141: Live Life on Your Terms | Hunter McIntyre

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of self-betrayal, defining it as failing to act on known responsibilities or instincts. He discusses its consequences, including anxiety, poor relationships, and unfulfilled potential, and identifies emotional signs like frustration and impatience. Ryan provides actionable steps to overcome self-betrayal, such as listing neglected tasks, taking immediate action, and journaling emotions. Encouraging listeners to align actions with their values, he offers resources at orderofman.com. Tune in to learn how to bridge the integrity gap and live a more fulfilled life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Self-Betrayal 02:55 - Sources of Intuition and Emotion 05:19 - Consequences of Self-Betrayal 07:44 - Recognizing Self-Betrayal Symptoms 12:30 - External vs. Internal Factors 19:25 - Actionable Steps to Overcome Self-Betrayal 26:05 - Journaling and Reflecting 28:30 - Additional Resources and Closing   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

18 Apr 29min

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, trust, and balance. From auditing life’s decisions to rebuilding trust with kids, they dive into coachability, journaling, and managing overwork. Ryan shares insights from his Texas hunting trip and mentions The Men's Forge event (May 1-4). Expect raw reflections on letting go, choosing yourself, and earning trust, with practical advice for intentional living.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:20 - Morning Routine Struggles 03:41 - Auditing Life’s Decisions 15:45 - One Principle for Your Son 20:42 - Prioritizing Self vs. Promises 25:33 - Books That Shape You 37:18 - Why Start Journaling 42:06 - Signs of Overworking 47:36 - Rebuilding Trust with Kids 55:03 - Texas Hunting Trip Recap 59:14 - The Men's Forge Event Promo Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

16 Apr 1h 1min

It’s hard to believe that in the year 2025, child sex trafficking is as prolific as it is today. How is that with all the laws, legislation, and awareness that we’re still dealing with the torment of sexual exploitation with our sons and daughters? My guest today, Nate Lewis, has made it his life’s work to combat and overcoming the epidemic that is plaguing every corner of society. And, not only that, he is a huge proponent of finding your own mission and pouring all in on that – whatever it may be. Today, Nate and I talk about the driving factors behind child exploitation, why YOU should address the societal injustices you see in society today, the power of coachability and gritty-ness in your pursuit of your dreams, and why and how to protect yourself, society, and children from the nastiness and perversion of modern culture. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:00:20 - Welcoming Nate Lewis 00:00:36 - The Reality of Child Trafficking 00:01:46 - Protecting Boys and Girls 00:02:49 - Impact of Pornography 00:08:40 - Operation Underground Railroad 00:09:38 - Nate’s Background in Film 00:10:35 - First Deployment Experience 00:13:37 - Stories of Resilience 00:15:59 - Family and Mission Balance 00:18:31 - The Innocent Logo Origin 00:24:32 - Purpose Through Adversity 00:31:23 - Advice for Pursuing Purpose 00:37:44 - Work Ethic and Grit 00:43:14 - Community Involvement Strategies 00:50:46 - Law Enforcement Priorities 00:57:11 - Confronting Ignorance 01:04:13 - How to Support The Innocent 01:12:08 - Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

15 Apr 1h 17min

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler draws inspiration from Theodore Roosevelt’s iconic speech to explore resilience and masculinity. Michler challenges men to rise above criticism, embrace adversity, and take action despite life’s inevitable setbacks. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, he outlines steps to build confidence, act decisively, and critique oneself constructively without losing identity.  Ryan emphasizes that true manhood shines in moments of struggle, urging listeners to live boldly as the "man in the arena." Tune in for an inspiring call to courage and purposeful action. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:10.082 - Introduction to Man in the Arena 02:02.508 - Reading the Man in the Arena Excerpt 04:28.674 - Preparing for Life’s Battles 06:51.744 - Stop Seeking Approval 11:10.03 - The Confidence Continuum 13:30.466 - Do What You Can 17:50.552 - Action as the Antidote 20:14.158 - Critique Without Self-Destruction 22:13.102 - Take More Action 26:42.7 - Closing and Battle Ready Program Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

11 Apr 28min

In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos tackle your burning questions with raw, actionable insights. From investing $10K wisely to navigating trivial work tasks, coaching U13 soccer teams, and guiding high-performing teens, they cover it all. Plus, hear candid advice on silencing self-criticism and handling toxic colleagues.  Packed with life lessons on leadership, choice, and growth, this episode delivers real talk for real challenges. Tune in for wisdom that cuts through the noise—perfect for anyone ready to level up in work, family, and beyond. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:03 - Intro Banter 03:02 - Investing $10K Smartly 10:26 - Escaping the Trivial Whirlwind 24:18 - Leading a U13 Soccer Team 36:41 - Guiding Teenage Sons 46:21 - Overcoming Self-Criticism 58:30 - Dealing with Toxic Colleagues 01:12:53 - Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

9 Apr 1h 14min

We are all well-aware, at this point, that there is a very clear and deliberate assault against the concepts of manliness and masculinity. In fact, men are falling behind on some of the most crucial metrics you can image for a healthy society: depression rates, suicide, higher education, income potential, incarceration, substance abuse, committed relationships, workforce participation, and the list goes on and on.  My guest today, after an incredibly successful start in Hollywood as Mike Seaver on Growing Pains, Kirk Cameron, has made it his life’s mission to reclaim masculinity, not only in his home but to become a champion of manliness for all men who are working to unpack what it means to be a man.  Today, we talk about the biggest threats to masculinity, how we can lead well within the walls of our home, how righteousness and truth are the foundation of manliness, how to reclaim our power, work with our women, and lead the next generation who will eventually lead us. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:12) Introduction (00:12) Reclaiming Masculinity (03:50) Defining True Masculinity Today (11:18) Embracing Authentic Masculinity Today (21:23) Building Emotional Security in Relationships (29:28) Redefining Masculinity for Today's World (41:57) Legacy of Courage and Parenthood (54:20) The Power of Moral Compass (01:05:12) Igniting Imagination (01:10:34) Discovering True Masculinity Today Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

8 Apr 1h 11min

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores what it means to be a comprehensive man, introducing a framework of head, heart, and hands—logic, empathy, and action. Reflecting on his own tendencies and biases, Ryan challenges listeners to identify their strengths and weaknesses across these dimensions. Through personal anecdotes, including a friend’s loss and a poignant Iron Council call, he emphasizes the need for balance to lead effectively in family, business, and community. Ryan invites feedback as he refines this model, urging men to round out their approach to become who they’re meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:30 - Introducing the Comprehensive Man 02:54 - Head, Heart, and Hands Framework 05:13 - Strengths and Weaknesses of Each Type 07:22 - Adapting to the Moment 09:33 - Pros and Cons of Each Dimension 11:58 - Reflecting for Growth 14:27 - Leading with Purpose 16:28 - Call to Action Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

4 Apr 14min

In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a viral morning routine video before tackling listener questions. From the power of comparison and faith in men’s ministries to essentialism in daily tasks and building friendships, they offer practical insights. Ryan shares his half-marathon experience, while Kipp celebrates his son’s jujitsu win. Expect raw, actionable advice on choosing battles, seeking guidance, and property investment, all laced with humor and real talk. Tune in for inspiration and strategies to level up your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:04 - Intro and Morning Struggles 01:10 - Headline: Viral Morning Routine 01:19 - Kipp’s Son’s Jujitsu Triumph 03:17 - Ryan’s Half-Marathon Journey 09:34 - Comparison: Thief or Tool? 13:02 - Faith and Men’s Ministry 22:39 - Mastering Essentialism 32:28 - Asking for Guidance Right 46:26 - Property in Apple Valley 49:00 - Choosing Your Battles 54:29 - Forging Male Friendships 58:36 - Wrap-Up and Upcoming Guests Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

2 Apr 1h