Ep. 62 - What Relapse Reveals

Today Vern explores how 2 words - delight and desire can go a long way in giving us immunity to the outside pull of porn and other distractions!If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more free  resources you can also check out the websitehttps://bandofbrothers.care

15 Juli 202415min

This last Sunday Vern spoke on Sunday morning on how men can move from being an *ss to being good and safe men - something women, our churches and our communities desperately need more of.If you are looking for a safe person to talk about your Sexual struggles - Vern gets it - as a Pastor for 30 years Vern has battled porn as a pastor and didn't have a safe place to go to or someone to turn to.To connect with Vern you can reach out to him at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com

18 Juni 202444min

Have you ever had God tell you to quit your grovelling?  Today Vern explores a bible story where that happens and relates it to our recovery walk.If you are looking for a safe place to talk to regarding your struggles with porn - Vern has walked that struggle and would love to share his hope with you.His email is bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com

29 Maj 202417min

In this episode Vern answers the question - what is the hardest sermon you'll ever give?  I truly believe this episode is crucial to both listen to and keep in your constant awareness as a pastor.  If it helpful for you - pass it on!If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more free  resources you can also check out the websitehttps://bandofbrothers.care

13 Maj 202424min

As I talk and work with pastors I have noticed that there are 3 seasons of vulnearabilitywhere patterns of sexual brokenness seem to emerge in our lives.  In this episode I lay out those seasons and take the approach to be fore-warned is to be for-armed!If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more free  resources you can also check out the websitehttps://bandofbrothers.care

6 Maj 202429min

This last Sunday Vern spoke at church regarding the spiritual step of self examiniation and confession.  As pastors struggling with our sexual brokenness - it provides a crucial "powerpoint" that is available to us as we see to walk toward a life of healing and wholeness.If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more free  resources you can also check out the website bandofbrothers.care

22 Apr 202438min

Most of us seek to deny, hide, run from or rail agains the sin which dogs our steps.  In this episode Vern proposes a counter intuitive approach that he believes will actually result in better results - sitting in our sin!If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more resources you can also check out the website bandofbrothers.care

8 Apr 202425min

The theme of wide open spaces is one that Scriptural writers come back to over and over again.  In this episode Vern puts on his bible teaching hat and relates to how this concept relates to our desire to walk away from porn and experience the best life that God has for us.If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more free  resources you can also check out the website bandofbrothers.care

27 Mars 202414min