#348 How to Keep the Flame Blazing in Longterm Relationships - with Dr. Alison Ash

Recorded on stage during Brooklyn's Sex Expo, we chat with Lorrae from Slutty Girl Problems. We apologize if it sounds like we were yelling; we were right next to the Sybian sex machine, so it was a bit loud :) Slutty Girl Problems is for the self-identified women who embrace this empowered lifestyle. They offer a sex-positive, feminist, judgement-free zone with daily content to entertain, educate, and empower women around in all aspects of their lives. What is a slut, you might ask? A slut is empowered in her sexuality. She is confident, in control, and doesn’t let anyone define her or her sexuality. She defines herself, and makes choices that are right for her. Many people use the term “slut” to break women down and shame them for their natural sexuality. The folks at Slutty Girl Problems boldly reclaim this derogatory word as an empowering, sex-positive term – free from society’s shame and judgement. Being a slut isn’t about sleeping with everyone, or anyone at all. It’s about having the choice to express your sexuality however you want to, and being empowered to act on it if you choose. Slutty Girl Problems believes that all safe, sane, consensual sexual choices should be not only respected, but celebrated as a natural, pleasurable part of life. There is nothing wrong with having sex. Your pleasure is important, and sexuality does not determine your morality or worth.

25 Sep 201832min

Join us for a quickie interview with Kimberly from Evine - a live home shopping network based out of Minneapolis. Kimberly and the people at Evine are some of the first people to promote sex toys on live television in the US.

23 Sep 201818min

In this episode April and Amy share their personal stories about their threesome (and sometimes foursome+) adventures. Also, a few tips on how to navigate threesomes with more grace and ease.  Also, a sex question about how to find that third person (AKA unicorn) when introducing threesomes in a marriage.

18 Sep 20181h 9min

Why is it important to understand edges vs boundaries? How can they lead to hotter, more exciting sex? Melissa Fritchle, LMFT, is a Holistic Psychotherapist, Sex therapist, a certified clinical trauma professional, a certified Mindfulness Meditation Teacher, and the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook. She currently runs a private practice in Santa Cruz, and will soon offer online courses. Learn more at mf-therapy.com Also, a sex question: my partner takes too long to orgasm, and my body gets tired during sex. What can we do to help him orgasm faster?

11 Sep 20181h 13min

Recorded from an RV (don't mind the hum of the air-conditioning in the background) at this past week's Burning Man, Amy discusses the idea of soulmates with Lisa Nicks-Balthasar and Chris Balthasar - “Soul Purpose Success” coaches, best friends, lovers, mirror soulmates, and husband and wife. Lisa and Chris walk their talk, living fully in a deep loving “Sacred Soulmates” relationship after losing their beloved first soulmates to death and divorce.  To learn more about their offerings, visit www.sacredsoulmates.com Also listen to Chris' past episode, #43 BEmpowered, as well as Lisa's episode, #45 Heart Of Manifestation

5 Sep 201856min

In this episode we dive deep into the juicy topic of squirting AKA gushing AKA female ejaculation. Join us for some how to's, as well as some personal stories about our own wet 'n' wild adventures.  Also, we answer your sex question on sex in long distance relationships.

25 Aug 20181h 14min

Robert Kandell has been helping men find themselves for fourteen years. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness. His coaching style is challenging, fraternal and highly rewarding and definitely not for the faint hearted, he has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”. He is the host of the highly successes podcast, Tuff Love, and the author of the upcoming book, unHIDDEN, A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Also we answer your sex question: Being told about an STI/STD (Genital Warts) a year into the relationship  Pure Pleasure code for 20% off anal toys for month of August - AUGANAL18

21 Aug 201854min

Dr. Hernando Chaves holds a BA in Psychology, an MA in Marital and Family Therapy, and a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Sexologist, Love and Sex Coach and Professor of Psychology and Human Sexuality. Dr. Chaves is a co-sexpert educator for Penthouse Magazine's Sex Academy instructional DVD's. He specializes working with erotic minorities (BDSM, alt expression, nonmonogamy, fetishism), relationships, and sexual concerns.

14 Aug 20181h 2min