#129 - A Star is Born: Overcoming Adversity in the Adult Industry, Achieving Veteran Status and Planning for the Future w/ Cindy Starfall

This week, I catch up with Aliya Brynn, a breakout pornstar who has hustled her way to the top. We speak about her humbled beginnings, overcoming bullying in highschool, and how her sluttiness led to her leading her career. Starting with Snapchat Premium, Aliya tells us how she was able to start selling her nudes on the platform and how that blossomed into other forms of sex work like stripping and now what she’s more famously known for, porn. She shares some hot pornstar tips on how to clean your second butthole, what not to do on your stripper audition and shares us her exciting new partnership with The Lee Network. Another light and hilarious episode with another fantastic sex worker sharing her experience in the ‘biz. Watch the exclusive video on Patreon: https://patreon.com/strippedbysia Twitter.com/aliyabrynn Instagram.com/aliyabrynnlovesyou linktr.ee/aliyabrynn Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! Twitter.com/strippedbysia Patreon.com/strippedbysia Instagram.com/strippedbysia www.stephsia.com

17 Apr 202256min

We've covered a lot heavy topics on the podcast and I feel we need a bit of comedic relief! I bring on Paris Bush, a content creator who specializes in hairy content and butt stuff onto the show. Paris, dishes on how she got into the hairy community and the sub-genres that are within the community, degrees of hairiness, and fans will be shocked at one of the body parts she simply doesn't shave! We swap anal sex stories, what not to do before you have anal sex, and shares some tips on mastering the craft of the anal sex. Paris also educates me on what an "orgasmic birth" is her stance on sex positive parenting to her kids. This was a super fun episode with lots of belly laughs! Loved having Paris on and I'm sure you'll enjoy her content too! Watch the video exclusive on Patreon.com/strippedbysia instagram.com/realparisbush twitter.com/the666milf Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! instagram.com/strippedbysia twitter.com/strippedbysia patreon.com/strippedbysia www.stephsia.com

10 Apr 202256min

We’ve got less than a month to go and hey, even I’m guilty of not having filed my taxes yet. If you’re in the same boat as me and you’re in a bit of a scramble, you might want to tune into this episode with Paige of the new startup, Pypr. Pypr is not your typical accountant. Pypr specifically caters to sex workers, freelancers, independent contractors, and content creators. Paige goes into detail on how she got started with the idea of Pypr, the need she is filling in the industry, and takes out the guesswork on who we should trust when it comes to our finances. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: https://patreon.com/strippedbysia @hellopypr Twitter.com/hellopypr www.hellopypr.com Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! @strippedbysia Twitter.com/strippedbysia Patreon.com/strippedbysia www.stephsia.com

3 Apr 202249min

I've been dying to do an episode on virtual assistants for a while but never got the chance to connect with anyone that was a right fit for the episode...UNTIL NOW. I am extremely pleased to introduce Dabby Longlegs to the podcast this week! Dabby is a multidisciplinary artist and sex worker who, as one of many of the gigs they have, works as a virtual assistant. Having equally worked their fair share in stints in sex work as well as the vanilla world, Dabby stumbled across a TikTok on how to become a virtual assistant. And in the digital world, that's where a lot of work is going! With many sex workers turning their work online, comes with an immense new threshold of mundane work that we just can't manage...which is where virtual assistants come into play. Dabby shows us the ropes when it comes to being a virtual assistant - what tasks are generally expected, what and who they like to look after, and the services they offer. Dabby also so graciously breaks down pricing and rates that they have personally adopted and to give insight on those who are looking for an assistant (including me!). Lastly, we go into the many transferrable skills that sex workers have and why this can be an excellent line of work for those who are choosing to exit the industry. It's a fun, information-packed episode that makes for a great listen and an even better watch! Watch the exclusive video interview with Dabby and past guests only on my Patreon: https://patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, SHARE, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! @strippedbysia twitter.com/strippedbysia patreon.com/strippedbysia www.stephsia.com

27 Mars 20221h 4min

I am super stoked to bring on this week’s guest, Nikki Night, onto the show this week. Nikki is one of the world’s BEST cam model coaches out there. Starting off as a camgirl herself, she quickly was scouted by Playboy to work in their head office. After her short stint there and realizing that the corporate camming (who knew that was a thing!), she found herself at CAM4 in a coaching position. Having had previous administrative and educational experience in her vanilla jobs developing curriculums and programs, Nikki began to conduct group coaching sessions in addition to one-on-one coaching. Overall, Nikki has coached over 8000 cam models worldwide and continues to help new and upcoming cam models in establishing themselves, offering herself as a valuable resource and devising strategy and marketing plans for them. She is such an amazing pillar in this industry and I’m honoured to have her on. Be sure to peep the exclusive video interview – only on Patreon. Patreon.com/strippedbysia Nikkinight.com Twitter.com/nikki_night Instagram.com/camcoachnikki Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! Twitter.com/strippedbysia Instagram.com/strippedbysia Patreon.com/strippedbysia Instagram.com/siasteph www.stephsia.com

20 Mars 20221h 1min

Okay, everyone. I'd like to introduce you to the CUTEST guest I have ever hosted on the show. I am so happy to have interviewed the cutesy Leana Lovings onto the show! Leana is a cam girl who also just recently journeyed into the world of porn - currently #65 and rising the charts on PornHub! We begin our conversation about her roots and upbringing in a religious household, being raised in a megachurch and how it lead to her hopping onto Chaturbate to explore her sexuality and sensuality. We then go into an in-depth conversation about how she's set herself up for success including what specific webcams she uses, the importance of lighting and microphones to create an intimate setting for all of her fans. She also shares an important PSA on toxic dildos (who knew about that?!) and of course, how she got into porn. We speak about her expectations before going into porn and the realities of it, how she feels about the industry and where she will continue to go from there. It's a fantastic conversation that shouldn't be missed, especially if you are thinking about going into camming or porn! Watch part of the interview in full video format on my Patreon: Patreon.com/strippedbysia twitter.com/LeanaLovings onlyfans.com/leanalovings instagram.com/leanalovings Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! twitter.com/strippedbysia instagram.com/strippedbysia instagram.com/siasteph Patreon.com/strippedbysia www.stephsia.com

13 Mars 20221h 2min

Really excited to bring this week's guest on the show to speak about money management. Sure, we, as sex workers, have the potential to make a lot of money. But what do we do with that? Some of us have short-term goals of buying that purse or pair of shoes we've always dreamed of and some of us have long-term goals like buying our first home or a car. The thought may be daunting whether or not you're in sex work and can overwhelming which is exactly the reason why I invited our guest, Lindsey Swanson of Stripper Financial Planning. Lindsey started her firm, Stripper Financial Planning after getting fed up with the corporate world and really wanting to help people who really needed it. Her goals didn't align with the old school, old boys' style of financial corporations so she left and started her own company. Lindsey offers financial assistance on taxes, real estate planning, and health insurance for sex workers and those outside of the community. Have a call with her if any of these are on your brain! www.stripperfinancialplanning.com @stripperfinancialplanning twitter.com/strprfinplan Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! @strippedbysia @siasteph twitter.com/strippedbysia Patreon.com/strippedbysia www.stephsia.com

6 Mars 20221h 9min

***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of rape/sexual assault.*** I'm back from vacation and hastily editing this episode for y'all! Very excited to bring on my former uncle and movement and yoga facilitator, Reid McFarlane of Nude Dude Yoga onto the show today! As I continue my journey in learning more aspects of sex and erotic work, I speak to Reid on the parallels of tantric touch and erotic body work. We go into a brief history of what tantric massage might entail and the spirituality and connection that's required for it. We go beyond sexual pleasure and dig deeper in finding the purpose of what tantric touch is for. Reid speaks in depth regarding what happens in a typical group session, what emotions are being tugged on, what specific areas of the body hold trauma and how best to release it using human touch. We also speak about the psychology and motivation behind Reid's version of tantric touch as well. It's a fascinatingly-long conversation that I hope you all will enjoy as much as I did! Watch the video version of this episode on my Patreon: https://patreon.com/strippedbysia @readfar twitter.com/nudedudeyoga nudedudeyoga@gmail.com Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! @strippedbysia @siasteph twitter.com/strippedbysia patreon.com/strippedbysia www.stephsia.com

27 Feb 20221h 24min