
I'm not a natural speaker | I've persisted through the backlash
I’ve been heckled, I’ve had audiences shout at me and I’ve had event organisers cut my microphone and ask me to leave. You may not know about the situations I faced when I took my story public for the first time at open mic events back in 2019.But I believe this is what built me as a speaker. None of this has come naturally. Here's a link to my first ever open mic - https://youtu.be/hXQvXBqfbhw?si=Jr2-agm_4ui6CqplBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9 Jan 34min

What to do if your child is sexually abused, assaulted or harassed, online or in person.
Do you know what to do if your child is sexually harassed, assaulted or abused online or in person? And I’m not talking about the logistics of reporting to the police etc. I’m talking about supporting your child as a mother, a father, a family, but also, how to support yourself as your world comes crashing down and you feel helpless reading police reports and witnessing your child going through trauma.15 out of 100 girls and 5 out of 100 boys will be offended against by the age of 16 (statistic from the National Crime Agency), so if you’re a parent then you must equip yourselves.Experts in this field, Nina Vaaranen-Valkonen and Katariina Leivo, have come onto my podcast to help us understand more.Protect children links below, Protect Children main website: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/enYou are Enough™ evaluation summary: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/2know-yae-evaluation-summaryYou are Enough™ parents guide: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/you-are-enough-guide-for-parents-of-children-affected-by-online-sexualOther useful materials: Online Safety guide for all parents: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/online-safety-parents-guide-not-just-a-deviceSupportive website for young people who carry their friend's distressing secret: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/myfriendtooOur Voice global survey for adults who have fallen victim to sexual violence in their childhood: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/meidan-aanemme-kyselyInformation regarding sibling sexual trauma/abuse (this is an area where parents feel even more alone:) https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/sibling-sexual-trauma-sibling-sexual-abuse-leafletsBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9 Dec 202459min

I've recorded my talk to Year 8 girls - please can I have your opinions on it?
Would you like to get involved in something?I’ve posted this recording of me presenting to Year 8 girls, so people can watch and give their thoughts and opinions on it. I’m aware that I’m one person, with one perspective and to make this the best it can be for young people, I need everyone to get involved. So please can I ask, for you to listen along to this and let me know what you think is working and what’s not. If you would like to watch the full version - https://youtu.be/xAgI3_m0F9g-----------------Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
26 Nov 202451min

What we misunderstand about male on male sexual violence | Interview
I asked if teenagers were less likely to be sexually assaulted than children, because they’ve developed some physical strength and that makes them less of a target for an offender.(For example, a 15-year old is very different to a 9-year old)But Dr. Kennath explained that this has nothing to do with strength or physical presence. It’s about a power dynamic and if someone gets aroused, or gets a thrill out of exploiting someone more vulnerable than them, then that is what they will do - it doesn’t matter what age they are.Dr Kennath Widanaralalage is a Lecturer in Psychology at King's College London. He researches men's sexual violence and victimisation, focusing on understanding how men disclose, seek help, and engage with support services. His work also examines criminal justice processes in rape and sexual assault investigations.Dr Kennath Widanaralalage links below,Research papers 1: https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=ASzEyVkAAAAJ&hl=en&oi=aoResearch papers 2: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/B-Kennath-WidanaralalageKings Cross profile: https://www.kcl.ac.uk/people/kennath-widanaralalageLinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/kennath-widanaralalage-phd-14468014aBelow are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
4 Nov 20241h

40-year old man arranges to meet 14-year old girl | An important listen
If you would rather watch this podcast, click here - https://youtu.be/3PqvA2JjkCoHe’s a family man with a wife and two daughters, runs a successful business and looks like a normal guy, but he’s been talking to a 14-year old online and arranged to meet her for sex in his car - but when he got there, he was caught.I’m bringing this story to you because I want those who think this would never happen to their daughter to understand that it really can - in fact, it can happen very easily.I’ve reviewed the video of the sting on my latest podcast and you should see this man’s body language when he realises he’s been caught.Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
23 Okt 202450min

Grooming a child would be easy | Have you ever thought about this before?
I’ve split the age groups into three categories, 0-5, 5-10, 10-15 and if you’re a parent, you need to be interested in this, because you cannot guarantee your child’s safety 100% as you’re not with them everywhere they go - so your next best option is to understand what they need at each age group to not be exploited for something sexual.I’ve explained everything on my latest podcast. This is worth your time. Put some priority on it please.Tickets to my sessions - https://jeremyindika.eventbrite.comSomething to Say YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialChild coalition rescue Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/childrescuecoalition/Blake Lively Speech - https://youtu.be/2u0b5RWKKJo?si=abDlsSisTelAsqILMother talking to child - https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_d4eNCI21p/My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1X: https://x.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7 Okt 202447min

Huw Edwards had 7-year olds on his phone and escaped jail | What is going on?
Huw Edwards had ‘Category A’ content (acts involving penetration) of a 7-year old on his phone and escaped jail.What’s going on? Did the judge and the courts actually watch the videos? Probably not. Because if they did, they would have realised that anyone who is aroused by this content and acts on it, deserves to face the full force of the law - a prison sentence, probation and strict monitoring for the rest of their life. They are a danger to children when they walk free. And isn’t children’s safety not our priority?But we have a problem here, because the prisons in this country are already full and we now know that only 2/10 people who are caught with such content go to prison - the rest walk free. And we haven’t even mentioned the fact that these images and videos are recordings of real children being molested/raped/abused/assaulted. Where are they all?Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
18 Sep 202448min






















