The Identity of Switch and the Role of Versatile

Kink can be both intense and a bit risky, one can become triggered from past hurt or trauma. Handling triggers in a relationship requires patience, understanding, and open communication. By following the steps outlined in today's podcast, you can work towards creating a safe and supportive environment for both you and your partner.

29 Okt 202313min

Welcome to the exhilarating week of Scorpio Season! Prepare yourself for an intense period filled with passion, depth, and transformation. Scorpio Season invites you to embrace your inner strength and tap into your innate ability to regenerate and rise from the ashes. It's a time for deep introspection, self-discovery, and embracing your true desires. So buckle up and get ready for a week of intense growth and empowerment! Based on the book "The Secret Language of Relationships" by Gary Goldschneider and Joost Elffers. https://amzn.to/3QbMqbX

28 Okt 202314min

What I commonly find is that many people's online FetLife profiles don't match the identity listed by their name. Not to mention the vast majority of people that don't even fill the profile out! We share our own tips to writing a profile that matches your identity as consistently as possible. We also share advice from Dating Kinky expert Nookie.

27 Okt 202316min

Vetting a potential play partner an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too often in today’s meet-online-first world. Before you get kinky with someone for the first time, do your homework on who this person is instead of just taking their word for it.

26 Okt 202314min

As we move from Libra season in the season of Scorpio, a heightened sense of the drama of life, both in a philosophical and personal sense, leads to an increased awareness of the dynamics of one's own existence. A highly critical attitude emerges that cuts away careless generalizations and sloppy thinking, and aims for the essence of truth. Based on the book "The Secret Language of Relationships" by Gary Goldschneider and Joost Elffers. https://amzn.to/3QbMqbX

25 Okt 202328min

Several years ago there was an internal push within the kink community to erase "Top and bottom" by those who erroneously stated "You're not real unless you are into D/s!!" Today we dispel that myth and give a crash course on Topping and Bottoming.

14 Okt 202318min

The formal lifestyle is filled with traditions and ceremonies that are seldom witnessed by the outside world and perhaps one of the most moving and meaningful is the "bonding ritual" or Ceremony of the Roses. This ceremony is steeped in symbolism and mystique. Today we explore this beautiful ritual together!

14 Okt 202313min

Do you have a spirit of submission, that is an aura or an essence of it? Is submission just something you do or is it also part of your inner being? If being a submissive is your identity, you should be developing submission in your heart. Today we give you two practical exercises you can do to immediately begin to develop your submissive identity.

22 Sep 202311min