#78: Spilling the Tea on DL Men | Secrecy, Denial, & Desire

#78: Spilling the Tea on DL Men | Secrecy, Denial, & Desire

I think we've all been there before - hooked on a DL guy. The true question becomes, "what is so exciting about a DL guy!?" Why do we allow ourselves to fall in love or get emotionally involved with men who are not emotionally available? In the episode we will explore the sub-culture of DL men, their impact on the Gay & Bi Community, and how we can better navigate connections with men who are not out of the closet.


If you have ever had an experience with a DL man, you'll want to stick around for this episode! So, join me as we discuss the DL man.


Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction

02:00 What Is a DL Man?

04:45 If You're DL, I'm Not Judging You

06:00 A Message to DL Men

10:40 The Reality of Grindr

12:43 There's a Difference Between Exploration and Exploitation

13:35 The Reasons You're Attracted to DL Men

14:05 How to Avoid Being Hurt By a DL Man


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#83: Sexual Health Secrets Every Gay & Bi Man Should Know

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