#49: Stop Obsessing about the Could Haves + Should Haves

#49: Stop Obsessing about the Could Haves + Should Haves

In today's solo episode I'm talking all about the could haves and should haves that we all experience post break up. Where you're up at night replaying every conversation you had with your ex trying to figure out what went wrong or obsessing about what you could have done differently so the break up didn't happen. The could haves and should haves are a very universal part of a break up but they can be so destructive. In this episode I talk about why we obsess on them, why it's so harmful to break up recovery, the different between shaming and learning, and how to stop yourself from obsessing about them too much.

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#286 Navigating the Final Stretch of Breakup Recovery

#286 Navigating the Final Stretch of Breakup Recovery

In today's solo episode, I'm diving into what I call the final 10% of breakup recovery—that last stretch where you feel mostly healed, but still find yourself thinking about your ex, feeling frustrate...

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#285 Out of the Ashes: Courtney Peppernell’s Journey Through Heartbreak and Emotional Abuse

#285 Out of the Ashes: Courtney Peppernell’s Journey Through Heartbreak and Emotional Abuse

In today’s episode, I’m joined by internationally bestselling poet and author Courtney Peppernell to talk about her deeply personal new book, Out of the Ashes. Courtney opens up about her seven-year r...

2 Sep 202548min

#284 Let the Truth Set You Free: Amber Rae’s Story of Leaving to Love

#284 Let the Truth Set You Free: Amber Rae’s Story of Leaving to Love

In today's episode, I'm joined by international best-selling author Amber Rae of the book Loveable, who shares her incredible story of breaking free from a nine-year sexless marriage after realizing s...

26 Aug 202541min

#283 Listener Episode: Breaking Anxious-Avoidant Patterns with Chris

#283 Listener Episode: Breaking Anxious-Avoidant Patterns with Chris

In today’s listener episode, I’m interviewing Chris, a man in his late 30s living in Arizona who is nearly two years out from a relationship that was marked by a classic anxious-avoidant dynamic. Chri...

19 Aug 202545min

#282 The Power of Doing What You Don’t Feel Like After a Breakup

#282 The Power of Doing What You Don’t Feel Like After a Breakup

In today’s solo episode, I’m diving deep into one of my favorite—and most powerful—tools for breakup recovery: contrary action. I talk about how, in the midst of heartbreak, your thoughts and feelings...

12 Aug 202520min

#281 Loneliness and the Power of Radical Listening with Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener

#281 Loneliness and the Power of Radical Listening with Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener

In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Dr. Robert Biswas Diener, pioneer in positive psychology and co-author of the book “Radical Listening.” We dive into the power of radical listening—what it act...

5 Aug 202550min

#280 Learning to Love Better with Yung Pueblo

#280 Learning to Love Better with Yung Pueblo

In today’s episode I’m joined by none other than Diego Perez—who many of you know as Yung Pueblo. This was such a pinch-me moment for me, getting to sit down with the author behind so many of my favor...

29 Juli 202543min

#279 Stop Calling It a Discard, You Are Not Trash

#279 Stop Calling It a Discard, You Are Not Trash

In today’s solo episode, I’m diving into a term I’ve seen popping up everywhere lately—“discard”—especially in the context of avoidant attachment styles and breakups. I share how I started noticing th...

22 Juli 202520min

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