28. The Validation Vending Machine

28. The Validation Vending Machine

Do you feel like the behaviour of the people in your life has the power to make you feel TERRIBLE about yourself or AMAZING? Do you find yourself feeling very insecure in your relationships and wishing people would change so you could feel better? When we base our self worth on the way others think, feel and act towards us - we naturally end up using them as validation vending machines... wanting them to spit out validation and make us feel 'good enough' whenever we want them to. Listen ...

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159. Dealing with dismissive, defensive or emotionally immature partners

159. Dealing with dismissive, defensive or emotionally immature partners

You’re all listening to this podcast because you’re perhaps aware your anxious mind is causing a lot, or some, problems and you want to take back control of your side of the equation. But what happens...

31 Okt 202523min

158. How to handle triggers in the moment

158. How to handle triggers in the moment

Do you ‘get’ this work - but still find yourself reacting badly when you’re triggered Do you know your thoughts aren’t likely true, but can’t help but panic and react when they appear? If so - you’re ...

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157.  Are we having enough sex? (And other fears)

157. Are we having enough sex? (And other fears)

Do you ever get anxious about how often you and your partner are having sex? Do you question whether you’re having ‘enough’ sex? Keeping score of who initiates the most? Or focusing on their experi...

17 Okt 202530min

156. Am I gaslighting myself?

156. Am I gaslighting myself?

Ever worry that if you start to do this work to clean up your own thinking you might end up accidentally gaslighting yourself or becoming okay with everything - even bad behaviour? If so - you’re not ...

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155. Needs vs wants: And communicating for connection

155. Needs vs wants: And communicating for connection

Is this a want or a need?Why does my partner get so defensive when I tell them what I need in the relationship? And is this relationship just not right for me?In today’s episode - I’m talking all abou...

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154. 5 questions for when you're feeling rejected (BLAST FROM THE PAST)

154. 5 questions for when you're feeling rejected (BLAST FROM THE PAST)

Today, I’m sharing a blast from the past in the form of a previous episode I released in 2024 - offering you 5 questions to ask yourself when you feel rejected. If you’ve already heard this one - the...

26 Sep 202520min

153. Stop projecting your insecurities (Cleaning up your side of the street)

153. Stop projecting your insecurities (Cleaning up your side of the street)

Are you blaming your partner, friends or family members for how you feel? Saying they ‘make’ you feel bad, insecure, anxious or rejected? 'Shoulding' them - believing they should behave differently. A...

18 Sep 202517min

152. Dating & building rejection resilience

152. Dating & building rejection resilience

Are you dating but finding the experience pretty miserable? Are you constantly afraid of rejection and does the idea of getting ghosted again make you want to delete all the apps and stop bothering al...

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