164. "Why can’t they just change!” - Resisting the reality of other people
‘Why can’t they be more sensitive?!’ ‘Why can’t they be more affectionate’ ‘Why can’t they just do what they said they’d do!’ ‘They shouldn’t be so opinionated’ Ever find yourself ruminating about ...
5 Dec 202528min
163. ‘If they wanted to they would’ / When you’re obsessing over them
How often have you heard the phrase ‘If they wanted to they would’? Well in today’s episode, I’m talking about that well used advice and how it isn’t always useful. AND offering you a new perspectiv...
28 Nov 202521min
162. Anxiety in long distance relationships (BLAST FROM THE PAST)
Whether you're in a long distance relationship or not - there will be something in this episode for you! We're going to cover: Emotional permanence, and how some of us struggle to believe our partner...
21 Nov 202528min
161. Creating self confidence (BLAST FROM THE PAST)
Do you struggle feeling confident? And often find yourself feeling anxious, insecure, and filled with self-doubt? Did you know that, despite what a lot of us think, confidence isn't actually somethin...
14 Nov 202521min
160. Real life coaching: Inappropriate friendships, dating rejections, and unruly mother-in-laws
In today’s episode I’m answering questions from listeners on their real life relationship struggles. Covering topics including: What to do when your husband has female friends you’re uncomfortable wi...
7 Nov 202522min
159. Dealing with dismissive, defensive or emotionally immature partners
You’re all listening to this podcast because you’re perhaps aware your anxious mind is causing a lot, or some, problems and you want to take back control of your side of the equation. But what happens...
31 Okt 202523min
158. How to handle triggers in the moment
Do you ‘get’ this work - but still find yourself reacting badly when you’re triggered Do you know your thoughts aren’t likely true, but can’t help but panic and react when they appear? If so - you’re ...
24 Okt 202525min
157. Are we having enough sex? (And other fears)
Do you ever get anxious about how often you and your partner are having sex? Do you question whether you’re having ‘enough’ sex? Keeping score of who initiates the most? Or focusing on their experi...
17 Okt 202530min
