Ep.41: Raising LGBTQIA+ Allies with Chris Tompkins

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠In this episode, bisexual sex expert Zachary Zane shares how to release sexual shame and fully embrace our sexuality. Specifically, in the episode we talk about the reasons people slut shame, how sexual shame negatively impacts our sex and relationships, the reason many people can’t get their heads around bisexuality, ways of dealing with rejection coming from friends and family, and tips and resources on finding a sex-positive therapist.    About Me  I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.  Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/   About Zachary Zane  Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ community. He is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto, coming out on May 9th. He’s also the co-author of Men’s Health: Best. Sex. Ever.   He currently has two columns: “Sexplain It” the sex and relationship advice column at Men’s Health and “Navigating Non-Monogamy” at Cosmo, where he shares all the mistakes he’s made in his polyamory journey, so you don’t have to.   He is also the founder and editor-in-chief of Boyslut zine, which publishes real sex stories from kinksters worldwide. His work has been published in The New York Times, Rolling Stone, The Washington Post, GQ, Playboy, Slate, Cosmo, Bustle, VICE, NBC, Dazed, The Daily Beast, and many others.  Zachary's website: https://www.zacharyzane.com/Zachary's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zacharyzane_/Zachary's book BOYSLUT: amazon.com/Boyslut-Memoir-Manifesto-Zachary-Zane/dp/1419764713/ Connect With Me  Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  Website: https://georgelizos.com/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/  My Books  Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

28 Apr 202342min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠In this episode, I talk with trans author Alex Reegan about his journey of coming out and reclaiming his faith. Alex and I talk about his transitioning journey, the dynamics between gender, sex, and sexuality, the true meaning of the word queer, ways of dealing with friends and family rejecting your gender and sexuality, and how Alex reconciled his faith following his transition.   About Me  I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.  Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/   About Alex Reegan  Alex Reegan is an author, interfaith minister, speaker, and transformative spiritual coach who uses his intuitive wisdom to help guide people towards their own inner knowing. Born into an evangelical Christian family that prevented his true identity as a trans man from emerging, he spent years in depression, anxiety, and addiction trying to break free of the oppressive beliefs that bound him. His journey at last led him to sobriety, shamanism and then seminary, which helped him reclaim his faith and trust in the Divine. Through speaking engagements, workshops, one-on-one and group sessions with clients, Alex is profoundly dedicated to helping others speak their truth, release shame, and find oneness.  Alex's Website: https://www.alexreegan.com/Alex's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revreegs/What Needs To Be Said: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401971172?th=1&psc=1&geniuslink=true Resources Mentioned  Lit Up Lightworker Podcast episodes:  Akashic Records: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-lit-up-lightworker-podcast/id1438539230?i=1000570325711  Manifestation: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-lit-up-lightworker-podcast/id1438539230?i=1000579219858  Connect With Me  Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  Website: https://georgelizos.com/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/  My Books  Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Apr 202345min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠In this episode, psychotherapist and author of Polysecure Jessica Fern and I discuss the various dimensions of Consensual non-monogamy. Jessica shares whether polyamory is a privilege or whether everyone can do it, the connection between polyamory and trauma, and how to enter open relationships without hurting our partners. Finally, Jessica shares a six-step process of creating secure attachment styles with multiple patterns.  About Me  I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.  Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/   About Jessica Fern Jessica Fern is a Psychotherapist, Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Jessica is the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonomgamy and The Polyseucre Workbook: Healing Your Attachment and Creating Security in Loving Relationships. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love.    Jessica’s website: http://jessicafern.com/ Polysecure: https://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987/  Polywise: https://www.amazon.com/Polywise-Deeper-Dive-Navigating-Relationships/dp/1990869149/   Connect With Me  Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  Website: https://georgelizos.com/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/  My Books  Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

14 Apr 202342min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠In this episode, Dr. Lucas Wilson shares his experience in surviving conversion therapy. Growing up in evangelical Christianity Lucas struggled to accept his queerness. Overwhelmed with shame, he signed up for conversion therapy at the fundamentalist Christian Liberty University he was a student at. Lucas shares the details of the practices he had to go through, his journey of coming out and accepting his gayness, and his work in helping Christians reconcile their faith and sexuality.   About Me I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.  Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/   About Dr. Lucas Wilson Dr. Lucas Wilson is the Justice, Equity, and Transformation Postdoctoral Fellow at University of Calgary. He holds graduate degrees from McMaster University, Vanderbilt University, and Florida Atlantic University. His current research focuses on homophobia, evangelicalism, and Christian fundamentalism, and he is currently putting together an edited collection of conversion-therapy narratives as told by conversion-therapy survivors. He is not only the author of numerous academic articles and book chapters, but moreover, his public-facing work has appeared in The Advocate, Queerty, LGBTQ Nation, and Religion Dispatches, among other venues. You also may have seen him competing on Netflix's Cook at All Costs (season 1, episode 7)!  Lucas’ academic work: https://ucalgary.academia.edu/LucasWilson Lucas’ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukeslamdunkwilson/   Connect With Me Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  Website: https://georgelizos.com/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/  My Books Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Apr 20231h 10min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠In this episode, gay anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein busts myths and shares best practices for safer bottoming. Listen to the episode to learn about the anatomy of the anus, anal care practices before, during and after sex, how often you should douche and the risks of over-douching, how to safely practice rimming and prostate play, and what anal Botox is and whether you need it.   About Me  I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.  Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/   About Dr. Evan Goldstein  Dr. Evan Goldstein is a sexual health and wellness expert, anal surgeon and Co-founder of Future Method, a science-bases sex care brand that was developed as a result of the issues he saw with his patients at his private practice, Bespoke Surgical. He saw that many of his clients weren't engaging safely or using beneficial methods to prepare for engagement. This led to the development of Future Method, and Dr. Goldstein's mission to educate all communities on safe (and fun) anal engagement.   Dr. Evan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein/ Bespoke Surgical: https://bespokesurgical.com/  Future Method: https://futuremethod.com/ -  Dr. Evan’s anal dilator set: https://futuremethod.com/products/glass-anal-dilator-set Dr. Evan’s Butt Gut Daily Fibre: https://futuremethod.com/products/butt-gut-daily-fiber   Connect With Me  Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  Website: https://georgelizos.com/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/  My Books  Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

31 Mars 202354min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠In this episode, I chat with reality star, content creator, and host of the popular gay podcast Gays In The Wild (previously Travelin Bum and Behind the Bum), Jeff Perla. Jeff and I chat about the importance of talking openly about sex, the main issues we face in the gay community (primarily how our lack of presence hinders connection), and how to use other people’s judgements to fuel our purpose.   About Me I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/   About Jeff Perla Jeff Perla is the Amazon Prime star of The One That Got Away, content creator, and host of the popular gay podcast Gays In The Wild (previously Travelin Bum and Behind the Bum). Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeffperlaa/  Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gays-in-the-wild/id1456057533  The One That Got Away: https://www.amazon.com/One-That-Got-Away-Season/dp/B09ZHMJZGX   Connect With Me Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  Website: https://georgelizos.com/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/  My Books Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

24 Mars 202343min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠What are the trendiest gay sex toys to spice up your sex life? What’s selling and what’s not? Will sex toys eventually replace physical connection? Should they? In this episode, I chat with one of my best friends and manager of Europe’s business gay sex shop in Soho, London. Agnetas shares the latest trends with gay sex toys as well as an AI sex toy that’ll shake up your sex life!About MeI’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/About Agnetas SergejevasAgnetas Sergejevas is a Lithuanian-born Londoner running the busiest gay sex shop in Europe, in Soho, London. He’s passionate about traveling and spirituality, and the proud dad of Hugo the Maltese.Follow Agnetas on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agnetassrg/Connect With MeInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/My BooksBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17 Mars 202339min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠Are straight men who have sex with men closeted gay or bi? In this episode, clinical sexologist Dr. Joe Kort shares the difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation, shedding light on this phenomenon. We also discuss heteroflexibility and homoflexibility, why straight men enjoy anal play, and four questions to determine someone’s sexual orientation. Dr. Joe Kort also shares how toxic masculinity limits straight men’s sexuality, and why Generation Z are more sexually fluid.About MeI’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.About Dr. Joe KortDr Joe Kort is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops. specializes in marital problems and conflicts; mixed orientation marriages; male sexuality and sexual health concerns; “sex addiction,” out-of-control sexual behaviors; sexual identity issues; and childhood sexual abuse.Erotic Orientation book: https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Orientation-Helping-Individuals-Understand/dp/0997389850/Connect With MeInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/My BooksBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Mars 202322min