From Tantrums to ‘I’m Sorry’: Emotional Milestones Every Parent Should Know
From Tantrums to ‘I’m Sorry’: Emotional Milestones Every Parent Should Know"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!Episode Mentions:3 Phrases That Calm Toddler Meltdowns Over MistakesWhat You Do in Your Child’s 'Big Emotional Moments' Changes EverythingToday's Episode: Parents love celebrating first steps and words, but what about emotional milestones? In this episode of Toddler Toolkit, we'll talk about key emotional milestones like empathy, self-calming, and remorse. Join us as we share practical tips and real-life stories, including an embarrassing but insightful incident at Chick-fil-A, to help you recognize and celebrate your child's emotional growth. Learn how to notice and name these important skills and how to support your toddler’s emotional development. Plus, hear about special announcements including upcoming conferences and our second anniversary celebration!00:00 Introduction to Emotional Milestones01:06 The Indoor Play Place Incident04:35 Key Emotional Milestones07:29 7 Notice and Name Scripts09:40 Understanding Delayed Processing11:21 Regret vs. Remorse13:06 Supporting Emotional Growth14:46 Announcements and Upcoming Events------------------------------------------------------Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog
15 Sep 202518min
3 Phrases That Calm Toddler Meltdowns Over Mistakes
3 Phrases That Calm Toddler Meltdowns Over Mistakes"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!In this episode, Heather shares personal stories and practical tips for parents to help their toddlers build resilience. Through reassurance and a growth mindset, toddlers can overcome frustration and perfectionism. The episode includes specific scripts for parents to use, discusses common toddler struggles, and emphasizes the importance of validating emotions and encouraging retrying. Listeners will learn how early intervention can have a long-lasting positive impact on their child's development. The episode concludes with an invitation to explore further resources and celebrate the podcast's achievements over its two-year journey.00:00 Welcome to the Podcast00:02 Understanding Toddler Meltdowns01:26 The Remote Truck Struggle03:36 Teaching Moments from Accidents06:28 Validating and Reassuring Your Child09:29 Common Toddler Perfectionism Triggers12:17 Building Resilience for Life13:01 Exciting Announcements and Final Thoughts------------------------------------------------------Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog
8 Sep 202515min
Why School Drop-Off Can Get Hard & What to Do About Late Separation Anxiety
Why School Drop-Off Can Get Hard & What to Do About Late Separation Anxiety"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, we discuss why separation anxiety can show up later than expected and offer creative strategies to ease drop-offs. Sharing personal experiences and practical tips like Jobs of Connection, you'll learn how to help your toddler feel more secure and connected during their transition to preschool or kindergarten. Tune in for helpful insights and support for handling these common challenges.00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast01:10 Understanding Delayed Separation Anxiety01:42 Real-Life Examples of Separation Anxiety02:50 Why Separation Anxiety Happens05:13 Creative Solutions for Drop-Off Challenges05:39 Jobs of Connection: Practical Tips10:32 Conclusion and Additional Resources------------------------------------------------------Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog
1 Sep 202512min
The 4 Tantrum Styles: Which One Are You (and How to Handle Meltdowns Better)
Understanding Your Toddler's Tantrums: Find Your Parenting Style"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!This episode was referenced for you to also listen to: What You Do in Your Child’s 'Big Emotional Moments' Changes EverythingWhy Your Toddler Can’t Hear You in a Meltdown & What to Do InsteadWelcome to the Toddler Toolkit podcast! In this episode, we tackle toddler tantrums and the different styles parents use to handle them: the fixer, the shusher, the avoider, and the controller. We discuss why these behaviors happen, what might be missing in each approach, and introduce the balanced parent style for a healthier way to manage meltdowns. We'll also reflect on how our own upbringing influences our reactions and offer insights to help you become more intentional and self-aware in your parenting. Don't forget to grab the free guide 'Seven Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast' from the show notes.00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:22 Understanding Tantrum Styles04:02 The Fixer Tantrum Style07:45 The Shusher Tantrum Style13:01 The Avoider Tantrum Style15:13 The Controller Tantrum Style18:01 Becoming a Balanced Parent22:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!------------------------------------------------------Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog
25 Aug 202525min
Why Your Toddler Can’t Hear You in a Meltdown & What to Do Instead
Why Your Toddler Can’t Hear You in a Meltdown & What to Do Instead"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!This episode was referenced for you to also listen to: What You Do in Your Child’s 'Big Emotional Moments' Changes EverythingIn this episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, we dive into the power of holding space for your toddler's big emotions without trying to fix or debate them. Learn three core practices: holding space, matching and leading the energy down, and repairing over perfection. Discover practical steps to calm your child's nervous system, turning meltdowns into teachable moments. Get insights on how to use your presence, body language, and tone to create safety and connection. Plus, hear a real-life story about handling playground dynamics effectively. For more resources, check out the free guide on solving toddler struggles in the show notes.00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:03 Understanding the Power of Holding Space00:52 Mindset Shift: You Don't Have to Fix Every Meltdown01:50 Core Practice 1: Holding Space05:32 Core Practice 2: Match, Then Lead the Energy Down06:45 Core Practice 3: Repair Beats Perfection08:15 Real-Life Example: Holding Space at the Park12:22 Five Lessons from the Story15:47 Final Thoughts and Resources"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!------------------------------------------------------Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog
18 Aug 202518min
Bribes vs. Earning: Get Your Toddler to Cooperate Without Candy
Bribes vs. Earning: Effective Toddler Parenting Strategies"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Listen to this episode that pairs with this one, Get Your Toddler to Cooperate Without Bribes or ThreatsIn this episode of the Toddler Toolkit Podcast, we explore the critical difference between bribing and helping toddlers work towards something. The podcast covers why this distinction matters, real-life examples, and effective strategies to foster intrinsic motivation in children. We also discuss why bribes often backfire, the hierarchy of motivation, and provide practical tips from the host's background as a special education teacher and toddler parenting coach. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview01:13 Understanding Bribes vs. Earning Rewards03:01 Examples and Real-Life Analogies05:42 Proactive Strategies and Habit Building16:31 Hierarchy of Motivation19:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!------------------------------------------------------Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog
11 Aug 202522min
Why Your Toddler Isn’t Talking More & What You Can Do About It w/ Paige O'Dwyer
Why Your Toddler Isn’t Talking More & What You Can Do About It w/ Paige O'DwyerIn this episode of Toddler Toolkit, Heather chats with Paige O'Dwyer, a speech language pathologist and the founder of Talk First Words.Paige shares her journey into the field and how her platform helps parents empower their late talkers. With insights into how parents can turn daily routines into language-building opportunities, she explains the benefits of a parent coaching model over traditional speech therapy. Paige also touches on the importance of early intervention and offers practical, easy-to-implement tips for nurturing communication skills in toddlers. Don't miss out on her valuable advice and resources!00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:02 Meet Paige O'Dwyer: Speech Language Pathologist and Founder of Talk First Words00:39 Paige's Journey into Speech and Language Development01:25 The Birth of Talk First Words02:10 Challenges and Innovations in Speech Therapy04:11 Inclusive Play School: Partners in Play06:05 Motherhood and Its Impact on Paige's Work07:53 Common Mistakes Parents Make in Speech Development14:32 The Power of Parent Coaching19:25 Balancing Speech Therapy with Everyday Life24:09 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Parents28:08 Where to Find More Resources and Connect with PaigeConnect with Page, send her the word "toolkit" on Instagram for her special toddler toolkit bundle for our listeners. ➤ Instagram: @talkfirstwords ➤ Website: www.talkfirstwords.com------------------------------------------------------Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog
4 Aug 202533min
Get Your Toddler to Cooperate Without Bribes or Threats
How to Get Your Toddler to Cooperate Without Bribes or Threats!"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Welcome to the Toddler Toolkit podcast! In this episode, we explore how to get your toddler to cooperate without using bribes or threats. Learn practical strategies for setting clear expectations and creating cooperation before conflict ever starts. I'll share my personal experiences with my own toddler twins, especially in challenging situations like grocery store visits. We'll discuss the common pitfalls of relying on consequences, threats, and bribes, and why being proactive is the game-changer. Don't forget to check out the link in the show notes for more tools and strategies!00:00 Introduction to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:37 The Power of Setting Clear Expectations01:52 Reality Check: The Role of Consequences03:00 Proactive Strategies in Action04:17 Grocery Store Example: Setting Expectations09:52 The Importance of Clarity and Roles10:57 Contrasting Threats and Bribes12:21 Real-Life Analogies: Why Bribes and Threats Fail16:08 Building Habits and Skills Over Time19:04 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!------------------------------------------------------Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog
30 Juli 202522min
