a cheater? Have you cheated? Email the show and tell us what you think! Allie has caught the love bug. The two brainstorm how she can drop the L-bomb on her younger boy toy. My first recommendation? Don't have important talks via texting. Because we're freaking adults. Plus, Allie drives a fork lift at work. Who wouldn't fall in love with a woman like that?! This week's episode is brought to you by Republicans, because they're the best at screwing people (over). Email your comments and questions for the show to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Sep 201457min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida NYU friend Sarah joins Billy to get the low down on dirty talking vs. "nice talking". The two chat about the various online dating services Sarah won't be joining: Tinder, JDate, JSwipe. She's simply content on bar hook-ups. Billy goes on a rape rant. Oops. Idiot Standford student Chris Herries compares a woman's vagina to a bike in the latest public victim shaming comments. I doubt he knows how to ride a "bike" very well. Plus, Billy updates listeners on his love life. Do you always use condoms? How often do you slip up? Billy tries to understand what causes Sarah to be undisciplined when it comes to safe sex. Why not ensure your own safer sex with a free Manwhore Podcast condom?! Are you a squirter? Sarah wants to know. Just make sure you lay down a towel. This week's episode is sponsored by the NFL: where you can beat your wife so long as you're not high on marijuana when you do it. Email your questions or comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 Aug 20141h 19min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Kat is a Tantra practitioner, Burning Man participant and polyamorous lover. Basically, she's freaking fantastical. Kat and Billy chatted about how she came to accept the title of sex worker and how she came out to her parents about how she makes a living. Plus some crunchy hippy existential chatter about Mother Goddess and oneness. Cool stuff! I am Buddha Steakhouse! Hear me roar! Kat, codename Candy Lion, tells us about Burning Man and how she got her burner name. Mine? Buddha Steakhouse. How much body hair do you like on a woman? Can women with hairy armpits be sexy? Chime in! Kat feels sexiest with smooth legs, full pits and a little downstairs trim. The burner also shares her favorite uses for period blood. Wait, what?! Yea. Listen. Dig it. And check me out on Keith and The Girl This week's episode is sponsored by flip-flops. Flip-flops: At least we're not Crocs. Email your questions or comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

20 Aug 20141h 13min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's theme song should be, "I (Kinda) Kissed A Boy (And I Liked It!)" Sasha is Billy's first gender queer guest on The Manwhore Podcast. Sometimes she's a girl. Sometime's he's a boy. Sometime's they are everything! The two discuss gender roles and labels as well as Sasha's journey of sexual and identity self-discovery. Billy might have tried to flirt with her. Oops. The sex party was fun. Next question, please. Sasha's father used to run a Russian mail order bride service. What?! Yes. We learn that "looking for a wife is like shopping for a car." Gross, but fascinating! Plus, Billy tires his hand at singing the popluar love ballad, "Lola." Jim Norton wrote a great op-ed piece for Time Magazine titled, "In Defense of Johns." Check it out! Get your very own Manwhore Podcast condom! Make sure you're subscribed to The Manwhore Podcast and then take a screenshot of yourself writing a review on iTunes (postiive or negative). Email the screen grab and your mailing address to manwhorepod@gmail.com for your very own FREE Manwhore Podcast condom! Thanks to Branson Belchie for the graphic design. Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Aug 20141h 7min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's guest is group sex guru Jefferson. Jefferson is a sex educator, sex blogger, storyteller and organizer of New York City's Bukkake Social Club (it's like bridge, but with more semen). We talk about blowjobs, threesomes & orgies. He also gives Billy some tips before he goes to his first sex party this weekend!  Jefferson discusses what type of women want to be on the receiving end of a bukkake and how he juggles the consent of each individual person at an event. All while trying to maintain his erection!  Check out this awesome IndieGogo campaign for the pd.ID. The personal drink identifier detects if your drink has been drugged. These Canadians are trying to raise $100,000 to make this invention a reality and you should really support it. A $75 donation will land you your own early version of the product.  Check out Jefferson's live storytelling show series, Bare, in New York City, Philadelphia, Washington D.C. and more at barestories.wordpress.com. Follow him on Twitter at @OneLifeTakeTwo.  This week's episode is sponsored by pillows because I can't wait to go to sleep right now.  Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com.  www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Aug 20141h 15min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy and Michelle record directly after completing a RandomActOfMuffdive. What is that? Go check out /r/RandomActsOfMuffdive for yourself! The two chat about the finer points of cunnilingus and Michelle gives Billy a live review of his performance! Plus, our guest shares some suggestions to the fellas out there wondering how they can better please their lady friends while going downtown. Hey frat boys: no more fingerblasting. Stop it! And stop trying to go in girls' butts without asking first. This isn't a porno. Billy wrote a very personal piece on xoJane.com about his struggles his body dysmorphia and disordered eating. "Guys may self-deprecate. We may not like our bodies as is. But we don't do eating disorders." Check out the article. This week's episode is sponsored by physical therapy, for those times you throw your shoulder out trying that crazy new sex position. Email your questions or comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30 Juli 20141h 2min