Ep. 2 - How to stop thinking about my ex

In this eye-opening episode, Dorothy challenges you to confront what’s actually holding you back long after you've "healed" from your breakup. Discover why so many people who are "over their ex" still find themselves recreating similar patterns and limitations in their new life. Learn the three critical mindset shifts that shatter this and allow you to quantum leap into the extraordinary life you deserve. If you've done all the right healing work but still don't wake up feeling like you've won the lottery every day, this episode will transform how you view your potential and what's truly possible for your post-breakup evolution. The Bigger & Better Life Mastermind: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/biggerbetterlifemastermind/

17 Mars 20min

You can’t stop thinking about your ex, and it’s exhausting. No matter what you do, they’re always on your mind—replaying memories, overanalyzing what went wrong, wondering if they miss you too. It feels like you have no control over it. But what if you could? In this episode, I’m giving you a simple, two-step process to break the mental loop and finally get relief. No fluff, no vague advice—just exactly what to do to stop obsessing over your ex and start feeling like yourself again. If you’re sick of them taking up space in your head, this episode is a must-listen. The Get Over Your Ex Course: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse/

10 Mars 12min

You're stuck on your ex, and you don’t know why. You’ve tried everything—cutting contact, waiting for time to heal, distracting yourself—but nothing is working. What if the reason you can’t move on isn’t what you think it is? In this episode, we’re uncovering the hidden force keeping you emotionally tied to your ex and why the usual breakup advice isn’t helping. If you’ve ever wondered, Why am I still not over this?—you need to hear this. The Get Over Your Ex Course - https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse

3 Mars 14min

After a breakup, it’s painful to feel like you never mattered—especially when it feels like you don’t matter to the person that matters most to you in this world. When your ex acts indifferent, it can make you question your own worth. In this live coaching session, we unpack why their actions don’t define your significance and how to reclaim your sense of importance, appreciation, and power. You get to decide that you matter—no one else. If you're ready to stop looking for validation from the wrong place and start feeling unshakable in your worth, this episode is for you. The Get Over Your Ex Course (available for a limited time at $997): https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex5dtmcfa/

24 Feb 22min

After a heartbreak, especially one where someone promised forever and then changed their mind, trusting again can feel impossible. You might be wondering, ‘How will I ever believe in love again?’ In this week’s episode, we unpack why shutting down trust isn’t the answer and how to move forward without fear. This isn’t about labeling your ex as toxic or rewriting the past—it’s about understanding that trust is meant for the right people, not withheld because of the wrong ones. If you're ready to stop feeling stuck and start feeling free, this episode is for you. DEADLINE to join the Get Over Your Ex in 3 months or less program at ($1,500 off) is Friday, February 21st: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcelebrate/

17 Feb 29min

Valentine’s Day can feel overwhelming when you're newly single—reminders of love are everywhere, and the loneliness can feel sharper than ever. But what if, instead of dreading it, you used this time to lean into love in a way that actually makes you feel connected, supported, and at peace? In this episode, I share three defining relationships—one where I was left, one where I did the leaving, and one where I stayed—to show you how love exists in every stage of your journey. You’ll learn how to shift your perspective, embrace love from your past, present, and future, and walk into Valentine’s Day feeling empowered rather than anxious. If you're ready to transform this holiday from painful to powerful, this episode is for you.   LIVE (Feb 10 - 14) 5 day How to Get Over Your Ex Training: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/5daylivetraining/  Enrollment for the Get Over Your Ex program opens FEBRUARY 13th! Save your spot here: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcelebrate/

10 Feb 28min

Seeing your ex with someone new can feel like a punch to the gut—especially if you believe their new partner is somehow "better" than you. In this episode, I break down exactly why that feeling of jealousy takes over and how to take your power back. I'll walk you through three key steps to stop obsessing over your ex's new relationship and start feeling motivated to build the life you actually want. If you’re tired of comparing yourself, stuck in self-doubt, or feeling like you’ll never measure up, this episode will give you the mindset shifts and tools to move forward with confidence—regardless of what your ex is doing. Click play to get started! 5 months of healing in 5 days! Our LIVE event is February 10-14 2025! Come join us. It’s for heartbroken humans who didn’t want the breakup in the first place, those of you who felt forced to leave, and anyone working on building a life that is bigger and better than the one they had with their ex. Save your spot today: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/5daylivetraining/

3 Feb 27min

After a breakup, many moms face the overwhelming challenge of feeling guilty for investing in themselves while their children are also hurting. It’s common to question whether you should be putting time, energy, or even money into your healing journey. In this episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and Laura Conley (Founder of Yummy Mummy) tackle that guilt head-on by breaking down the two types of guilt: one that can actually help guide you and one that holds you back. You'll learn how to distinguish between the two and what to do with each form, so you can not only heal but show up even stronger for yourself and your children. This episode will give you the clarity to stop guilt from running the show and start focusing on your well-being without sacrificing your role as a mom. Learn more about Laura Conley: Website: https://www.lauraconley.com/  Instagram: @lauraconleycoaching Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lauraconleycoaching

27 Jan 37min