Think about what your husband has said instead of reacting hastily

Think about what your husband has said instead of reacting hastily

Think about what your husband has said instead of reacting hastily

How often do you react to what your husband has said without thinking about it first? Moreover, how often have you overreacted?

Engaging your mouth before you engage your brain is one of the biggest causes of petty arguments in a marriage.

If you stop and think before you react, you will eliminate lots of petty arguments from your marriage.

A calm, considered reply will be received better by your husband; he will listen and be more likely to see your point of view when you talk to him calmly instead of an instant heated reply.

Often when you stop and think you will react entirely differently, you will see that what your husband has said is not as bad as you first thought and is not worth an argument and in many cases he is probably right to have said what he said.

When you don't stop and think before replying you are creating a more relaxed atmosphere in the home, instant heated replies cause unnecessary tension and in some cases, the husband will feel you are trying to take away his authority.

A husband who is new to this lifestyle and still adjusting to being HoH will feel threatened and confused by this, while a husband who is sure of his position in the home may take a firm stand on this and deal with your behaviour accordingly.

Remember: Engage your brain before your mouth

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EP181 - Husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home.

EP181 - Husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home.

Modern times and financial pressures have meant that the division of labour has altered in many homes with wives having full-time jobs. What should not alter is the husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home.

9 Okt 201820s

EP180 - If you are easily distracted from your duties

EP180 - If you are easily distracted from your duties

If you are easily distracted from your duties, ask your husband to hold you accountable for your time. Having to account for what you have done each day can be very helpful in keeping you on track if this is still not enough ask your husband to help you further by placing consequences for not completing your chores on time. Do not allow distractions to get the better of you.

8 Okt 201823s

EP179 - The greatest gift you can give your husband is

EP179 - The greatest gift you can give your husband is

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EP178 - Your decisions will become easier

EP178 - Your decisions will become easier

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EP177 - Is your marriage not what it used to be?

EP177 - Is your marriage not what it used to be?

Is your marriage not what it used to be? Think about this verse "If you are too lazy to plough don't expect a harvest." If you don't bother to put effort into your marriage how can you expect it to grow, without effort, it will wither and die.

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EP176 - A Submissive wife should be modest in her dress

EP176 - A Submissive wife should be modest in her dress

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4 Okt 201819s

EP175 - Don't complain when he has to work late

EP175 - Don't complain when he has to work late

Your husband's place is to be the provider don't complain when he has to work late he is doing his best to provide a home for you and his family. Instead, ask him if there is anything you can do at home to make his day more manageable.

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EP174 - It is a wife's place to be thrifty and frugal

EP174 - It is a wife's place to be thrifty and frugal

It is a wife's place to be thrifty and frugal with the household budget. Before you buy ask yourself "Do we need this or do I just want this because my friends have one". Possessions don't buy happiness.

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