Healthy Consensual Non-Monogamy with Kate Loree - Ep 187

Humans crave belonging, it's even smack dab in the middle of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. This week, Dixie De La Tour of Bawdy Storytelling tells us about her years of building community. We learn how acknowledging your authentic self through community changes your self-perception; self-talk transforms from "it was all my fault, I'm a horrible person" to "I'm ok, I did the best I could, I'm not alone." We touch on the power of vulnerability, cultivating empathy, and finding the courage to tell the stories people really want and need to hear. You'll learn how to find community in unlikely places no matter where or how you live and why connecting with others in a non-sexual way is essential in sexual subcommunities. A supportive community is not only life-changing, it can also be lifesaving. Dixie also shares a powerful story about how the community she built and her use of the word "vagina" in that community not only healed trauma for an entire family but stopped a habitual abuser from continuing to commit unthinkable crimes. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 102 Links Bawdy Website: www.BawdyStorytelling.com Listen to the Bawdy Storytelling podcast at http://bit.ly/bawdypodcast Support Bawdy on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Twitter http://twittercom/Bawdy Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Facebook www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling YouTube http://bit.ly/BawdyTV The Bawdy Storytelling Podcast is ON TOUR! Tickets now available: Seattle http://bit.ly/BawdySEALiveSept2019 San Francisco http://bit.ly/BawdyFolsom2019 Los Angeles http://bit.ly/BawdyLA Chicago http://bit.ly/BawdyChicago New York http://bit.ly/BawdyNYC VOTE for your city to be our next destination at https://bawdystorytelling.com/testtickle Kevin Patterson Love's Not Colorblind Book about building inclusive sex-positive spaces https://www.amazon.com/dp/1944934464/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp_t2_DiNUzbMDAA9EW Kevin Patterson episode http://sunnymegatron.com/kevin-patterson-loves-not-color-blind-american-sex-podcast/ Kinky Salon https://www.kinkysalon.com/ The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown free on Audible with 30-day trial http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast Diminuendo Movie https://www.amazon.com/Diminuendo-Dykstra-Robinson-Rebecca-Calvert/dp/B07XFQWHNZ/ Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 102 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

9 Sep 20191h 28min

On ep 101 of American Sex, we talk swinging with Dee and Laydee Vee. They answer common questions about the lifestyle-- how do you meet people, what's the etiquette of attending parties, what do all the acronyms mean, how do you combat jealousy, what are the best ways to start exploring opening your relationship, what are the differences between being a swinger/open/polyamory and do folks that identify differently play well together? We discuss the nuances of swinging in the African American community-- what's up with the swing lifestyle being so overwhelmingly white, in what areas is that different, and why? Is it true that bias against bisexual men in the lifestyle is more pronounced in black spaces? Dee and Vee also dive into one of their favorite activities, facesitting-- what it's about smothering, cunnilingus or both? What's the psychology behind it? What's the proper preparation and technique for the act? Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 101 Links Instagram: http://instagram.com/dvpassion Twitter http://twitter.com/dvpassionlove Website http://dvpassion.com SDC https://www.sdc.com/ SLS https://www.swinglifestyle.com/ Adult Friend Finder https://adultfriendfinder.com/ Swinging on Eventbrite https://www.eventbrite.com (searching "lifestyle" "swinging" "swing parties" etc) Sex Down South Sexuality Conference https://www.sexdownsouth.com/ Exxxotica https://exxxoticaexpo.com/ Striking Vipers Black Mirror Episode https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Striking_Vipers Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 101 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com RopeFlix.com, just like Netflix, but for Japanese erotic rope bondage! 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

2 Sep 201951min

Amp Somers from Watts The Safe Word discusses sex-positive content creation. We talk: the rewards & difficulties of being a Youtuber, why demonetization and censorship have snowballed, and how the mark of Youtube success has changed over the years. Amp discusses other platforms too-- how people are bullying adult creators on Instagram under the guise of 'indecency', the age-old question of where to draw the line between art and pornography, plus SESTA/FOSTA and other factors creating the perfect storm of internet censorship across platforms like Patreon, Twitter, etc. We also learn what we can do to personally combat internet censorship (yes, you can make an impact!). Amp also tells us the secrets of finding kick-ass BDSM gear on websites like Wish and Amazon while avoiding shoddy products that could set your genitals on fire. Over on Patreon Amp tells a story about his first time on a porn set and it has a very unexpected twist https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-story-amp-29399083! Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 100 Links Watts the Safeword Website http://www.wattsthesafeword.com/ Watts The Safeword YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCokRyLsHxh-NykvT4uA6n2g Watts the Safeword Twitter https://twitter.com/WattsTheSafewrd Amp Somers Twitter https://twitter.com/Pup_Amp Watts the Safeword Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wattsthesafeword/ Watts the Safeword Facebook https://www.facebook.com/WattsTheSafeword/ We're Suing Google/YouTube and Here's Why Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jOqBm-e7Ns&t=4s CNN Google/YouTube story: https://www.cnn.com/2019/08/15/tech/youtube-lawsuit-lgbtq/index.html YouTube sued for allegedly discriminating against LGBTQ community https://www.cnn.com/2019/08/15/tech/youtube-lawsuit-lgbtq/index.html LGBTQ Creators Sue YouTube Over Alleged Discrimination https://variety.com/2019/digital/news/lgbtq-youtube-lawsuit-1203302184/ My catfish Horror Story Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXLl0ry2Smk Kinky Wish Shopping Haul Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ppk9Ms1SflE Kinky Wish Shopping Haul 2 Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8c9oXDCDuYc Kinky Amazon Shopping Haul video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTItZdYDfC4&t=8s Amp's bonus story https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-story-amp-29399083 Sunny Megatron's article about counterfeit sex toys: http://sunnymegatron.com/counterfeit-vibrators-hitachi-magic-wand-fake/ American Sex podcast SESTA/FOSTA episode http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny Bawdy Storytelling Podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcast Cat wine https://www.etsy.com/listing/637424420/pinot-meow-cat-wine-wine-cat-lady-cats (we have no referral relationship with them but please tell them we sent you!) American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 100 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Off The Cuffs: A Kink & BDSM Podcast https://www.offthecuffs.org/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

26 Aug 20191h 6min

Nicole Prause, Ph.D. gives us an eye-opening view into the world of a sex researcher. We learn about the latest sexuality research like brain hacking to normalize sexual desire, scientific sex product research, and the very specific laboratory definition of an orgasm that surprisingly fails to line up with what many of us experience in the bedroom. We get into the internal clitoris, vasocongestion, skene's glands, the mystery of sexual vaginal lubrication, and the most sensitive areas of the clitoral glans. Have you heard that men are more sexually visual, orgasms are different based on gender, or the more testosterone someone has the stronger their sex drive is? Dr. Prause tells us why these and other sexual "facts" aren't true at all. This episode has so much fascinating information, it's a sex geek's wet dream! We also tell you about a free upcoming learning resource for existing and aspiring sexuality educators. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 99 Links Liberos Website https://liberoscenter.com/ Nicole Prause Twitter https://twitter.com/NicoleRPrause Liberos Facebook https://www.facebook.com/LiberosCenter/ Nicole Prause Episode art photo credit Tom Bassett http://tombassett.com/ More about the internal clitoris http://centerforeroticintelligence.org/internal-clitoris/ Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close-- less than 100 to go!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 99 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 1 free month of Audible Escape http://audible.com/sunny - Access the entire library of 18,000+ love stories and romance audiobooks! 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more)http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bedhttp://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

19 Aug 201947min

It's legal in the majority of the US for medical students to perform educational pelvic exams on anesthetized patients without their knowledge. Amy Jo Goddard has been working for years to put a stop to this practice and is producing a documentary on the issue called At Your Cervix. In this conversation, she tells us how unbelievably prevalent this practice is. She also gives accounts from women this has happened to and from medical students uncomfortable with this requirement but afraid to jeopardize their grades by refusing. We also learn about the dark history of gynecology, the work Amy Jo has done to help make these exams illegal in certain parts of the US, how Gynecological Teaching Assistants can give better training to students, plus she gives tips on how we can protect ourselves when we're in the care of medical professionals. (Content note: If you're a survivor of sexual assault-- especially in a medical context or someone who has had prior medical procedures under anesthesia, some of what we discuss may be difficult to hear. I want you to know that before listening and reassure you that even if you're a die-hard American Sex fan & never miss an episode, it's fine to sit this one out. Your well being is important us ❤️ )⁣ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 98 Links Amy Jo Goddard Website http://amyjogoddard.com/ Amy Jo Goddard Twitter https://twitter.com/AmyJoGoddard Amy Jo Goddard Instagram http://instagram.com/sexualempowerment Amy Jo Goddard Facebook https://www.facebook.com/amyjogoddard.coach/ At Your Cervix movie https://www.atyourcervixmovie.com/ Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 98 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bedhttp://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

12 Aug 20191h

Level up your dating game with Shannon Boodram! Screw those dating books filled with pick up artist techniques to trick potential mates. Shan's dating advice is more like "dating therapy"… and you need it! We talk about the importance of addressing emotional intelligence before you start swiping on Tinder. Shan tells us why knowing you and your partner's attachment style and apology style is so important. We also learn why risky behavior is integral to your brain's development and bonding with a partner, how to handle things if your partner isn't as committed to doing self-work as you are, flirting tips for those that aren't great with non-verbal cues, and more. No matter your relationship style, sexual orientation, romantic orientation, or gender, Shan's info is just as valuable to new partners as to those who have been together for decades. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 97 Links Shannon Boodram's Website: https://www.shanboodram.com/ The Game of Desire book website https://www.thegameofdesire.com/ Shannon Boodram Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/ Shannon Boodram youtube https://www.youtube.com/user/shannontboodram Shan's OkCupid Video https://youtu.be/EHMF2faG7WA Giddy https://getmegiddy.com Shan's Bonus audio https://www.patreon.com/posts/28838987 Ep 61 - Empowerment & Healing in Trying Times w/ Amy Jo Goddard http://sunnymegatron.com/amy-jo-goddard-womens-sexual-empowerment/ @Sheisthe_t/Tenishia on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sheisthe_t/?hl=en Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 97 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Fire Woman Retreat http://amyjogoddard.com/firewomanretreat Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bedhttp://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

5 Aug 20191h 4min

Episode 96 of American Sex podcast is all about pubic hair. The societal messages we receive about our genital hair cause us a great deal of turmoil. Should we trim? Shave completely? Or let it grow free? What do our grooming preferences say about us and how do the people we're intimate with feel about that? On this episode, we examine your personal stories, difficulties, and strategies for caring for your garden down below. We also speak with Lyndsey Craig, an anthropology doctoral candidate studying cross-cultural pubic hair grooming practices. They say that our modern preference for genital baldness is primarily influenced by pornography & the media. Will Lyndsey's pubic detective work throughout history tell us otherwise? You may be surprised at what you'll learn! Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 96 Links Lyndsey Craig Twitter https://twitter.com/lyndseykcraig Participate in Lyndsey's next study: Women's Romantic Strategies in Long-Term Relationships: bit.ly/2Kp8FfQ We are looking for US women aged 25-45 who are in committed, heterosexual relationships to participate in a new research study about women's choice in romance from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. The only survey will take about 20-30 minutes to complete, and you will have an option to enter for a chance to win one of three $50 Amazon gift cards. What Do Women Want book http://danielbergner.com/what-do-women-want Playboy Magazine Study https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19916105 Folklore & hair https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Christian_Bromberger/publication/30441655_On_the_symbolism_of_hair_in_Islamic_societies_An_analysis_of_approaches_Anthropology_of_the_Middle_East_vol_1_n_2_winter_2006_pp_72-88/links/57168ff308ae377f0bd617ee/On-the-symbolism-of-hair-in-Islamic-societies-An-analysis-of-approaches-Anthropology-of-the-Middle-East-vol-1-n-2-winter-2006-pp-72-88.pdf Pubic hair removal among Saudi women https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12905-018-0661-6 eHRAF World Cultures https://ehrafworldcultures.yale.edu/ehrafe/ Sugaring article https://www.byrdie.com/sugaring-hair-removal-101-1717097 Pubic hair feedback on Twitter https://twitter.com/SunnyMegatron/status/1155193610255495168 Pubic hair feedback on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SunnyMegatron/posts/2521643911214768? Pubic hair feedback on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/p/B0bj4m6hzfW/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Pubic hair feedback on Instastories highlight https://www.instagram.com/s/aGlnaGxpZ2h0OjE4MDA4NjY0MDY0MjI2Mjg3?igshid=1fhl43c9hh18k&story_media_id=2097423461579667355_30660739 My 2012 blog post about pubic hair http://sunnymegatron.com/pubic-hair-to-shave-or-not-to-shave/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast p.s. Dear internet/social media police, the hairy background for the cover art is NOT actual pubic hair. It's actually a man's chest hair (heaven forbid it's a woman's chest hair cuz that would never be allowed :roll eyes: ) from this wiki commons photo: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Category:Chest_hair#/media/File:Brusthaare.JPG Episode 96 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

29 Juli 20191h 6min

BDSM educator, Casey Carter, welcomes us back from our summer hiatus on episode 95 of American Sex podcast. Casey tells us about diving into the kink & leather world after the age of 40 when an unexpected divorce forced her to reexamine a sexual part of herself he had abandoned years before. She gives us important tips about exploring kink and tells us why understanding what's behind our reluctance to talk to partners about fantasies is crucial for a satisfying sex life. We discuss the upsides and downsides of being one of the few black, dominant, female BDSM educators in our field plus Casey gives us ideas for pervertibles you have right in your own home that you can use tonight. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 95 Links Casey Carter Twitter (Home of Casey@Night-- weekly Twitter/Periscope show Wednesday 10pm EST) https://twitter.com/ReadCaseyCarter Casey Carter Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thecaseycarterexperience/ Casey Carter Website http://casey-carter.com/ Casey Carter's Erotic Short Stories https://www.amazon.com/Casey-Carter/e/B0142Z1XWW/ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1?qid=1538519018&sr=8-1 Casey Carter's Patreon Bonus Story https://www.patreon.com/posts/28545978 Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 95 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 ⁣

22 Juli 20191h 5min