The Master's Creed
Today we want to jump back in time and share a snapshot from our past. Perhaps this is a bit of a romanticized look at the identity of a Master, you be the judge. But before we had Mottos like RACK and Safe, Sane, and Consensual there were Creeds such as these. They weren't necessarily better, they were just from a different era.
27 Dec 20228min
Effectively Processing Change
What level of intensity is your Power Exchange? How does your dynamic deal with change? Power Exchange can be messy and complicated because it involves people in a relationship. Because the more they learn and grow, people often change. There will always be things on the distant horizon that you cannot plan for because they may not even exist yet.
26 Dec 202214min
Yuletide Breeding Kink
BDSM United joins the Heathens Podcast for a special Yule celebration. We talk about celebrating this season and winter solstice from both right hand path and left hand path mystic traditions. And we talk about the best type of kink to enjoy for your Yuletime play scenes!
25 Dec 202223min
LGBTQ Definitions Part 2
BDSM's Old Guard roots were once almost entirely homosexual men. It took almost thirty years before the scene became largely inclusive of homosexual women too. And then almost ten more before opening up to a significant amount of straight people. Today BDSM is considered pansexual in that it is open to all people, therefore it is good for us to understand words you’ll hear used in LGBTIQA+ communities.
24 Dec 202217min
LGBTQ Definitions Part 1
BDSM's Old Guard roots were once almost entirely homosexual men. It took almost thirty years before the scene became largely inclusive of homosexual women too. And then almost ten more before opening up to a significant amount of straight people. Today BDSM is considered pansexual in that it is open to all people, therefore it is good for us to understand words you’ll hear used in LGBTIQA+ communities.
23 Dec 202215min
The Healing Benefits Of BDSM
The world of BDSM is broad and incredibly diverse, encompassing everything from the use of a blindfold during sex to forms of consensual torture. People with an interest in BDSM used to be considered dangerous. Today however research suggests it is empowering, therapeutic, and perhaps healing.
22 Dec 202213min
BDSM Book Recommendations
Here are my personal BDSM book recommendations. Books have been a big part of my life for a long time, there is much to learn from them. These are some of the books that I teach from, as well. If you are new to BDSM this is definitely the list for you!
21 Dec 202210min
Calling Myself Master
Today we answer the question, "Is it okay for me to Call myself Master?" We briefly look at the various origins of the word and give some sage advice for those who think the honorific may fit them.
20 Dec 20227min
