Trauma Bonding Part One of Two
Why can’t I actually leave this relationship? I want to! I’m tired of being treated this way. I’m tired of the ups and downs. I want stability. I want peace. I want less drama. Why can’t I actually wa...
3 Apr 202221min
Living in the Narcissistic FOG
There is a reason that this word FOG always appears in capital letters now. It is an acronym for Fear, Obligation and Guilt. These words explain the progression of things for the victim of narcissisti...
27 Mars 202222min
3 Landmarks that Boosted Me Forward
Last night, I was caught off guard with a question I had not really thought about. I was not prepared to answer this question about my journey with a covert narcissistic husband. Here's the question: ...
20 Mars 202221min
Everything you say and do can and will get used against you
I mean everything!! You never feel safe interacting with this person. This is why this particular type of abuse is so exhausting. While the abuse may not be constant, the risk of it is. The potential ...
13 Mars 202221min
Compare the life of a covert narcissist with the life of their victim
Are you trying to decide if all you are going through is "normal," or if it is fair and reasonable? In the last two episodes, I have talked about the codependency traits that so many victims have in c...
6 Mars 202219min
The Eternal Victim Role of a Covert Narcissist
I hear so many people who have lived with a covert narcissist describe this person as a victim of everything. They can make everything be an attack on them or another way they got slighted. Covert nar...
27 Feb 202223min
How My Codependent Tendencies Led Me Straight to a Covert Narcissist
I now know the role that my own codependent tendencies played in creating this match. This match that I was convinced was made in heaven. This match that I truly believed was perfect. This match that ...
20 Feb 202220min
Midweek Check In #2
Grasping covert narcissism is like grasping the wind. It is here one minute and gone the next. We think we have a solid grasp on it only to watch that slip away. This only adds to the confusion we hav...
16 Feb 202222min
