Bonnie Badenoch on the Myth of Self-Regulation, Part One
Attachment Theory in Action26 Feb 2019

Bonnie Badenoch on the Myth of Self-Regulation, Part One

Welcome to Attachment Theory in Action! Our podcast is dedicated to therapists, social workers, counselors and psychologists who are working with clients from an attachment-based perspective. Interviews are conducted with individuals who are doing clinical work as well as leading attachment theory researchers.

Your host, Karen Doyle Buckwalter will introduce you to Bonnie Badenoch, who will explore the myth of self-regulation. This week's episode is the first in a two-part series with Ms Badenoch, so be sure to tune in next week for part two!

Bonnie Badenoch, LMFT, therapist, mentor, teacher, and author, has spent the last 15 years integrating the discoveries of relational neuroscience into the art of therapy. In 2008, she co-founded the nonprofit agency Nurturing the Heart with the Brain in Mind to offer this work to the community of therapists, healthcare providers, and others interested in becoming therapeutic presences in the world. For 25 years, she has supported trauma survivors and those with significant attachment wounds to reshape their neural landscapes for a life of meaning, resilience, and warm relationships. These days, Bonnie takes joy in offering immersion trainings for therapists and others. These year-long groups cultivate the capacity for presence through the development of deep listening and the embodiment of the principles of interpersonal neurobiology. Her conviction that wisdom about the relational brain can support healing experiences for people at every age led to the publication of Being a Brain-Wise Therapist: A Practical Guide to Interpersonal Neurobiology in 2008 and The Brain-Savvy Therapist’s Workbook in 2011. Bonnie’s latest writing is The Heart of Trauma: Healing the Embodied Brain in the Context of Relationships (2017). These books seek to build a bridge between science and practice with clarity, compassion, and heart.

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Connecting with All Children: Bethany Hall

Connecting with All Children: Bethany Hall

This week, Kirsty welcomes Bethany Hall, a licensed family nurse practitioner and foster and adoptive mother, to the podcast for a conversation about children with difficult behaviors. Together, they talk about attachment and different ways to support your child through their struggles.   Show Notes:  https://link.edgepilot.com/s/a9b71ebe/n-Q5cx_KoUiEOcyXDgp3eg?u=https://chosen.care/displacing-shame/ https://link.edgepilot.com/s/fd05e58f/B0zY2Qz18kaijDBd6TQoug?u=https://chosen.care/services/training/ https://link.edgepilot.com/s/f8bd3bb9/UIAE-_DupE_9udJ3eXMniw?u=https://www.facebook.com/chosen.care/ https://link.edgepilot.com/s/9c2977f2/BNwdpegOl0m-yGWzG_tmnA?u=https://www.instagram.com/chosen_care/ https://link.edgepilot.com/s/17ba5242/V9y2uYs75EGE-Zd7Aq6_VQ?u=https://www.linkedin.com/company/chosencareinc/  https://www.attachmenttheoryinaction.com/  https://www.tkcchaddock.org/events/atiawebinar/  https://shop.tkcchaddock.org/  https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19Xm5Nhk2K/  https://www.facebook.com/TKCChaddock https://www.linkedin.com/company/tkcchaddock/posts/?feedView=all https://www.instagram.com/tkcchaddock https://www.facebook.com/krugglesatchaddock https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstynolan84/

13 Maj 47min

Early Trauma Protocol - Part 2: Dr. Rachel Aarons

Early Trauma Protocol - Part 2: Dr. Rachel Aarons

Today, Kirsty welcomes back Dr. Rachel Aarons, a psychotherapist, certified EMDR therapist and author, for a conversation about early trauma protocol and the different techniques that Dr. Aarons uses in her work.   She also provides insight into her Practicum Training for therapists and clinicians. More details on the next CE credit approved training in the spring can be found at earlytraumaprotocol.com. You will also find access to Dr. Aarons upcoming free webinar on her website   Show Notes:  https://www.rachelaarons.com/about-the-author2.html https://www.earlytraumaprotocol.com/ https://www.attachmenttheoryinaction.com/  https://www.tkcchaddock.org/events/atiawebinar/  https://shop.tkcchaddock.org/  https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19Xm5Nhk2K/  https://www.facebook.com/TKCChaddock https://www.linkedin.com/company/tkcchaddock/posts/?feedView=all https://www.instagram.com/tkcchaddock https://www.facebook.com/krugglesatchaddock https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstynolan84/

29 Apr 44min

Caring for the Neuro-Diverse Child: Mandi Freger

Caring for the Neuro-Diverse Child: Mandi Freger

This week, Kirsty speaks with Mandi Freger, author of "From Exhausted to Energized" and a licensed behavioral specialist and licensed professional counselor. Together, they speak about children with mental illnesses with a focus on ASD, energy psychology, and ways to help your child through their difficult behaviors.   Show Notes Get Mandi's Book! https://link.edgepilot.com/s/f499c0c8/9PoHSmJjNkqyZ0jKK_W5Lg?u=http://www.mandifreger.com/ https://link.edgepilot.com/s/4cf16363/zNuXqkVI90WXXiVjEcjOjg?u=https://www.facebook.com/mandifreger https://link.edgepilot.com/s/ce69036a/Ye2teQ3J-ESexIZTRvrhxA?u=http://www.linkedin.com/in/mandifreger https://www.attachmenttheoryinaction.com/  https://www.tkcchaddock.org/events/atiawebinar/  https://shop.tkcchaddock.org/  https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19Xm5Nhk2K/  https://www.facebook.com/TKCChaddock https://www.linkedin.com/company/tkcchaddock/posts/?feedView=all https://www.instagram.com/tkcchaddock https://www.facebook.com/krugglesatchaddock https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstynolan84/

15 Apr 47min

It Doesn't Have to be Catastrophic: Dr. Nima Rahmany

It Doesn't Have to be Catastrophic: Dr. Nima Rahmany

In this episode, Kirsty sits down with Dr. Nima Rahmany, a previous chiropractor who is now a leading expert in shadow work, emotional regulation and healing attachment wounds. Together, they talk about his healing journey and how to create deeper connections in relationships.   Show Notes:  Take the Attachment Style Quiz! https://link.edgepilot.com/s/bc9a349c/PFxK6ZmAn0G3duKrpw-ZmQ?u=https://www.facebook.com/drnimarahmany/ https://link.edgepilot.com/s/1e7ada24/2qn_s2hN-0ehZRCgRfqoQw?u=https://www.instagram.com/drnima/?hl=en https://link.edgepilot.com/s/88ff8d41/x6fboMgJ6kyIV2a7lZ7FPA?u=https://www.youtube.com/c/drnimarahmany https://www.attachmenttheoryinaction.com/  https://www.tkcchaddock.org/events/atiawebinar/  https://shop.tkcchaddock.org/  https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19Xm5Nhk2K/  https://www.facebook.com/TKCChaddock https://www.linkedin.com/company/tkcchaddock/posts/?feedView=all https://www.instagram.com/tkcchaddock https://www.facebook.com/krugglesatchaddock https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstynolan84/

1 Apr 44min

Hungry for Connection: Chef Kibby

Hungry for Connection: Chef Kibby

This week, Kirsty sits down with Chef Kibby, a biological, foster, and adoptive father with 25 years of culinary experience. Together, they talk about the parallels between hunger and attachment and how you can connect with your own children through food.   Show Notes:  chefkibby.com facebook.com/chefkibby instagram.com/chefkibby https://link.edgepilot.com/s/da007f99/D7b4OQpVNEyFVvBpRDPZvA?u=https://www.youtube.com/@chefkibby https://www.attachmenttheoryinaction.com/  https://www.tkcchaddock.org/events/atiawebinar/  https://shop.tkcchaddock.org/  https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19Xm5Nhk2K/  https://www.facebook.com/TKCChaddock https://www.linkedin.com/company/tkcchaddock/posts/?feedView=all https://www.instagram.com/tkcchaddock https://www.facebook.com/krugglesatchaddock https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstynolan84/

18 Mars 48min

Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns: Karen Pando-Mars

Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns: Karen Pando-Mars

This week, Kirsty speaks with Karen Pando-Mars, MFT, founder of the Sandtray Network, Senior Faculty at the AEDP Institute, about her new book, co-authored by Diana Fosha, "Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns."   Show Notes:  Karen's Socials: Instagram: https://link.edgepilot.com/s/4ee83593/3Jtwd8KpbUeV7oyAckZqJw?u=https://www.instagram.com/karenpandomars/ Facebook: https://link.edgepilot.com/s/0e1938b3/2ODU15VKUECxCrMhfdLF_Q?u=https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61570004499134 LinkedIn: https://link.edgepilot.com/s/1789c66e/2ieOykpph060LobTliDkJQ?u=https://www.linkedin.com/in/karen-pando-mars-3b673624/   AEDP's Socials:  Instagram: https://link.edgepilot.com/s/566bd07b/sX48N5NZiEqZVJ-ZBZyExA?u=https://www.instagram.com/aedpinstitute/ Facebook: https://link.edgepilot.com/s/1223fd69/048yVbeI606RV2_kXg50IA?u=https://www.facebook.com/AEDPInstitute LinkedIn: https://link.edgepilot.com/s/617ee07b/GGXLBBiNtEaSNvy7vfUgWQ?u=https://www.linkedin.com/company/aedp/   Norton Mental Health Socials: Instagram: https://link.edgepilot.com/s/e7064f94/q2x4dzlJ3Uy4JiZnzr0I0Q?u=https://www.instagram.com/norton.mentalhealth/ Facebook: https://link.edgepilot.com/s/d58a48c3/rPbzjyZoNUaaAyR9C4bnkQ?u=https://www.facebook.com/NortonMentalHealth/ YouTube: https://link.edgepilot.com/s/5a6120a4/FfjlobHwUk6oxSlz9gJIgA?u=https://www.youtube.com/@NortonMentalHealth   https://www.attachmenttheoryinaction.com/  https://www.tkcchaddock.org/events/atiawebinar/  https://shop.tkcchaddock.org/  https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19Xm5Nhk2K/  https://www.facebook.com/TKCChaddock https://www.linkedin.com/company/tkcchaddock/posts/?feedView=all https://www.instagram.com/tkcchaddock https://www.facebook.com/krugglesatchaddock https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstynolan84/

4 Mars 50min

Early Trauma Protocol: Dr. Rachel Aarons

Early Trauma Protocol: Dr. Rachel Aarons

Today, Kirsty sits down with Dr. Rachel Aarons LCSW, a psychotherapist, certified EMDR therapist, and author, to discuss The Early Trauma Protocol—her groundbreaking methodology for healing trauma at its roots. With over 45 years of clinical experience, Dr. Aarons helps therapists understand the profound impact of preverbal trauma by examining the earliest developmental stages of childhood. In this conversation, she shares how addressing early attachment injuries—traumas formed before conscious memory—can lead to deep, lasting transformation for both therapists and their clients. She also provides insight into her Practicum Training for therapists and clinicians. More details on the next CE credit approved training in the spring can be found at earlytraumaprotocol.com. You will also find access to Dr. Aarons upcoming free webinar on her website   Show Notes: https://www.rachelaarons.com/about-the-author2.html https://www.earlytraumaprotocol.com/ https://www.attachmenttheoryinaction.com/  https://www.tkcchaddock.org/events/atiawebinar/  https://shop.tkcchaddock.org/  https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19Xm5Nhk2K/  https://www.facebook.com/TKCChaddock https://www.linkedin.com/company/tkcchaddock/posts/?feedView=all https://www.instagram.com/tkcchaddock https://www.facebook.com/krugglesatchaddock https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstynolan84/

18 Feb 54min

Anatomy of a Meltdown: Dr. Jennifer Rosinia

Anatomy of a Meltdown: Dr. Jennifer Rosinia

This week, Jenna is back as our guest host and she's joined by Dr. Jennifer Rosinia, an occupational therapist and President of Kid Links Unlimited. Together, they break down the stages of a meltdown, explain how it differs from a tantrum, and explore ways to strengthen attachment through positive reactions to a meltdown.   Show Notes:  - Jennifer's Email https://www.attachmenttheoryinaction.com/  https://www.tkcchaddock.org/events/atiawebinar/  https://shop.tkcchaddock.org/  https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19Xm5Nhk2K/  https://www.facebook.com/TKCChaddock https://www.linkedin.com/company/tkcchaddock/posts/?feedView=all https://www.instagram.com/tkcchaddock https://www.facebook.com/krugglesatchaddock https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstynolan84/

4 Feb 54min