College Counselor Dr. Bari Norman: What Students & Parents Need to Know Now

What happens when a high school feminist meets an unsupportive teacher—and decides to speak her truth anyway?

College admissions expert and co-founder of Expert Admissions, Dr. Bari Norman, shares her journey from a misunderstood Miami teen to a leading college counselor who's helped countless students find their perfect fit. Dr. Bari Norman reveals how an independent counselor changed her life trajectory, why she chose Barnard against all her original criteria, and how her parents' unconditional love shaped her philosophy of zero judgment. With COVID-19 upending the college admissions process, Bari offers timely advice on deferrals, campus life, and making decisions without enough information.

She discusses the importance of asking students what they don't like about schools, why great college essays come from thoughtful reflection, and how this historic moment could actually create stronger bonds among incoming first-year classes. Perfect for parents, high school students, and anyone navigating uncertainty.


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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - Intro & New York quarantine experience
2:40 - Parenting through COVID-19
3:53 - Growing up in Miami & wanting to leave
6:45 - Beth Wald: The counselor who changed her life
9:56 - Barnard: Finding her perfect fit
13:09 - Struggling freshman year & transfer applications
19:41 - Growth through challenge & accountability
22:41 - Parents' unconditional love & no judgment
26:31 - Mother's contentment & father's self-judgment
30:20 - The D in math & "did you try?"
34:43 - Using personal experiences to counsel students
39:08 - Handling overachieving parents & students
42:59 - Integrity in choosing clients
46:14 - COVID impact on college admissions
50:50 - Range of students & learning differences
54:25 - No judgments & honoring student differences
57:28 - Admissions panel insights on COVID-19
1:01:09 - Historical parallels: 9/11, Katrina & resilience
1:04:41 - Great college essays from thoughtful reflection
1:06:04 - Acceptance & making decisions without full information
1:09:03 - Patience & leaning into uncertainty
1:10:21 - Outro & closing

QUOTES:

"I always say to people that you have to think about the fall, right? When nobody gives a sh*t about where you are and they're focused on themselves, it will not matter what the name is on the gate."
- Dr. Bari Norman

"Relationships don't die, people do, but connections don't."
– Dara Levan