EP02: Taxiing My Way Through Life

"Have you ever looked back at your childhood dreams and wondered what if?" This thought-provoking question opens the second episode of "Scott Asmar, The Man and Everything in Between." In this episode, Scott Asmar delves into the tapestry of his life, starting from his roots in a small town in the Central Valley, where he was raised by young parents with a rich blend of Armenian, Lebanese, and Spanish heritage. As an only child, Scott found a unique sense of belonging and comfort in his extended family, particularly cherishing his connections with his second cousins.

Reflecting on the solitude of his rural upbringing and the challenges of being bullied in school, Scott reveals how these experiences shaped his resilient and imaginative spirit. His childhood, though marked by loneliness, became a crucible for his rich imagination, fueled by his faith and his fascinating world of imaginary friends.

A constant thread in Scott's life story is his enduring fascination with aircraft, a passion that has not only stayed with him but also serves as a metaphor for life's journey. Scott eloquently compares our life stages to the phases of an aircraft's journey - the waiting, taking off, landing, and refueling, highlighting how each stage mirrors our own life experiences.

Now at 55, Scott stands at a pivotal moment, ready to embrace his long-held dreams and aspirations. He inspires listeners to revisit their childhood passions, sharing his own story of pursuing a Ph.D. in psychology counseling, a path that diverged from his family's agricultural background but led him to find true fulfillment. His journey is a testament to the importance of following one's passion, even when it diverges from expected paths.

In this episode, Scott passionately advocates for the rediscovery and cultivation of passions, especially in midlife. He believes that the zeal and energy of our youth can be rekindled, sharing his personal decision to embark on an acting career at the age of 55, a dream he had long harbored.

Concluding with a powerful message, Scott encourages listeners to open the doors to self-awareness and to embrace their desires and dreams, irrespective of their age. He reminds everyone that it's never too late to recalibrate and embrace new opportunities for growth. The episode ends with an invitation to engage with the podcast and to follow Scott on Instagram for more personal insights.

In this deeply personal and inspiring episode of "Scott Asmar, The Man and Everything in Between," Scott explores the critical theme of revisiting and revitalizing one's life in midlife, encouraging a journey of rediscovery, passion, and personal growth.

Quotes:

“The best way to find out what that dream is, what that aspiration is, is to look back at your childhood and reflect on what motivated you as a child. What type of play did you engage in? And what type of atmosphere did you thrive in? Even if that atmosphere was sports, you know, what in itself with the sporting that you chose, what motivated you? OK, what drew you to that sport? That in itself can reveal something about you and your passion.” (11:04 | Scott Asmar)

“I believe that whatever drove us as a child, whatever we engaged in our play as a child, as adolescent, whatever we thought, whatever we felt gave us this energy, I don't think really ever leaves no matter what path we decide to take. And I believe that we need to find a way, especially in midlife, especially with the midlife man, that it's okay to go back and find that passion and look at that passion and foster it now and foster it and give it some life in a physically and mentally healthy way.” (15:37 | Scott Asmar)

“Many go through life looking at everything, yet seeing nothing. And I want you to see everything.” (17:40 | Scott Asmar)

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