106. 30-phobia and milestone anxiety - A conversation with Kate Berski

106. 30-phobia and milestone anxiety - A conversation with Kate Berski

Do you feel a looming pressure to 'get your shit together' by a certain age? Maybe it's a pressure to find a romantic partner...Buy a house...Get married...Have a child... Do you often compare yourself to other people? Like your brain is cataloguing all their milestones, just to tell you how far behind you are? In today's episode - I have a conversation with the amazing Kate Berski - author of 30 Phobia. And we'll be digging into: Her experience with fear and dread about turning 30Milestone...

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118. Turning relationship fears into courage

118. Turning relationship fears into courage

Anyone who has ever felt anxiety in their relationships will know what it's like to feel constantly afraid. To fear what other people might be thinking of us... To fear what our partners or friends ...

17 Jan 202521min

117. The 4 types of responses we can get when we make a request (and how to handle each)

117. The 4 types of responses we can get when we make a request (and how to handle each)

Ever make requests of your partner (or friend / family member) and maybe they agree to do it... but they don't really do it the way you hoped? Maybe you ask them to plan more romantic date nights - a...

10 Jan 202525min

116. Stop letting your story about the past ruin your relationships

116. Stop letting your story about the past ruin your relationships

Our brains are always constructing a narrative. We make meanings out of the things that have happened in our pasts, and then these stories shape and distort the way we think about situations in our ...

3 Jan 202524min

115. Dealing with unmet expectations

115. Dealing with unmet expectations

Do you feel a little frustrated, disappointed or let down by some of the people in your life right now? Maybe you had expectations of how certain relatives or loved ones would behave over Christmas, ...

27 Dec 202423min

114. Boundaries and regressing around family (Holiday special)

114. Boundaries and regressing around family (Holiday special)

Feeling dread as Christmas approaches? Worrying about spending time with family members and feeling triggered?Have you done a lot of work on yourself this year, and fear that it may all fly out the wi...

20 Dec 202411min

113. If it's not my partner's job to 'make me feel good', what's the point of relationships? (BLAST FROM THE PAST)

113. If it's not my partner's job to 'make me feel good', what's the point of relationships? (BLAST FROM THE PAST)

This week, I'm resharing one of my older episodes which answers a really common question I get when I teach people that their partners don't create their feelings.People ask me: 'But if my partner isn...

13 Dec 202417min

112. Our obsession with ‘red flags’ (and why it’s unhelpful)

112. Our obsession with ‘red flags’ (and why it’s unhelpful)

Do you see posts on Instagram about red flags and instantly feel the pit of anxiety in your stomach? Are you often worried about missing the signs that your partner isn't trustworthy? And have you ...

6 Dec 202423min

111. Breaking the pattern (navigating reoccurring issues)

111. Breaking the pattern (navigating reoccurring issues)

Do you and your partner often have the same fight over and over? Or is there an issue you have with a friend that has been happening for a while now - and you just can't seem to break the cycle? Do ...

29 Nov 202423min

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