Racial Inequity, BIPOC Sexuality & The Pleasure Revolution with Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons - Ep 201

Hudsy Hawn is not your typical dominatrix. She tells us how discovering BDSM in her 30s after tragedy and divorce changed her life. Careerwise kink took her literally from Disneyland to the Dungeon. It also healed personal wounds in unexpected ways. Hudsy shares how these experiences lead to her hit musical stage show geared toward vanilla audiences. We also get a peek into the pro-BDSM world and learn about the lives of professional submissives. She gives us tips for getting into kink with or without a partner and breaking into the business for those that want to go pro. Sunny & Ken kick off a second pleasure product giveaway for the month of October and look forward to Ken's returning to Chicago after months away. Don't miss Hudsy's bonus audio--it's a cautionary buttplug tale--at http://patreon.com/americansex Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.comTo support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!)Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/treGet friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.comJoin our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo!____________________________________ Episode 62 Links Hudsy Hawn Website http://www.fromvanillatokink.com Hudsy Hawn Twitter http://twitter.com/hudsyhawn Hudsy Hawn Instagram http://instagram.com/hudsyhawn Hudsy Hawn Facebook http://facebook.com/hudsyhawn Hudsy Hawn Medium http://medium.com/hudsyhawn Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg at Friends Club in Austin, TX November 9th & 10th http://austinfriends.club.com Episode 62 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Tantus Rumble Instagram giveaway sponsored by http://DallasNovelty.com ($159 value). Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway Instagram post for details and to enter http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron(Direct link https://www.instagram.com/p/BoqQAKdBgYT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link ) Lovense Edge Prostate Bluetooth Massager giveaway ($119 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/edge 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Get the early-bird pricing late for Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 26-28 2018 with code SUNNY https://www.ropecraft.net/austin/ $250 off Midori's Forte Femme Women's Dominance Weekend New York October 26-28 2018 with code sunny18 http://www.fortefemme.com/

8 Okt 20181h 12min

Amy Jo Goddard specializes in women's healing & empowerment and after the week our country has had, this conversation is perfectly timed. Sunny & Amy Jo discuss the impact of age of #MeToo has had on various members of society--women, survivors, allies, non-binary folks, men, people of color, etc--and how our roles in it all intertwine. Their discussion zeros in on how these factors affect women's sexuality: why so many have difficulty focusing on pleasure and embracing desire, the struggle of getting sexual and emotional needs met, healing from trauma, feeling sexually 'broken', learning to be fully present in your body, and more. Amy Jo gives us a peek at the magic that goes on during private empowerment retreats plus gives great tips for partners of those negatively affected by the Kavanaugh hearings. Sunny also announces some nifty new podcast swag on its way to Patreon members. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/tre Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 61 Links Amy Jo Goddard Website http://amyjogoddard.com/ Amy Jo Goddard Twitter https://twitter.com/AmyJoGoddard Amy Jo Goddard Instagram http://instagram.com/sexualempowerment Amy Jo Goddard Facebook https://www.facebook.com/amyjogoddard.coach/ $75 off Amy Jo Goddard's Fire Woman retreat in San Diego October 12-14 with Code IMONFIRE2018 http://firewomanretreat.com About the #WhyIDidntReport hashtag https://www.wired.com/story/whyididntreport-hashtag/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 61 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Bio Bidet Slim Edge: http://bit.ly/sunnyslimedge Lovense Edge Prostate Bluetooth Massager giveaway ($119 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/edge 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Get the early-bird pricing late for Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 26-28 2018 with code SUNNY https://www.ropecraft.net/austin/ $250 off Midori's Forte Femme Women's Dominance Weekend New York October 26-28 2018 with code sunny18 http://www.fortefemme.com/

1 Okt 20181h 13min

Intimacy Coach Stella Harris is a healthy communication rockstar and just released a new best selling book on the subject. In this episode Stella teaches us: what to do when one partner isn't putting in the effort, boundary & expectation setting in the early part of relationships, how communication differs for vanilla & BDSM situations, navigating consent without ruining the mood, sexual improv tips & communication exercises for improving your sex life & more! Sunny shows her appreciation for Bi Visibility Day and endures a lot of pounding while Ken is away. Catch Stella's bonus story about a very unusual first date on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/21592544 Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/tre Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 60 Links Stella Harris' Website www.stellaharris.net Stella Harris' Twitter https://twitter.com/StellaErotica Stella Harris' Instagram http://instagram.com/StellaHarrisErotica Stella Harris' Facebook http://.facebook.com/StellaErotica Stella Harris' Book, Exposure: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink & Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Tongue-Tied-Untangling-Communication-Relationships/dp/1627782664 Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns book http://sunnymegatron.com/product/screw-the-roses-send-me-the-thorns/ Sunny's Bi Visibility Day Article http://sunnymegatron.com/happy-bisexuality-day-why-its-so-hard-to-be-bi/ Patreon Wall of Thanks http://sunnymegatron.com/sponsors/ Midori American Sex Podcast episode http://sunnymegatron.com/midori-erotic-roleplay-finding-your-dominance/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 60 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

24 Sep 20181h 12min

Dr. Chauntelle studies the sociology of sexuality and sex work. This fascinating conversation integrates the economics, ethics, psychology, politics, and marketing of sex--all critical components of sexual freedom we're not accustomed to thinking about. We discuss: Why researchers shy away from studying sexuality, how our social & cultural discomforts with sex permeate everything, Stormy Daniels & how she's single-handedly extinguishing puritanical biases about sex work, the impact of technology on sex, why Visa & Mastercard are at the helm of shaping your sexual preferences and regulating your access to porn, the realities of robot sex & more! Ken & Sunny are shocked by the latest hit to the ASMR community plus Ken reveals the special gift he picked up for Sunny in Los Angeles. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/tre Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 59 Links Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals Website http://www.chauntelletibbals.com/ Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals Twitter https://twitter.com/DrChauntelle Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals Book, Exposure: A Sociologist Explores Sex, Society, and Adult Entertainment https://www.amazon.com/Exposure-Sociologist-Explores-Society-Entertainment-ebook/dp/B01CMJ3G7U/ref=dp_kinw_strp_1 Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals Motorbunny Blog https://motorbunny.com/blogs/news/helpful-hop-on-hints-introducing-dr-chauntelle Stormy Daniels Twitter https://twitter.com/StormyDaniels ASMR creators shut down by Paypal article https://www.engadget.com/2018/09/14/paypal-ban-asmr-sound-art-therapy/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 59 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

17 Sep 20181h 16min

The folks from Black People Kink Podcast, Dominus Blue & jaemina, drop tons of gems in this week's episode. They open up about their 24/7 total power exchange Dominant/submissive BDSM relationship and explain how the dynamic isn't so different from vanilla couples. We talk monogamy vs. polyamory; dropping the racial terms black & white for melanated & demelanated; why jaemina views her submission as a feminist act; how to be an effective, nurturing, emotionally intelligent dominant; why respectability politics in marginalized communities hampers sexual freedom; inclusivity in kink; healing invisible scars with yoga & more. Sunny gives a nod to the Sex Talk with My Mom podcast as she invites her daughter to guest co-host the intro. The pair concoct an avocado blowbang extravaganza and have some comfortable uncomfortable conversations. You can listen to the continued avocado conversation here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-audio-syd-21320929 Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 58 Links Black People Kink Website https://www.blackpeoplekink.com Black People Kink Instagram https://www.instagram.com/blackpeoplekink/ Black People Kink Twitter https://twitter.com/blackpeoplekink Black People Kink Facebook https://www.facebook.com/BPKink/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Sunny & Syd's avocado blowbang character creation bonus audio: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-audio-syd-21320929 Episode 58 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 15% off at http://getmaude.com with code SUNNY 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

10 Sep 20181h 13min

Science has never been so sexy! Adult performer, Fem Domme, and Infectious Disease professional, Bella Bathory gives us a peek at safety protocols in the adult industry. She tells us about the incredibly effective systems performers use to minimize STI transmission on porn sets. We also talk about HIV stigma. Last week an adult performer tested HIV positive and brought to the surface myths and biases rooted in homophobia and anti-sex work rhetoric. We discuss the damage these falsehoods do and what happens when they spill over into the mainstream community. Bella also gives helpful tips about testing and risks for the mainstream population plus she explains PREP and breaks down what having an undetectable viral load means. Ken & Sunny receive a gift from a listener plus Sunny becomes a CPAP evangelist. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettylovefordGet friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 57 Links Bella Bathory Twitter https://twitter.com/thebellabathory Bella Bathory Instagram https://www.instagram.com/MistressBellaBathory/ Bella Bathory Website http://www.mistressbellabathory.com/ Sunny Megatron wands live stream with Peepshow Toys 9/6/18 9pm CST http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Podcast Amazon Wishlist: http://bit.ly/sunnykenwishlist Episode 57 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 15% off at http://getmaude.com with code SUNNY 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

3 Sep 20181h 3min

Ken and Sunny dive into their mailbag to answer listener sex questions this week for their first ever Q&A episode! They cover subjects from vanilla to extra kinky-- erotic asphyxiation, electric play, blow job tips, orgasm issues, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships, desensitization from vibrators, how to go on after a good dick down, intro to BDSM, compromise in the bedroom, what to do with the balls, and more. This episode is not to be missed! Do you have a question you'd like answered anonymously in a future episode? Send it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com. Also this week Sunny & Ken adjust to temporarily living apart plus Sunny looks forward to wearing a CPAP mask. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 55 Links Kink Academy online BDSM learning http://bit.ly/kinkacademy.com Autostraddle Yes/No/Maybe list https://www.autostraddle.com/you-need-help-here-is-a-worksheet-to-help-you-talk-to-partners-about-sex-237385/ Sunny & Ken's BDSM Yes/No/Maybe list & ROUGHBS scene negotiation tool http://bit.ly/bdsmynm MyStim Tension Lover TENS unit for BDSM https://www.stockroom.com/mystim-tension-lover.html?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 Sunny's BDSM 101 video series https://youtu.be/f-Z4NHj2FTc Sunny's SPH video https://youtu.be/hiG1tp_85To DDLG Article http://sunnymegatron.com/7-fundamental-characteristics-of-a-daddy-dominant/ Body Clamps Article http://sunnymegatron.com/intro-labia-clamps/ Nipple Suckers https://www.stockroom.com/gripper-nip-pull.html?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 56 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 15% off at http://getmaude.com with code SUNNY 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY Ojoy Olive remote control kegel vibe giveaway ($89 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/oilve 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

27 Aug 20181h 9min

This conversation about sex and disability is essential listening for every human on the planet! Andrew Gurza helps us sit with and work through our discomforts around disability. We talk ableism, inspiration porn, and the reason he chooses to identify with words most people find uncomfortable. Andrew tells us about his own difficulties as someone with cerebral palsy navigating queer spaces and dealing with jerks in the dating pool. We also get down to the juicy stuff as Andrew shares details from his own sex life. Ken & Sunny theorize about Doja Cat's new hit "Mooo!" and its relation to hucow fetish plus they share a heartfelt goodbye as they wonder what the next 8 weeks will bring. Don't miss Andrew's bonus story at patreon.com/americansex Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 55 Links Andrew Gurza Twitter https://twitter.com/andrewgurza Andrew Gurza Website http://www.andrewgurza.com/ Andrew Gurza Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cripplecontent Disability After Dark Podcast http://www.andrewgurza.com/disability-after-dark/ Support the first line of sex toys for people with disabilities https://www.gofundme.com/sxtoydisabilityresearch Love's Not Color Blind by Kevin Patterson https://www.amazon.com/Loves-Not-Color-Blind-Representation/dp/1944934464 "Mooo!" By Doja Cat ("Bitch, I'm a Cow") Video https://youtu.be/mXnJqYwebF8 Sunny's hucow fetish educational video https://youtu.be/qqp093vJPf4 Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 55 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Ojoy Olive remote control kegel vibe giveaway ($89 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/oilve 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

20 Aug 20181h 14min